"Don't be deceived by her, what a good person in Anhui, she is a dead husband, selfish person, will do superficial work, it really harms us."
Single mothers feed their 3 children by picking mountains, breaking more than 120 pairs of shoes in 19 years, picking up more than 50 flat burdens, and sending a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses to key universities.
Even CCTV praised her as China's good mother, and was once rated as one of the top ten outstanding mothers who moved China, Anhui good person and other honorary titles, and was even written into the drama national tour.
But such a model figure was rejected and coldly looked at by the entire village, and even his uncle couldn't help but scold at the camera.
So, what's going on? What are the reasons for this?
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The death of her husband is to blame
"What if you feel sad? I still have three children to raise, I can't fall, as long as I have one breath left, I can hold on. ”
Wang Meihong is the only female porter at the foot of Qi Yun Mountain in Anhui Province.
When the reporter saw her, she was carrying 4 boxes of mineral water and iced tea up the mountain with her thin shoulders.
Her face is dark, her hands are calluses, years of hard work have long made her unable to stand upright, and her face is far older than her peers, but her smile is very simple and clean.
Seeing the reporter's arrival, she carefully put down the flat burden, wiped her sweat with a towel, and smiled at the reporter with some embarrassment.
Originally, she had a happy family of five.
In 1994, her husband died unexpectedly while fishing, leaving her with 3 children and 5,000 yuan in foreign debt.
The youngest dragon and phoenix fetus is only 3 years old, and the eldest son is only 5 years old, and he is still a blind disabled child.
All of a sudden, the burden of the entire family fell on her as a woman.
You can imagine how difficult life is for orphans and widows.
What made Wang Meihong feel even more desperate was that the in-laws blamed her for her son's death, blaming her for not letting her son go out to fish on rainy days.
After that, he directly cut off contact with her, not even 3 young grandchildren.
Under the denunciation and accusation of her in-laws, Wang Meihong became the culprit who killed her husband, and also made her an evil person in the eyes of the entire clan, that is, the villagers.
From then on, the whole village turned her away and ignored her.
My husband has just passed away, no matter how difficult it is, things must be done after his death.
Wang Meihong, who was lonely and helpless, could only borrow 5,000 yuan from her mother's family, which allowed her husband to enter the soil for peace.
After the funeral, back in the empty home, Wang Meihong, who was very strong outside, cried all of a sudden.
Thinking about the days to come, thinking about the attitude of her in-laws and the villagers, and looking at the portrait of her deceased husband, she is even more sad.
Overnight, the woman grew much older.
But she was not overwhelmed by the cruelty of reality, and even refused her mother's family's offer to let her remarry, and insisted on raising three children alone.
In the days that followed, her suffering was unimaginable.
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Porters support their families and take care of their families patiently
"I hope that my children can live a good life like other children, can carry a school bag, eat a little full, no matter how hard it is, I am willing, as long as the children are good."
In order to support her three children, she began to work as a porter at the foot of Qiyun Mountain.
Although it is tiring to be a porter, the porter's working hours are relatively free and close to home, which makes it convenient for her to take care of her three young children.
In the local area, porters are the only hard work that men do.
Qiyun Mountain is steep and difficult, and porters have to carry more than 140 kilograms of goods and walk up a 7-kilometer mountain road with more than 3,700 steps.
Wang Meihong picked a trip back and forth, and it took 3 hours to earn 21 yuan.
Such hard work, even if the man picks back and forth twice a day, he is already tired and out of breath.
In order to make more money, Wang Meihong picked three rounds a day.
In her own words, it is to make up for her husband's share.
At first, Wang Meihong was also too tired to take a break.
But every time she rested, there would be other porters passing by, and seeing others constantly walking up, she didn't dare to rest anymore, so she could only grit her teeth to catch up.
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One side of the shoulder was blistered, peeling, festering, just change the other side, it really doesn't work, so wrap it in a few more towels.
If the back hurts so much, I use the wooden board at home and tie it with rope, as long as I can use force.
