Author: Cui Lishan, Shanxi Datong University
Pathetic, ridiculous, pitiful, hateful.
At Chongqing Construction Science and Technology Vocational College, a woman with her child was about to enter the campus, but the security guard did not allow it, and the woman slapped him several times. Enraged, the security guard threw the woman to the ground by the neck.
The girl's mother works in the school cafeteria. When she heard that her daughter had a conflict with the security guard, she immediately rushed to talk to the security guard.
As the saying goes, things are expensive when they leave their homeland, and people are cheap when they leave their homeland. It means that after leaving home, things appear precious, but people appear lowly. No matter who it is, three points lower when going out. Strong dragons do not press the ground head snake. Women shouldn't slap security guards.
In front of parents and husbands, women can be willful, but in front of strangers, women must clamp their tails and behave. Any outsiders, the security guard is not afraid, how can they give in to a weak woman? No one is willing to lower their stature, and the main reason why interpersonal relationships are tense is this.
Many people with power in their hands, when traveling, police cars open the road, reporters follow, front and back hug, far away, show their might, and stand high. Such a performance, the people are very angry.
Bus drivers in some cities, thinking they are very remarkable, are rude to passengers. Before passengers can get off the bus, they close the door. Or, the car arrives at the station, and the passengers have not all boarded, so they drive away. Except for a few old people, no one can afford to mess with them.
In Tianjin's Haihe Park, an elderly couple is taking pictures, the husband is taking pictures for his wife, and the wife is taking pictures for her husband, like a little couple in love. I envied them, so I stepped forward and asked, "Are you a local or are you specifically visiting Tianjin?" The husband said, "What are you asking this for?" ”
The wife's attitude was slightly better and told me: "Locals. However, her expression was particularly serious, she had a strong sense of superiority, and she clearly despised me.
Also in Tianjin, I saw a beautiful woman who was about to take pictures, and she warned me: "Don't take pictures of me, otherwise I will infringe on portrait rights, and I will call the police." ”
In fact, goodness is like water. To be human should have the virtue of water. Be like water, do not fight, do not be high-profile, have an open-minded and broad mind, and have the measure of inclusiveness. Be like water, not noisy, not noisy, not noisy, have the confidence to be confident, and have the ability to adapt.
Be like water, you are high, I will retreat, and I will not drown your strengths. Be like water, you are low, and I will come and never expose your defects. Be like water, you move, I will follow, never leave your loneliness. Be like water, you are quiet, I will keep it for a long time, and I will never disturb your peace.
Be human, when you lower yourself like water. Water can only form a sea below, and mountains are not high up to the sky. Anyone who is proud and complacent will inevitably be disgusted by others and will inevitably stop moving forward.
Only by lowering one's posture like water can we be inclusive and humble, and only by being kind to others can we win people's hearts.