Transcript: The whole process of a middle-aged man who receives rags gets rich, cheats, and goes bankrupt.

01

I grew up in a poor rural family.

My family has six siblings. I am the eldest, and there are four older sisters and one older brother below.

Not many children go to school here. Parents think that going to school is useless. Just know a few words. I dropped out of primary school before graduating.

My father died when I was 20 years old.

Since then, my mom has taken us out to work.

My wife and I met when we were working, both from the same town, and later developed boyfriend and girlfriend.

My brother was introduced and had a girlfriend.

At the age of 26, I got married.

My brother and I got married on the same day. In the countryside, the presence of two daughters-in-law is a good sign.

After marriage, my mother followed my brother to farm in the countryside, and I took my wife out to work.

02

When I first came out, I rented a single room in the city. There is no glass on the windows. If you use plastic sheeting to block the wind, the room will leak when it rains.

My wife and I had no education and couldn't find a job, so we went to pick up rags.

I was afraid to meet acquaintances and go out to pick them up at night. My wife said she wouldn't steal or rob, so there was nothing to be ashamed of. She treats garbage collection as a job, leaving early and returning late.

At the end of a month, they can make seven or eight hundred yuan.

When we saved enough money to buy tricycles, we stopped picking up and started collecting waste.

My wife shouted while sitting on the tricycle, and I rode to collect it.

Not long after, my wife became pregnant, did not go out, took the baby at home, and did housework. The child was born, a son.

The mother and mother-in-law hurried to arrive and waited on the moon.

Their opinions always disagree and they start to conflict.

The mother said that the mother should sit on the sand under her in the second month, which is good for her health. The mother-in-law said that it was the last era, who is still like that now?

The mother said that she would breastfeed the child at night, and the mother-in-law was worried that her wife would not rest well, so she let the child eat milk powder at night.

Because of this incident, the two old men fought.

When I got home, my mother was sitting in the yard crying, saying that my mother-in-law and my wife beat her together.

There was no way, the mother-in-law took her wife and children and left.

My wife said that she would come back after sitting at her mother's house for a month, and I agreed.

03

One night, I was about to go to sleep. Someone knocked on the door and opened it. That's my neighbor Kobayashi. She wore only one nightgown.

She said she asked me to help her change the light bulb. I ran over without thinking about anything.

As soon as the light bulb was changed, she hugged me from behind. I haven't had sex for eight months since my wife became pregnant, so I hold her.

Kobayashi lives here alone. I heard that she used to live in a big city, and now she runs a small shop.

With the first time, there is a second. Just a day later, Xiao Lin knocked on my door again.

Soon, everyone in the same hospital knew about Xiao Lin and me, and there was also a scandal behind it.

My mother heard my neighbors talking about me. She asked me to bring my wife and children back, and then go back to my hometown in the countryside to make full moon wine for my children.

Since then, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has eased.

My relationship with Kobayashi ended.

04

Two years later, my wife and I opened a scrap buying plant and moved out of the same place.

The factory is getting better and better, and I have saved some money and want to change careers.

Collecting rags is not only unhygienic, but also dishonorable to speak of.

At this time, a buddy came to me. He did engineering, all over the country and made a lot of money. He suggested that I join forces with him, but my wife refused.

Finally, I went to work on the project myself, and my wife was still running a thrift factory.

At the same time, we had another daughter.

After a few years, I also made some money on the project. I persuaded my wife to change factories and invest all the money in the project, but my wife still did not agree.

One year, because the funds for two projects did not arrive, the funds could not be opened, and I was at a loss.

My wife took out 300,000 yuan, saying that she just wanted to invest, you can lend me first, and the annual dividend must be given to her.

I'm looking forward to it, and it's just the right time to solve the urgent need.

The following year, the project made money. I returned the capital to my wife and gave her dividends.

05

Then I set up the company and hired a few new employees.

One of them, Wang Jia, is very beautiful and dressed stylishly. Soon, she became my lover.

Slowly, I began to dislike the yellow-faced woman at home, and I still worked in a dirty and smelly waste factory.

During the Spring Festival, I brought Wang Jia back to my hometown.

