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I am Li Xiaofang, and Guo Qiang and I are fellow villagers, children in the same town. We've known each other since childhood, but it's only recently that we've officially come together and are ready to enter the palace of marriage. Guo Qiang is three years older than me and is a teacher at the town's No. 1 middle school. We grew up together and have always been emotionally close. After entering high school, I slowly fell into a crush on Guo Qiang. Last year, Guo Qiang returned to his hometown, we reunited, and he also confessed to me. Over the past year, we have maintained frequent telephone and video contact, and our relationship has become deeper and deeper. Guo Qiang recently bought a house in the city and is ready to take me to the city to start a new life. We are all looking forward to it.
According to the custom of my hometown, I had to go to Guo Qiang's house to meet his mother for the first time, and bring carefully prepared snacks and gift money to make a good impression on my future mother-in-law. The Mid-Autumn Festival is coming, so I went to the dim sum shop to customize a beautiful gift box and selected the most precious mooncakes and pastries. It's all about surprising the mother-in-law. But I didn't expect that this decision would plunge me into one of the most painful experiences of my life.
When I arrived at Guo Qiang's house, Guo Qiang's mother just lightly accepted the dim sum and red envelopes, and then gave me 300 yuan. I felt embarrassed, and Guo Qiang was overwhelmed. He took me into the living room and went to call his mother. However, when she came out, there was no expression on her face, just a faint nod. I tried to break the embarrassment and smiled and said to her: "Auntie, hello, I am Xiaofang, and I specially brought some intentions to visit you." She just said "thank you" and asked Guo Qiang to pour me a glass of water. I sat there, embarrassed, and she didn't seem to be going to make any pleasantries, and went back to her room. After a while, she took out 300 yuan and gave it to Guo Qiang, saying that it was a meeting gift. I felt even more embarrassed, and Guo Qiang didn't know what to do. Finally, I took my leave, and Guo Qiang sent me to the door and whispered that he would have a good talk with my mother.
I couldn't hide the disappointment and grievances in my heart, this meeting was simply too embarrassing. My mother was also very angry and thought that Guo Qiang's family did not respect us. She called Guo Qiang directly and expressed her dissatisfaction: "What's going on in your family? Do you really want to get married? My daughter has many suitors, not you have to be, but if you still listen to your family, give us a reasonable explanation. Guo Qiang felt sorry and promised to have a good talk with his mother.
Two days later, Guo Qiang came to me with tears in his eyes and told me that he and his mother had parted ways. It turned out that his mother had always opposed our marriage and deliberately set up obstacles. Guo Qiang now understands that he is sorry for me and my family. He said that he would no longer be influenced by his mother and would definitely marry me. I saw his sincere repentance and decided to give him a chance.
So, we agreed to go privately to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register our marriage. However, the next day, Guo Qiang's mother suddenly came to my house with a group of relatives, firmly opposed our marriage, and announced the cancellation of the wedding on the spot. My family and I were outraged. I said to Guo Qiang indifferently: "It seems that you did not treat me sincerely from the beginning, and only obeyed my mother's words. We don't need to go on, we don't have to come to me again! "I was miserable inside, but in order to preserve my dignity, I had to let go decisively. Since then, Guo Qiang and I have become strangers, and this experience has made me miserable.
My mother was angry at me, she thought Guo Qiang's family didn't respect us. She called Guo Qiang directly and expressed her dissatisfaction: "What's going on in your family? Do you really want to get married? My daughter has many suitors, not you have to be, but if you still listen to your family, give us a reasonable explanation. Guo Qiang felt sorry and promised to have a good talk with his mother.
Two days later, Guo Qiang came to me with tears in his eyes and told me that he and his mother had parted ways. It turned out that his mother had always opposed our marriage and deliberately set up obstacles. Guo Qiang now understands that he is sorry for me and my family. He said that he would no longer be influenced by his mother and would definitely marry me. I saw his sincere repentance and decided to give him a chance.
So, we agreed to go privately to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register our marriage. However, the next day, Guo Qiang's mother suddenly came to my house with a group of relatives, firmly opposed our marriage, and announced the cancellation of the wedding on the spot. My family and I were outraged. I said to Guo Qiang indifferently: "It seems that you did not treat me sincerely from the beginning, and only obeyed my mother's words. We don't need to go on, we don't have to come to me again! "I was miserable inside, but in order to preserve my dignity, I had to let go decisively. Since then, Guo Qiang and I have become strangers, and this experience has made me miserable.
Although this experience was extremely painful, it also made me more mature. I decided to work hard and live the life I wanted. Love, as important as it is, is not the whole of life. I believe that happiness awaits me ahead. I will no longer get carried away by love easily.
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