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About Filipino maids and mainland nanny Ma Weidu seem to have a lot of say? Ma Weidu, known as "Ma Ye", was once a well-known collector, and also frankly said in the show that Hong Kong would rather have 200,000 Filipino maids than accept mainland nannies.
Once such words were spoken, many people discussed it, and everyone agreed with Ma Weidu's opinion. So, why would such a social celebrity say such things in front of the public?
With the continuous development of society, in order to improve the quality of life, many families will hire nannies, but many people reject the choice of mainland nannies and choose Filipino maids. About 350,000 households in Hong Kong use Filipino maids, accounting for about 10% of Hong Kong's working population.
"Little things" that Ma Weidu can't tolerate
The collector Ma Weidu once said something about the pattern of people in a show. He said: "Our family used to have a mainland nanny, she was diligent and hardworking, she not only had strong hands-on ability, but also cooked deliciously, but she had a bad habit, she always liked to take advantage of small advantages and take our family things. ”
Ma Weidu does not have high requirements for the nanny, usually only need to clean the house, prepare three meals a day, and those priceless collectibles should not be moved. Ma Weidu saw that he was living in a tight situation and often gave her some daily necessities, but slowly Ma Weidu found that the daily necessities at home often became fewer, and these items made Ma Weidu difficult to talk about: a head of garlic, two slices of ginger, some peanuts and rice, and so on.
Ma Weidu is a famous collector, and his house is full of treasures, but in the face of these treasures, the nanny does not take them, only the small things.
On the show, Ma Weidu said sadly about what this nanny did: "He doesn't take advantage of you, he takes some small things." If I think about it, it looks like I'm small-bellied, but it's too annoying to do this frequently, and I don't have a sense of boundaries."
One night, Ma Weidu suddenly wanted to have a drink, so she went to look for leftover peanut rice, and she found that the peanut rice was not only half less, but also half of the Maotai that she drank half a bottle. Ma Wei was very angry but calmly told the nanny: "If you have difficulties at home, you can tell me, I can find a way to help you solve it, but if you don't have this situation at home, I hope you'd better not mess with things at home."
The nanny replied awkwardly: "My family is fine, there is no difficulty." Ma Wei was disappointed to hear the nanny's answer.
Generally, if the nanny is caught stealing, he will be fired, but Ma Wei did not have it, but chose to communicate with him
"If you need something you can take, but you have to say it"
But the nanny still didn't take it seriously later, and repeatedly taught it,
Ma Weidu couldn't stand it and hated the babysitter's sense of boundaries, so he fired her
Ma Weidu once bluntly said that "spiritually poor" people should stay away, and these people who love petty theft are a kind of spiritual poor. The nanny could have relied on her own labor to buy these trivial things of life and enjoy them dignifiedly, but she always wanted to take advantage of the sheep, but she did not know that this had blurred her moral concept.
The Filipino maid is different from the domestic nanny, and the most powerful point of the Filipino maid is that they have a clear master and servant, and have a full sense of proportion.
"Filipino maid" or "mainland nanny"
Is the Filipino maid really as good as she says? There are about 300,000 foreigners in Hong Kong who work in various services in Hong Kong, and Filipino maids account for the vast majority.
Actually, until now, for Filipino maids
Highly evaluated, many of them are derived from the excessive packaging and publicity of interested intermediary companies. As for the Filipino maid, I think I can only know it if I have used it.
According to multiple channels, most Filipino women do not want to go through professional training as claimed in society, and there are no dozens of professional courses as advertised by some media.
Most Filipino maids are forced to make a living and have no choice but to go out to work, and the work of Filipino maids looks glamorous on the surface, but in fact it is constantly packaged through intermediaries.
So, since there is a great controversy between Filipino maids, why do so many people insist on paying high prices to hire Filipino maids? I think it should be related to the following points.
