Speaking of Yan Weiwen, everyone must be familiar with it. He is a famous singer who has sung classic songs such as "Little Poplar", "Mother" and "Speak from the Heart", and is deeply loved and respected by the majority of listeners. However, what you may not know is that he has a more moving story: he has accompanied his wife to fight cancer for more than 30 years, never giving up, and has become an enviable and admirable couple.
Such a love story is simply a clear stream in today's society where material things are supreme, interests are supreme, and feelings are indifferent. So, how did they meet and fall in love? How did they deal with their wives' illness? What kind of happy life do they have? Next, let's unveil this touching love story together!
Love at first sight, foam at each other
The acquaintance of Yan Weiwen and his wife Liu Weixing can be said to be love at first sight. In 1972, at the age of 15, Yan Weiwen entered the propaganda team of the Shanxi Provincial Military District and became a literary soldier. There, he met Liu Weixing, also 15 years old. Because the two are fellow villagers and are similar in age, they quickly developed a good impression. Liu Weixing is a very strong and excellent girl, which deeply attracted Yan Weiwen. And Liu Weixing is also full of good feelings for the gentle and down-to-earth Yan Weiwen, and the two have feelings for each other.
At that time, because the discipline was relatively strict, the two had always hidden their love in their hearts and loved each other silently. Although the two did not break the window paper of love, they had already given their hearts to each other. It was not until 1979 that the relationship between the two finally ushered in a turning point and breakthrough. That year, Yan Weiwen entered the General Political Song and Dance Troupe, and he finally began a free love with Liu Weixing.
At that time, Yan Weiwen went to Beijing to work, and Liu Weixing went to Qinhuangdao to work, and the two have maintained correspondence, although they are long-distance relationships, but still sweet. Fortunately, Liu Weixing was transferred to Beijing soon after, and the two finally ended their long-distance relationship.
In 1982, the two finally ended their long love life, and finally entered the marriage hall and married a couple in distress. A year later, Liu Weixing gave birth to a daughter for Yan Weiwen, named Yan Jingjing. Yan Weiwen, who had a happy family, began to work hard to break into his career and decided to create a happy life for his wife and daughter.
Through thick and thin, never give up
The married life of Yan Weiwen and Liu Weixing can be said to be smooth sailing. In 1984, Yan Weiwen became popular throughout the country with a song "Little Poplar", and his career has grown vigorously, and he has sung many familiar classic songs. Until 1988, Yan Weiwen also appeared on the Spring Festival Gala, and his career counterattacked all the way. In the same year, Yan Weiwen also participated in the third CCTV Young Singer TV Grand Prix and passed all the way.
But just when Yan Weiwen's career was running wildly, a bad news broke all the beauty and peace. Just when Yan Weiwen was participating in the Young Singer TV Grand Prix, his wife Liu Weixing went to the hospital for examination because she was not feeling well, and the result shocked the couple very much. His wife Liu Weixing was found to have breast cancer, and when the couple heard the news, they completely collapsed.
Yan Weiwen, who calmed down, decided to quickly treat his wife and did not want to participate in the competition again. After his wife Liu Weixing learned that Yan Weiwen was unwilling to continue to compete, she immediately resolutely opposed it, and she did not want to delay Yan Weiwen's career. Liu Weixing said to Yan Weiwen: "You go to the competition, and when you get a good result, we will go to treatment." But Yan Weiwen disagreed, feeling that it was more important to quickly treat his wife than anything else. Yan Weiwen pleaded with his wife Liu Weixing: "No, we will go to heal now, I will not participate in this competition, for me, nothing is more important than you, I have decided not to participate in the competition." ”
Seeing Yan Weiwen so firm, Liu Weixing was unwilling to compromise, and said to Yan Weiwen very seriously: "I will actively treat a disease, which does not contradict your competition." If you don't succeed, I won't be able to close my eyes even if I die!" Hearing that his wife was so resolute, Yan Weiwen had no choice but to agree to her request and continue to participate in the competition.
Yan Weiwen also did not live up to his wife's expectations, and finally won the first prize of the professional group of national singing. After the competition, Yan Weiwen immediately took his wife to the hospital for treatment and accompanied his wife to start the long road of fighting cancer.
During his wife's treatment, Yan Weiwen has always been by his side to take good care of him, and he has never abandoned his side. After treatment, his wife's condition gradually improved. But in 1996, his wife's condition began to relapse again, and it became more serious than before. Liu Weixing, who was afflicted by illness, has become very negative and pessimistic, and she does not want to continue painful treatment. When his wife Liu Weixing was frustrated, Yan Weiwen always encouraged her and encouraged her to actively accept treatment and not give up easily. In order to establish faith for Liu Weixing, Yan Weiwen accompanied her to take drips, buy her foreign special drugs and so on. With Yan Weiwen as the support behind him, Liu Weixing began to actively receive treatment, and his mentality became better and better.
In the end, his wife Liu Weixing's condition improved again in 2003, and the couple finally breathed a sigh of relief. What made the two even happier was that the doctor said that Liu Weixing's condition was basically under control, and the possibility of recurrence was very small. And his wife Liu Weixing was able to successfully overcome the disease, and Yan Weiwen contributed a lot.
Regarding accompanying his wife to fight cancer, Yan Weiwen said: "I didn't take good care of her, I owe her a lot, and this life is not finished." After his wife Liu Weixing's condition gradually recovered, Yan Weiwen also hired a psychologist for her to help her get out of the shadow of her illness. Until now, Yan Weiwen has accompanied his wife to fight cancer for 35 years and has become a truly good man.
Happiness and respect
After the days gradually calmed down, the daughter had already grown up and reached the point of talking about marriage. In 2009, daughter Yan Jingjing married Li Hehe, the son of former foreign minister Li Zhaoxing. At his daughter's wedding, Yan Weiwen sang a song "Husband and Wife Love", and he also successfully completed his task.
Today, Yan Weiwen has been upgraded to a grandfather, and the family's life is happy and happy, and they live a peaceful old age. He and his wife Liu Weixing have been together for 50 years and have long become each other's spiritual pillars, and the two have also become a model couple.
It can be said that Yan Weiwen is a good man who is truly worth learning from everyone, with feelings and responsibilities. The so-called adversity sees the truth, and a good marriage is like this. Only when we are suffering, waiting for each other and never giving up, can we finally create a complete family and a happy life.