In the first class of the fifth grade of Dongguan Primary School in the quiet Luliang Liishi District of Shanxi Province, a parent-teacher meeting that should have been harmonious turned into a farce.
The parent-teacher conference invitation caused a storm
The source of everything turned out to be a parent-teacher meeting invitation. Yes, you heard it right, it's that ordinary electronic picture, in general, as long as you remember the time of the parent-teacher meeting, the matter should be over.
However, on this seemingly insignificant invitation, there is an Armageddon between parents and teachers. One female parent missed the invitation, and she could have asked other parents privately, but she chose to ask the teacher directly in the class group to send it again.
The teacher ignored her! This is because the teacher has two choices, one is not to see the parent's message, and the other is to see it but deliberately pretend not to see it. The other parents didn't help, so the parent's dissatisfaction escalated, and she began an incredible act in the class group - sending 300 repeated messages in a row!
Is it reminiscent of a child's gambling image? This practice will only make teachers and other parents more irritable, isn't this a clear expression of dissatisfaction with teachers?
Verbal wrangling at parent-teacher conferences
The day of the parent-teacher conference has finally arrived, and everyone was expecting a harmonious atmosphere. However, the female patriarch rekindled the powder keg. She brought up the invitation again and asked why the teacher didn't reply to her, which embarrassed the teacher and upset the other parents.
No matter what kind of dissatisfaction parents have with teachers, they do not want the atmosphere of the parent-teacher conference to be destroyed. As a result, one parent came forward to complain that she sent repeated messages in the group 300 times in a row, like "chasing for life". Perhaps the complaining parent's tone was not very friendly, but the female parent got into an argument with her.
During the argument, other parents also began to adopt different attitudes. Some remained silent, some picked up their mobile phones to shoot, and some stepped forward to persuade. However, all of a sudden, the female patriarch became crazy and even raised a chair to smash it at the complaining parent!
The scene was chaotic, some people screamed, some people fled the scene in a hurry!
The event escalates to an alarm
The school naturally called the police. When the police arrived at the scene, the female patriarch calmed down. School leaders also stepped in, joining police in criticizing the parent.
The school's vice principal clarified the truth in an interview, pointing out that the female parent wanted to hit other parents, not the head teacher.
The opinion of netizens
The incident caused widespread concern and shock. Whether it is hitting the head teacher or other parents, it is an unexpected behavior. After all, this is just a trivial matter, and the female patriarch's irritability is really incomprehensible.
She should have reflected on why other parents hadn't sent her invitations. Judging from her behavior at parent-teacher meetings, she seems to have been acting very unlikable and seems to have no regard for the consequences.
This is no longer just a problem of low emotional intelligence, she does not seem to be mature, still like a kindergarten child, she can do whatever she wants, completely disregarding the consequences.
epilogue
The relationship between parents and class teachers is indeed complicated, after all, no one is 100% satisfied with the class teacher, unless their child is a top student and has performed well in all aspects. In other cases, parents will always have various complaints against the class teacher, believing that the class teacher is not fair enough in many things.
However, in the class group, we still need to show respect for the class teacher. For something as small as sending an invitation again, it's best not to cause trouble for the head teacher. Once or twice may be fine, but if you do it many times, the head teacher will definitely feel irritated. I hope that in the future, everyone can face similar incidents with a more rational attitude and avoid a chair war again!