Filipino maids generally have a high level of education, generally have a college degree or above, have a good level of English, Filipino maids are full of English, and now their children also communicate with Filipino maids in English. You can improve your child's English speaking ability from an early age, and you can practice a little basic speaking to some extent. As an English enlightenment for children, there is absolutely no problem.
Filipino maids have a very good degree of professionalism in housekeeping, and they have basically received long-term and professional training in housekeeping and have obtained official training certificates.
Filipino maids have rich experience in childcare work and high professional quality.
The biggest rule of Filipino maids is never to sit down with their employer to eat, but to wait for the master to eat first and then eat the rest of the master's food, in the kitchen or nanny's room. If the host comes home late from overtime, leave the host with a meal. The Filipino maid never had contact with other little nannies, almost ignored the affairs outside the window, and was all focused on work.
The biggest advantage is that in Hong Kong, ordinary people must meet these conditions to hire Filipino maids: they must be permanent residents of Hong Kong, with a monthly income of more than 15,000, and at least 360,000 fixed deposit certificates or real estate certificates can also be provided.
Of course, there are also many women in the mainland who go to Hong Kong to seek a living, mainland women are cheap, hard-working, and it is also a good choice for some families whose family situation is not ideal but still needs a maid.
However, most of them will still reject mainland nannies, such as Ma Weidu does not ask much for nannies, but lacks a sense of proportion, most nannies will still do the life they desire when the owner is not there, and be their own "master" in the employer's house.
Current situation of nannies in the mainland
In addition to Ma Weidu, there are many public figures who have said about the nanny that happened to them on the show, such as the famous host Li Xiang. This nanny followed Li Xiang for sixteen years, and was also half of Li Xiang's family, but the nanny's sense of no boundaries finally made Li Xiang reluctantly dismiss him.
As a well-known public figure, Li Xiang has never treated himself badly in life, and I think we have all heard about how high Li Xiang's quality of life is.
Once Li Xiang found that the nanny was helping her stew bird's nest when she was resting, and she also secretly stewed for herself. This made Li Xiang feel very embarrassed to know.
After thinking for a while, she found the nanny and said, "Auntie, this bird's nest is what I want to eat, if you want to eat, you can tell me in advance, 30,000 catties can be deducted from your salary" The nanny knew Li Xiang's temperament very well, hearing Li Xiang's words, she immediately understood the meaning of Li Xiang's words, and since then there has not been any situation of stealing the master's things.
According to Li Xiang's revelations, their nanny thinks that she has been working in their family for a long time and is already an old man in the family, so she regards herself as the Li family, thinking that she has certain qualifications in their family, and she also speaks to her children in the educational tone of her elders
At first, Li Xiang was just a kind reminder, but later the nanny intensified and constantly interfered in the affairs of Li Xiang's family, which made Li Xiang very disgusted, giving her the illusion that she was the head of the family, as if she was the elder of her family.
However, Li Xiang finally fired the nanny, because Li Xiang because of work, Wang Shiling is usually taken care of by this nanny, once Li Xiang returned home after busy work and wanted to accompany Wang Shiling, and wanted to sleep with Wang Shiling. But Wang Shiling cried and said, "I don't want to sleep with you, what about Auntie?" I'm going to sleep with my aunt! I'm going to sleep with my aunt! After hearing this, Li Xiang quickly understood that he lacked companionship for Wang Shiling's growth, resulting in the relationship between Wang Shiling and the nanny exceeding the relationship with her.
No sense of boundaries is the norm for nannies in the mainland, and over time they consider themselves part of the family and have the right to speak. Arbitrarily interject the conversation between the owners, treat the employer's home as your own, and enjoy the quality of life of the employer.
epilogue
In today's society, there are many similar nanny incidents that occur in such as Ma Weidu, Li Xiang and others. Therefore, the current situation of the nanny industry in the mainland cannot be changed unilaterally by practitioners, but requires a change in the overall value concept of society, which can not be achieved overnight.
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