On a sunny weekend, my daughter Wang Yi asked her boyfriend Lin Xiaodong to go out to the movies. Watching her go out with her delicate hairstyle and sweet smile, I felt that my daughter seemed to become preoccupied and always wandering.
"Dad, I'm leaving, come back early in the evening!" Wang Yi smiled and waved goodbye to me.
"Stay safe, call me when the movie ends." I patted her on the shoulder and watched her go out the door.
Wang Yi recently dated a young man named Lin Xiaodong, and according to my observations, the two have a good relationship, often dating to watch movies and shopping.
That's why I look forward to this future son-in-law.
When the appointed time arrived in the evening, Wang Yi had not yet returned the call, I was a little worried, and I called her a few times and no one answered.
"Yiyi, what's wrong with you? Did something happen? I nervously grabbed her hand.
Without saying a word, Wang Yi suddenly threw himself into my arms and cried. I chuckled in my heart, vaguely feeling that something might have happened.
It turned out that Lin Xiaodong asked Wang Yi to open a room after watching the movie, and Wang Yi refused at first, but Lin Xiaodong coaxed vigorously, saying that he would be responsible for her in the future, and finally let her nod and agree.
"Why are you so stupid, this kid is obviously lying to you, why do you believe his nonsense!" I shouted a reprimand in anger.
"I'm sorry Dad, I didn't know how I listened to him. We were all impulsive. Wang Yi cried even more sadly.
I looked at my daughter's tearful and painful appearance, and I was distressed and helpless. The original beautiful family life was shattered by my daughter's impulse, and it was difficult for me to accept this fact for a while.
Later tests confirmed that Wang Yi was indeed pregnant. I regret it a lot, if I had paid more attention to my daughter's emotional problems and given the right guidance, maybe this mistake would not have happened.
Our father and daughter were silent for a long time. I looked at Wang Yi crying, my heart hurt like a needle, and it was not my responsibility as a father.
A few months later, Wang Yi's belly was already very large, and she was panting every day with a little activity. I saw it in my eyes, and I was very overwhelmed.
One day, Wang Yi suddenly cried and came to me, it turned out that the negative man Lin Xiaodong actually changed his old love and never answered Wang Yi's phone again.
"Don't cry, with me, he doesn't want you to show his essence." I comforted Wang Yi softly.
"Dad, what should I do with this child, will he come to claim the child in the future?" Wang Yi choked up and asked me.
I was silent, and I didn't know how to answer. I feel sorry for my daughter's current situation, it is too difficult to give birth alone.
"Don't think so much, leave the matter between you and the baby to me. You need to take care of yourself now and get ready for delivery.
Wang Yi threw herself in my arms crying, I gently patted her back, and my eyes were moist. After a long time, Wang Yi gradually stopped crying, but his face was very haggard.
"Dad, I'm sorry to let you see me like this..." Wang Yi lowered his head reproachfully.
"Silly girl, you will always be my good daughter. Dad will always be with you. "I couldn't help but stroke her hair, just like she did when she was a child.
In the following days, I took maternity leave to accompany Wang Yi at home. She lay on the bed resting, and I stayed by her side; Whatever she wants, I'll cook one.
I hope that through my own company, I can make up for the hurt my daughter has suffered a little.
Finally, on a warm morning, Wang Yi successfully gave birth to a cute baby boy. I looked at my grandson's red little face and felt unprecedented joy in my heart – this is a new life that belongs to our family.
Wang Yi's mood still did not improve much after giving birth, and she locked herself in her room all day, often with a sense of sadness on her face.
One day, Wang Yi held the child and found me, and his eyes were full of tears: "Dad, what will he do in the future?" Without a father, will you be bullied? ”
I hugged her distressedly: "With mom and grandpa here, no one dares to bully our baby." Don't worry, everything will be fine.
Although Wang Yi nodded, the melancholy in his eyes could not be alleviated. I knew that as a single mom, she had a huge burden and I had to give her more support.
During this time, I began to reflect on my approach to Wang Yi's education. In the past, I was more strict with her, and I didn't pay enough attention to emotional issues.
"Dad didn't care enough about you before, and it was my responsibility not to give you the right guidance. I will take responsibility for you and the baby.
Wang Yi looked at me with teary eyes, nodded, and seemed to be relieved.
In order to let Wang Yi learn some craftsmanship, I specially taught her to make some healthy diets and accompanied her to go out to relax.
I also re-examine my role as a father, to listen to my child's thoughts and care about her inner world.
Seeing the smile on Wang Yi and the baby's faces again, I also felt relieved and relieved. The fault has been done, but I will do my best to help my daughter get through this and face life again.
Wang Yi named the child Wang Tianze, and I took care of this lovely grandson with her as she grew up. Babies are smart and clever, and often make us happy.
After two years, Wang Yi found a job as an editor, and the economic situation improved. She works conscientiously and responsibly, and has been affirmed and promoted by leaders.
One night, Wang Yi mysteriously said to me, "Dad, I may have met the right person again." ”
"Is it? Tell Dad. I asked with a smile.
Wang Yi coyly talked about his colleague Xiao Li. Xiao Li is an elite, not only has strong work ability, but also is very good to Wang Yi and Tianze.
"Dad, if we are really together, do you say Xiao Li will accept Tianze?" Wang Yi asked with some concern.
I thought for a moment and said seriously, "If he really loves you, he will definitely accept your mother and son." Don't worry, this time, your dad will help you analyze more clearly and won't let you get hurt again.
Wang Yi nodded, his eyes full of trust. I know that our relationship is no longer just about father and daughter, but more about friends.
Later, Wang Yi really walked with Xiao Li. Xiao Li not only loves Wang Yi deeply, but also regards Tianze as his son.
Our family of three returned to the old days, sitting at the table eating a sumptuous dinner, talking and laughing.
Through this series of encounters, I deeply reflected on how parents should treat their children's love correctly.
First of all, we must instill correct cognition and values in children through teaching from an early age. Tell them to cherish themselves and choose someone who truly loves them and not be fooled by external conditions.
Secondly, when children start to fall in love, we need to give appropriate care and respect. Communicate with your child more often to understand their ideas and give necessary advice.
Moreover, when children encounter setbacks on the emotional road, we must give support and encouragement. Because at this time, they need the understanding and companionship of their families the most.
Finally, when children restart a new relationship, we also bless them and give them the right guidance. Tell them to pay attention to maintenance, strive for the understanding of both families, etc.
I sincerely hope that through our words and examples, children can avoid the pitfalls of feelings and find their own happiness.