When my wife saw me grabbing Wang Jia's hand and directly hitting me on the head with an iron rod, my family stopped me.

I publicly announced that I wanted to divorce my wife, but she did not agree. There was a big fight at home, and the year has been bad.

My son and daughter ignored me, and my mother didn't agree to my divorce. She said she hoped that I would break up with Wang Canon and live a good life with my wife. I didn't agree.

At this time, Wang Jia was pregnant. I was ecstatic. At 43, I'm going to be a dad again.

My wife and I divorced by suing.

Two children were nominally awarded to me, but will live with her later. The scrapyard is hers, we are financially independent.

Wang Jilin and I got married.

06

The Wang family gave birth to a chubby daughter. I miss a middle-aged woman at home and rarely go out again.

This year's project in Inner Mongolia had some problems, and it took four months to deal with it.

I often video with my daughter and watch her grow up day by day.

I decided to go back and surprise them. At two or three in the morning, I arrived home. There was only my daughter and nanny at home, and Wang Jia was not there.

I got angry and called her and she said she was home. I didn't expose her.

When she came back in the morning and saw me, she was scared and nervously explained that she had gone to a friend's house to play. It was too late and she fell asleep there. I'm afraid I thought too much and didn't say so much.

Looking at my daughter, who is only a few months old, I softened my heart and could only believe it.

This is my second marriage. I'm in my forties and don't want to toss anymore.

A few days later, the construction site called again and said that something had happened.

Arriving overnight, three people died under the iron frame. Because the security measures were not done well, many people came out to make trouble.

When work stopped, workers again clamored for wages.

I called Wang Jia and asked her to transfer all the money from the family to me. I'm in a hurry here.

Since I married her, I have given her all my money for safekeeping.

Unexpectedly, Wang Jia's phone was turned off. The nanny said she didn't know where they went, and Wang Jia disappeared with the child.

Wang Jia called her mother and said not to look for her and the child again. Just as her daughter is not my child without her.

I broke down. I don't know what to do.

I called the police, but there was still no clue. I couldn't find her at all.

I had to mortgage the only two properties I had and lay things out on the construction site.

I went bankrupt and went back to my poor days.

I worked as a security guard, boiler burner, substitute driver, cleaning, digging sewers. I worked all kinds of jobs to survive, but now, when I ride a tricycle with my ex-wife to collect the rags, I'm no longer grounded.

07

My ex-wife and I have been running that scrapyard ever since we divorced.

The year before last, when I went home for the New Year, I heard that she was married to another man who opened a scrap factory, and she was doing well.

When the ex-wife got married, the mother and two sisters, as well as sons and daughters, all went.

The mother grabbed her ex-wife's hand and said: Our family is sorry for you, our family has no blessing to raise you.

Some time ago, my mother was sick, and my ex-wife went to take care of her for a few days, leaving three thousand yuan when she left.

Mom said no, and shoehorned it on her.

08

Wang took all the savings that her ex-boyfriend had taken.

When I was with her, she and her ex-boyfriend had not broken up.

She wanted to get married, but her boyfriend refused, saying she had nothing and couldn't get married.

It happened that she went to the company to apply, and when she met me, she had this idea: stay with me first, get the money, and then leave me.

I promised I would divorce and marry her. She knew I was sincere and wanted to live with me wholeheartedly.

She and her ex-boyfriend were going to break up, and he didn't agree.

She lives with me and is dating her ex-boyfriend.

After she became pregnant, she did not know who the child was.

It wasn't until the baby was born and a paternity test was done that I learned that the child belonged to my ex-boyfriend.

At that time she wanted to scam me out of my money and left with the children and ex-boyfriend.

When I was in a hurry to find a friend to borrow money for turnover, no one was willing to help me.

Maybe this is karma. Over the years, I have made a lot of money, but I have squandered it on women outside and some friends.

I went back to the rental house, but this time it was me alone.

Now, no woman wants to follow me.

Two marriages made me understand that life cannot withstand tosses.

For men, the woman's sincerity to you is the most important.

When she is willing to live a good life with you, she must know how to cherish it.