On September 22, Ella Chen Jiahua, a member of the once controversial SHE team, talked about her feelings of being called a "man's mother-in-law" for many years on a show. Ella confessed that she used to be labeled as "man-in-law" because she cut her hair short, and she was even mistakenly called "sir" by the salesperson when shopping. Regarding these labeling behaviors, Ella said: "You can't control how people see you, no matter how others label me, I just need to know myself. She responded to the words that defined her with a confident attitude and a strong heart.
Since the formation of the SHE group, Ella has always shown herself as a "tomboy" with short hair, but since she got married, she began to grow long hair and transform into a housewife, a change that caused some controversy. However, in the show, she did not shy away from these disparaging comments, but responded with tolerance and firmness.
In addition, Ella also exposed the deep sisterhood with the other two members of the group, Selina and Hebe. She revealed that when Selina was unable to work during the trough, she and Hebe offered to help Selina pay off her mortgage. She said, "It's okay, you can't pay your mortgage, we'll help you pay it." "This incident shows the deep friendship and care between them.
It has been 22 years since the establishment of the SHE group, and the tacit understanding and emotion between the members have indeed stood the test of time. Whether it is being labeled as a "man-in-law" or intimate sisterhood, Ella faces and responds with a positive attitude and a firm heart. Her words and deeds show the positive energy of an excellent self-media writer, and her story has also given people a lot of inspiration and thinking.