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As a husband, the most intolerable thing is probably the betrayal of his wife.
Yu has a deep understanding of this, since marrying his wife, Yu has been working in other places, not only doing his best to take care of his family, but also conscientiously in his career, and everyone around him is very envious of Yu's wife Zhao, thinking that she married a good family.
But what Yu didn't expect was that his wife, who he had always loved so much, would actually betray him, and even take his lover home to cheat, what is going on?
He was betrayed by his wife while he was out
According to Yu's recollection, after marrying his wife, he often traveled for work reasons, and the time he spent with his wife became shorter and shorter.
But his wife also understood him very well, and the two never had any quarrels, but there was a period when his wife's behavior was abnormal.
Not only reduced the video time with himself every day, but also often lost contact, which made Yu, who works outside, very worried.
However, at this time, he still trusted his wife very much, until he saw a video in the group of owners in the community, which made him wake up.
It was a six-minute video of a man and a woman lying in bed doing what men and women did.
Shortly after this video was posted to the owner group, someone found Yu and asked him to prepare mentally, and Yu, who did not know why, clicked on the video, but saw a scene that he would never forget.
The woman in the picture who is cloudy and rainy on the bed and looks unbearable is his wife Zhao, and the other man is a strange face.
Looking at the place where the two cheated again, it was actually his own bedroom, and Yu, who realized that his wife was cheating, went home directly to confront his wife without saying a word.
Under Yu's pressure, Zhao admitted his cheating behavior, and seeing his wife so frank, Yu was heartbroken, so he filed for divorce.
At first, Zhao was still trying to keep the marriage, but at Yu's insistence, the relationship between the two eventually came to an end.
Yes, what man can forgive his wife for having an extramarital affair?
Because this incident was first posted in the community owner group, hundreds of people in the group have become witnesses to this incident.
Coupled with the increasing and advanced Internet technology today, soon this matter spread to the Internet, and for a while the accusations of netizens against the cheater Zhao were overwhelming, and Zhao lost his job.
However, in the face of the scolding of many netizens, she was very unconvinced, and bluntly said that she cheated for a reason.
Then Zhao explained the reason for his derailment on his social account, and also let many melon-eating people understand the ins and outs of the matter more thoroughly.
The truth emerges, from the confession of the cheater
Zhao's family is well-off, because she is the only daughter in the family, and her parents have spoiled Zhao very much since she was a child, basically dressing to reach for food and opening her mouth.
Although she has always enjoyed the favor of her parents, Zhao is not unskilled, and although her grades are not at the top of the class, they are also above average.
After graduating from high school, Zhao got very good results, and his parents were very happy to see their daughter so competitive, so they discussed with their daughter to fill out the college volunteer report.
At first, Zhao's parents hoped that their daughter could study finance or accounting, and she could work after graduation, but Zhao had a soft spot for the preschool teacher.
Because as the only daughter in the family, Zhao has lacked companionship since she was a child, so she wants to make up for the gap in her heart by applying for the preschool teacher major.
Although the parents did not agree with their daughter's idea, they finally chose to give in, so Zhao entered the university to study as a kindergarten teacher.
After going to college, Zhao saw the variety of life outside for the first time, because Zhao had a good family, good appearance, and outstanding figure, and there was an endless stream of suitors during college.
But Zhao doesn't want to talk about her love, even if she longs for love, she still hasn't fallen into the sweet words of suitors.
Just when Zhao thought that her college career was about to be out of love with love, Yu, the man who influenced her life, appeared.
Zhao and Yu met at a school event, when Yu was quite youthful, coupled with Yu's handsome appearance and stable personality, he quickly attracted Zhao's attention.
After the event, the two added contact information, and since then the two have had more and more private exchanges.
Slowly, they found that the two were very speculative in terms of hobbies and three views.
So the two naturally determined their relationship, and after becoming partners, Zhao and Yu often became the envy of people around them.
The two are talented and beautiful, and soon after graduating from college, the two with deep feelings entered the palace of marriage.
After getting married, Zhao came to work as a teacher in a kindergarten near his home with his college major, while Yu ran business all year round.
With the joint efforts of the husband and wife, they soon ended the history of renting and living and bought a house.
Although life is dull, the two also get together less and leave more because of Yu's work, but Zhao has never complained.
Because she knew that her husband was doing it all for himself, all for this family.
Yu also knows that he works outside the home all year round and lacks the company of his wife, so he often pleases his wife through online video chat.
And Yu is also responsive to his wife in terms of material aspects, and has never stopped his wife from shopping, and the meticulous care of both spiritual and material aspects makes Zhao very relieved of Yu.
