It is said that life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten. When faced with these unsatisfactory, some people choose to complain, and some people choose to face bravely. And often bravely facing unsatisfactory people, in the end can overcome these unsatisfactory people, and he also in this every unsatisfactory, every grievance to expand his own pattern.
What we mean by pattern refers to the depth and breadth of a person's view of things, as well as his attitude and way of dealing with problems, and a person with a big pattern is usually able to better grasp the opportunities and challenges of life, so as to achieve better achievements.
So how did the pattern come about? Some say it is the family environment, indeed, people who grow up in a loving and supportive family environment tend to be more confident and tolerant; Some people say that it is the educational background, yes, through reading, travel, socializing, etc., we can expand our horizons and increase our knowledge, so that we can make more stable decisions in the face of unsatisfactory. But the most important thing that affects the pattern is the grievances in life, the more grievances, the greater the grievances, and the pattern is naturally expanded.
How did the grievances grow up?
First of all, we need to face grievances correctly, grievances are a negative emotion, but if we can draw strength from it, we can turn it into a driving force for growth, and when facing grievances, we must remain calm, adjust our mentality, and transform grievances into motivation for growth.
Second, we must learn to learn from grievances. Every time we are wronged, we must carefully analyze the reasons and sum up the lessons learned, so that the next time we face a similar situation, we can deal with it more calmly.
Of course, we also have to take different ways to deal with different grievances. For example, when we are treated unfairly at work, we must actively communicate with leaders and colleagues to seek solutions; When we are hurt in our feelings, we must learn to let go of the past and look forward bravely.
We can continuously improve our pattern by correctly facing grievances, learning from grievances, and adopting different responses for different scenarios. A person with a big pattern can achieve better results in the journey of life, and can also experience the wonderfulness and beauty of life.
In short, no matter when and where, we must maintain a positive attitude and believe that the future will be better. In this way, we can go wider and wider on the road of life and create a better future.
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