The Book of Filial Piety. There is a saying in the opening chapter that "the body is given by parents and dare not be damaged", which means that the things given by parents are enough and precious. You cannot harm your own body unless there is a special reason. This is filial piety. If you actively hurt it, you are insecure!
This is the ancients' interpretation of filial piety. Many people may feel that now that society has progressed, the will of the ancients has become obsolete and cannot restrain modern people. The aesthetic of Confucianism is different. If that means dedicating your life to art, there's nothing wrong with that.
They think they have the final say on their bodies and that their parents give them life so they can do whatever they want. You can't be bound by old ideas, you can't be bound by ideas!
One woman complained online that she was 38 and didn't have a boyfriend. There was once a social youth who led her to a domineering life for several years, but then he found a younger woman and left her. She soon fell into depression because her life was a mess after that and no one wanted to approach her, not even her parents
Why is that? When Summer saw the picture of this woman, I discovered her secret and understood why my daughter's parents rejected her. The reason is simple, that is, this woman came here against her parents' wishes and concealed them. "Full body tattoo"
At that time she dropped out of high school, hung out with social youth, and went down with the encouragement of several young people to get tattoos. He thought he was cool and many women called him sister when they saw him. She thought he was Hong Xing. Thirteen sisters
He lived a domineering life for several years under the control of the gangsters, and then the gangsters abandoned him. However, it is really difficult for her to find a partner because her tattoos are so scary that others cannot see her skin. , not to be taken lightly
Later, the woman went on an online blind date, 8 times in a row, but the result quickly got out of control. The reason is still the same, that is, the woman has tattoos all over her body. In addition to his face, you can tell that his skin is completely covered. How many such women agree yes, unless you have a special hobby
The woman now regretted it a little. Not only did she not have a boyfriend, but she had no other friends. Everyone will stay away from him when they see his skin. This tattoo became the dividing line between him and others. No one wants to approach him, he can only live alone
The woman had tattoos all over her body. He failed on 8 blind dates, hiding in a corner and crying. Netizen: This is a stain that cannot be washed off. It's too late to regret it now. If I know it now, why bother? I shouldn't get a tattoo on my skin. While women don't have to be bad, most people can't treat their skin that way
Daifu's position: One mistake can lead to eternal hatred. Mistakes women make when they are young have consequences in middle age. The cycle of cause and effect is an immutable truth. Women dye their skin and hair in order to live a gorgeous life. The relationship is over and he can be alone.
Maybe you can meet someone with a special hobby or someone who appreciates, but in this vast sea of people, it is not so easy. Daifuku, out of love to save his life, did not build a seven-story pagoda, but also increased the popularity of women's information on the Internet, which can also be regarded as a marriage proposal. If someone is willing to meet a woman, try your luck.
A person may be young, but he cannot be independent, let alone easily challenge moral standards. Sometimes, breaking through the blockade, he will fall into the abyss. Women are one such example. I hope everyone takes care of their bodies and does not get tattoos easily. If it's too late to regret it, it's a stain for a lifetime!