Every time she climbed the last trip and walked to the bottom of the mountain, her socks and the towel on her shoulders would stick to the flesh, and the slightest touch would hurt her heart.
But no matter how hard and tired she is, she must also collect herself and adjust her mood, because there is still a tough battle to fight at home.
"Every time I come back, the child pees and all over the ground, so what to do?
I told myself that without adults around, it is very good that children can be safe, and they don't want to, they have to be patient, they can't yell or scold, the children are still young. ”
When Wang Meihong dragged her exhausted body back home, she would always see feces and urine all over the floor, and the three children who went out and locked at home were also covered in feces and urine.
Looking at the mess at home, Wang Meihong, who was exhausted, could only comfort herself while cleaning up: the child is still young, you have to be patient and don't get angry,
This kind of life is indeed too hard and tiring, and it may be difficult for many people to stick to it.
But she never complained in front of the children or scolded them.
In this way, she was a woman, and she picked it for 19 years, and the flat stretcher broke nearly 50 pieces, and the shoes were worn out by a full 120 pairs.
She said the child was her hope.
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Good people help
"I have an idea, you can see if it can be done, your two children enter the school to enroll, I will support them to graduate from college according to the amount on this payment slip, and bear the tuition fees of the two children."
"No, this is not good, the tuition fee for two children is too much, reduce a little, one is enough, the other, I can do it myself."
In the blink of an eye, the three children have grown up and are still very sensible.
The dragon and phoenix fetuses have studied hard since they were young and are in their third year of high school in key middle schools in the county.
In order to reduce the burden on his mother, the eldest son was a little older, began to support himself, went to a massage parlor in Shanghai, and became a blind massage technician.
That summer, after the college entrance examination, good news came one after another, and the brothers and sisters of the dragon and phoenix fetuses were both admitted to key universities.
The daughter was admitted to the ideal medical university, and the son was admitted to the Polytechnic University.
Seeing that the days are getting more and more hopeful, but the payment notice that followed made Wang Meihong frown.
Because at that time, the road behind Qi Yunshan was about to open, which meant that her career as a porter was also over.
Without the income of a porter, not to mention the cost of college for the children, it is difficult to maintain daily life.
But there are still many good people in the world after all.
When there was no way, a netizen from Huangshan, Anhui Province appeared.
He learned on the Internet that Wang Meihong worked as a porter in 19 years and raised three children, two of whom were admitted to key universities this year.
This netizen has also been a porter before, and he can understand Wang Meihong's hardships and difficulties in the past ten years better than anyone.
He drove to Wang Meihong's home and expressed his willingness to subsidize the tuition fees of the two brothers and sisters free of charge.
This flattered Wang Meihong.
Kindly, she quickly said that she only needed to fund one.
However, this netizen insisted that the two must come together.
The funding plan for the two children was decided, which made Wang Meihong grateful.
In this way, the dragon and phoenix fetus successfully entered the university, and the burden on Wang Meihong's body suddenly became a lot lighter.
But instead of sitting idle, she kept looking for a way out.
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Famous all over the world and touching the countrymen
"I can still move, I can't be a porter, just find something else, as long as I am willing to endure hardships, I will definitely earn money."
Since the porter's job is gone, she picks mineral water and other drinks up the mountain every day, takes it to the scenic area to sell, and earns a small income to subsidize the family.
At the same time, a news article "China's inspirational female porter sent a pair of sons and daughters to a key university" was reported by the media, and Wang Meihong received widespread attention from the society.
The Shanghai Drama Troupe even adapted the touching story of her raising three children as a porter into the drama "Picking the Mountain Woman".
Once the drama was staged, it was very popular with the audience.
The tour round after round, more than 20 performances in Hangzhou, Ningbo, Kunshan, Taicang and other cities are sold out, and it is difficult to find a ticket.
The audience was moved to tears again and again by Wang Meihong's story, and even CCTV praised her as a good mother in China.
CCTV hosts Ni Ping and Sa Bening even invited Wang Meihong to the show, making her deeds more widely known.
