Introduction: In the Chinese music industry, there is a well-respected female singer, her name is Zhang Ye. Her musical achievements are outstanding, and she has appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala 27 times in a row. However, the female singer, who is over half a hundred years old, is still single, which makes many fans feel anxious for her.
Zhang has also experienced emotional injuries, as well as the ordeal of her father's death and her mother's depression, but she has always been strong in the face. She and her friend Lu Jihong have been with each other for many years, and although both are single, they are not eager to become husband and wife, because they know that it is more important to be with each other.
First, the past love hurt made her disappointed in marriage
Zhang also experienced a relationship that hurt her deeply. She met a male singer named Zhang Xing at a performance, and the two came together because of music. They attracted to each other, developed musically together and spent many good times together.
However, as time went by, the personality differences between the two became more and more different, and contradictions kept appearing. Finally, after eight years of being in love, they chose to break up. The failure of this relationship made Zhang also lose confidence in marriage, and she began to doubt whether she could find true love.
Second, the ordeal of family affection makes her stronger
Just when Zhang also experienced the pain of falling out of love, she ushered in an even greater ordeal. Her father was diagnosed with cancer, and it was at an advanced stage. Zhang also took his father to Beijing, pushed off many performances, and devoted all his energy to treating his father's illness. During that time, she was unusually happy with her father.
However, the death of her father brought her great sadness. The mother also suffered from depression because she could not withstand the blow. After experiencing a lost love, she had to face the ordeal of her parents. She alone endured great grief. However, it was during this time that Zhang also faced life more strongly. She knew she needed to take responsibility for her mother and herself, and she couldn't let grief overwhelm her.
Third, the friendship with Lu Jihong made her feel happy
After experiencing various tribulations, Zhang also met Lu Jihong. They met at the Youth Song Contest and became good friends because they met often. Lv Jihong is a few years older than Zhang Ye, he has a gentle, considerate and meticulous personality, and often gives Zhang Ye some care and help.
When Zhang Ye was most difficult, Lu Jihong also always accompanied her by her side. The relationship between the two has become closer and closer, they trust and support each other, and they have become "close friends in purdah" who talk about everything.
Although both are single, they are in no hurry to become husband and wife. They know that it is more important to be with each other, and they enjoy each other's company and friendship. Zhang Ye and Lu Jihong's tacit understanding and intimacy also made fans feel envious. They perform together, participate in events together, and share the bits and pieces of life together.
Under the camera, they are as close as they usually are. They also often complain about each other's shortcomings and expose each other's shortcomings in front of a national audience. Their friendship is called the "Panda Group" by fans because they are both national treasures, and because they are both single.
Mutual companionship is more important than marriage
Although Zhang Ye's relationship with Lu Jihong has been speculated and questioned, they do not care. They know that mutual companionship is more important than marriage. They enjoy each other's company and friendship and enjoy the time they spend together.
They believe that friendship can transcend the shackles of love and can be more permanent and stable. They also believe in their choices and values and hold fast to their happiness.
For Zhang Ye and Lu Jihong, mutual companionship is more important than marriage. They know that marriage is not simply a union of love and responsibility, but a complex relationship that requires mutual understanding, mutual support, and mutual tolerance.
They also know that they are not ready to enter the state of marriage and need more time to think and prepare. Therefore, they choose to accompany each other and enjoy each other's friendship and the happiness that companionship brings.
5. Conclusion: You can be happy without getting married
Conclusion: In today's society, marriage is not an option that everyone needs or wants. Some choose to be single, some choose to live together, and some choose not to marry and have children. Everyone has their own lifestyle and values that should be respected and understood. For Zhang Ye and Lu Jihong, mutual companionship is more important than marriage.
They enjoy the happiness that comes with each other's friendship and companionship, and they can be happy without getting married. Their stories tell us that love is not simply a match of age and identity, but is based on mutual respect, understanding and giving. Whether you are married or not, as long as both parties can be honest with each other and support each other, they can create their own happy life.