Parental love: In fact, Jiang Defu does not want his sister Dehua to marry Lao Ding

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I don't know if you have found out, in fact, Jiang Defu does not want his sister Dehua to marry Lao Ding.

In the process of Dehua's pursuit of Lao Ding, Jiang Defu's attitude towards his sister marrying Lao Ding gradually changed from support to opposition at the beginning, and even publicly stated that his sister was not allowed to run to Lao Ding's house to work as a cow and horse.

At first, I thought it was a matter of dignity, and a bunch of people rushed to marry the sister of the commander, how could they be rejected and still desperately posted? It wasn't until he saw Dehua's dream fulfilled and Jiang Defu's reluctant face found out what kind of face project there was, Jiang Defu just felt sorry for his sister who was suffering for his life.

As the younger sister of the commander of the garrison, Dehua should logically say that there should be no shortage of suitors around him, and inflammation is a common disease for most people.

And An Jie didn't mean to tie Dehua to her side, she also once said that Dehua can't follow them all her life, she also needs to have her own family. This shows that AnJie also supports Teckwah to pursue his own happiness.

However, Dehua has worked in the Jiang family for 20 years, single-handedly bringing up his 5 nephews and nieces, and did not fall in love with anyone except Lao Ding during this period.

So why didn't she choose to marry herself off? There are only two reasons, one is that there is no suitable one, that is, I did not meet what she liked. Another reason is that Teckwah treats his nephews and nieces more attentively than his own mother Anjie, and he has no time to pursue his own happiness.

Before Lao Ding went to the island, the youngest Yaning was only eight or nine years old, his brother Jiang Defu was responsible for coastal defense, and his sister-in-law An Jie wanted to realize his ideals. The two are workaholics and often do not go home.

The eldest Jiang Weiguo is only about 14 years old. The mess of the Jiang family is simply inseparable from Dehua's aunt, who obviously has the opportunity to choose to remarry at the best age, but she chose to give up for the sake of her son and nephew. Later, when she married Lao Ding, she was in her 40s.

It can be said that Teckwah has left almost all of a woman's most precious time to his nephews and nieces. Therefore, Wei Guo Weidong said that his aunt was a great hero of their Jiang family.

Later, why could Yafei say that the second generation of the Ding family agreed to the aunt's joint burial? It's not at all emotional reasoning, this thing is nothing to an adult in their forties and fifties.

At their age, what they value most is often profit and face, and the thriving Jiang family is the most worthy interest in their eyes. It is a very difficult thing for ordinary families to have a main group, but for the Jiang family, the main group is not enough.

Except for Jiang Weimin, who is not in the army system, the lowest ones in their families are the main regiment, and the three or four are just ordinary people, and they don't even have a decent job.

In the early stage, Dehua gave up the pursuit of his own happiness for his nephews and nieces, and in the later stage, he waited hard for Lao Ding, and even Zhang Guiying, an outsider, couldn't stand it and said to Dehua: "No matter how good your home is, it is not your own home after all." ”

In order to protect Dehua's reputation, An Jie deliberately kept silent and did not reveal Lao Ding's intention to reject Dehua, which is An Jie's clever point.

But in Zhang Guiying's eyes, An Jie is a complete villain. When she spoke with Wang Zhenbiao on the phone, she accused her brother and sister-in-law in front of Dehua that she would only use her and would not think about her.

But in fact, Jiang Defu and An Jie and the second generation of the Jiang family are the closest people to Dehua, how can they not think about Dehua? An Jie angrily scolded the relatives of the Jiang family: "Dehua is the aunt of this family, and she has the final say here." ”

Ge Meixia once asked a question, she felt that An Jie was quite afraid of Dehua, obviously there was no coffee, and she had to take out the jar to show Dehua. Dehua explained this way, she smiled and told Ge Meixia that she was afraid that her sister-in-law was still similar, and her sister-in-law was willing to give her everything.

Dehua made it clear in the last episode that she was afraid of her sister-in-law, the capitalist's eldest lady, when she first entered the door. But why did she dare to confront her sister-in-law later? In fact, a large part of it is cultivated in the countryside, and introverted people are easy to be bullied, which often happens in society.

Human nature is intrinsically good or human nature is intrinsically evil, there is no unified basis at all, because some people are inherently bad, and some people are inherently good, which has a deep relationship with genes, and bullying the weak is a common disease of human nature.

Teckwah has lived in his hometown for more than 20 years and naturally understands people's hearts. Honest people will be bullied, strong people will not. In order to protect herself from being bullied, she can only choose to work against her sister-in-law. Fortunately, she is lucky, when she is bullied by people in her hometown, her sister-in-law will stand up for her, and after marriage, her brother is her strength.

Wang Xiu'e's tragedy will not happen to her, because behind her stands the entire Jiang family.

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