At this time, Wang Meihong was still carrying mineral water on the steps in the mountains and selling it.
The difference is that she has not been cared for before, and she is beginning to be recognized by tourists.
They enthusiastically pulled Wang Meihong to take pictures, chat, and specially come to patronize her business.
Looking at Wang Meihong's heavy burden, a male tourist wanted to try it.
But he apparently underestimated the weight of the burden.
After trying a few times, I finally picked it up, but I couldn't hold on for a few seconds, so I reluctantly put it down.
While giving a thumbs up to Wang Meihong, the man lamented that it was not easy for her.
In order to reduce Wang Meihong's burden, the man also specially bought a whole mention of mineral water.
Whenever she meets such a kind tourist, Wang Meihong is especially grateful, which also makes her walk more vigorously.
As Wang Meihong's deeds spread, she was named one of the top ten outstanding mothers who moved China and a good person in Anhui.
But who would have thought that these honors and titles would make her fall into a deeper nightmare.
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Resentful and abusive, pink eye offender
"Don't ask me, the next door neighbor can ask, you know, what kind of person is she?" If you say that he is a good man in Anhui, then all the good people in China are dead.
You ask her why she hurt me like this and don't let our family go. ”
Overnight, the people in the village were originally just sneering at her, but now, it has directly turned into resentment and dissatisfaction.
This puzzled the director who was shooting the documentary.
In particular, Wang Meihong's husband's uncle said that if people like Wang Meihong are called good people, there will be no good people in all of China.
They kept insulting Wang Meihong in the footage of the documentary, but when the director asked what the reason was, he never mentioned the reason for his resentment.
In the end, it was Wang Meihong herself who told the truth of the matter.
It turned out that when she went on the CCTV stage, a philanthropist was moved to tears by her deeds and said on the spot that she would donate 300,000 yuan.
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"My son is also in college and has been raising for 20 years, and I feel that we are all exhausted in the city, not to mention three children in the mountains.
On behalf of the charitable foundation founded by Mr. Cao Dewang, I would like to donate 300,000 yuan to help a group of poor mothers like Sister Wang Meihong. ”
People in the village thought that she had received 300,000, which made her in-laws' family even more red-eyed.
But the donation of 300,000 yuan was not to Wang Meihong, but to a collective of more poor mothers like her.
She didn't actually get a penny.
At the same time, over the years, whenever something bad happened in the village, everyone would blame her, thinking that it was she who brought bad luck to the entire family after killing her husband.
She was accustomed to the prejudice, rejection, and coldness of the villagers, especially the relationship with her in-laws' family, and she had long been accustomed to it.
Now famous, it makes these people's eyes red and misunderstood, all kinds of abuse, accusations, and even more intense.
Although her heart was full of helplessness and coldness, she was too lazy to make unnecessary excuses.
It's useless to say it anyway, so why do more senseless verbal battles?
She just wants to continue to work hard and change the status quo, and in a few years, when her two children graduate, she won't have to be so tired.
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The final ending is gratifying
"I don't feel bitter, really, the children are growing up well, and I'm satisfied."
In 2014, Wang Meihong's body no longer allowed her to pick up burdens.
With the help of the local government, she runs a teahouse of about 30 square meters near the Qiyun Mountain Peak Scenic Area, selling drinks and snacks.
The eldest son still works as a massage for the blind in Shanghai, the twins have a stable job in Hefei after graduating from university, and the daughter works in a hospital in Wenzhou.
All three children were filial to her.
Every now and then, they will call back, care for their mother, and they are grateful from the bottom of their hearts for her hard work for more than 20 years.
Those who are self-reliant help by nature, and those who abandon themselves are abandoned by heaven.
The story of Wang Meihong as a porter and raising three children is touching, but fate never seems to treat her well.
She lost her husband unexpectedly at a young age, and her in-laws' family spoke ill of her, and the whole village did not accept her.
It's really hard to imagine how much bitterness and tears she has silently swallowed alone in the past 19 years.
But she never complained, always silently bowed her head, appearing so strong and patient.
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