Under the common concession of the two, there was not much problem in this relationship, and the friends around them were also very envious that their marriage was so stable.
But just when Zhao thought that her life with her husband could be maintained forever, her husband's sudden change made her suspicious.
Originally, Yu was on a business trip and would video chat with Zhao every place he went, but for a while Yu often suddenly hung up the phone.
Zhao was very puzzled by this, so he asked her husband why he did this, and each time Yu answered that it was because there was a temporary change in work that needed to be dealt with in time, or the partner called to discuss cooperation.
At first, Zhao did not doubt her husband's words, but as the number of times increased, Zhao also began to be dissatisfied with her husband, thinking that her husband had a third party outside.
Although he had doubts about his husband, Zhao did not show his doubts, but planned to take revenge on his husband.
Coupled with Yu's absence from home for a long time, the emptiness and loneliness in his body made Zhao generate a bold idea in his mind.
Since then, Zhao has begun to post photos of himself frequently on social platforms, and soon a fitness trainer surnamed Li added Zhao.
After chatting for a while, the two planned to meet offline.
Because Zhao has always paid great attention to his skin maintenance, coupled with the fact that the two have not had children since they married Yu, Zhao is also very good in body management, which makes Li suddenly feel interested in it.
And Li has been exercising for a long time, and his strong figure happens to be Zhao's ideal type, and the two have a relationship as soon as they come and go.
Afterwards, Zhao felt ashamed of her husband who was working outside, but looking at Yu's lukewarm attitude towards him, Zhao had a relationship with Li again and again with the idea of gambling.
In the end, Zhao simply took Li home, and in order to pursue excitement, the two also set up their mobile phones and began to video, but they didn't know that it was this video that made Zhao's life extremely dark.
The day after Zhao took Li home for a secret affair, the residential property required each household to photograph the liquefied gas equipment at home.
At that time, Zhao had just gotten up, and she was confused and casually sent a video of cheating with Li to the property group.
By the time Zhao reacted, it was too late, and many people in the owner group saw this explosive video.
Although Zhao withdrew the video in time, she was still worried that her husband would see it, so she found the group owner, hoping to disband the group.
But at this time, the angry Yu had already boarded the plane home, and in the end, Zhao paid the price for his recklessness.
Not only did her husband abandon him, but the kindergarten he was in also dismissed him on the grounds of bad character, and Zhao became nothing overnight.
After the matter continued to ferment, Li, who cheated with Zhao, also disappeared, leaving only Zhao to bear everything.
Although he divorced Zhao, the anger in Yu's heart did not dissipate, and he insisted on taking Zhao to court for bigamy and cheating.
So in this matter, did Zhao's behavior constitute a crime, and if Yu appealed, could he win the case?
Restrictions and requirements on marriage under relevant mainland laws
The Civil Code is the basic law for handling civil litigation in the mainland, but the Civil Code does not record the handling of marital infidelity.
The implication is that the state does not recognize marital infidelity as an illegal act, and although Zhao's actions are morally deficient, they will not be punished by law.
Therefore, even if Yu takes Zhao to court for cheating in marriage, the court will not convict him.
Although the mainland did not convict infidelity within marriage, Zhao's behavior violated the loyalty requirement for the marriage partner.
Yu can take relevant evidence to demand appropriate compensation from Zhao according to law, and in addition to Zhao, Li also has unshirkable responsibility in this matter.
So can Yu sue Li for bigamy crimes?
The answer is also no, and the mainland civil code records the conviction standards for the crime of bigamy.
The so-called crime of bigamy is that a third party is married to a third party after knowing that the other party has a legal spouse, and this is punishable by law.
Although Li knew that Zhao was married and had a relationship with Zhao, the two did not live together, and cohabitation was the main condition for determining whether the third party had explicitly intervened in the marriage of others.
Even though Zhao took Li home to have sex with him, Li left Zhao and Yu's house after this and did not live with Zhao.
Therefore, Li did not commit the crime of bigamy, and the law could not sanction him, but from a moral point of view, Li still chose to associate with Zhao on the premise of knowing that he had a family, which is a manifestation of moral deficiency and should be condemned.
Since Yu cannot sue Zhao for cheating in marriage, nor can he convict Li of bigamy, he can only vent his anger through divorce.
However, in the mainland, divorce requires the mutual approval of both husband and wife.
If Zhao objected to various reasons after Yu filed for divorce, could Yu successfully appeal for divorce?
The Marriage Law protects the legitimate rights and interests of victims
The mainland civil code records in detail the handling of such matters, although divorce is a matter for both husband and wife, and the unanimous consent of both parties is required when handling the divorce.
However, if one party does something harmful to the interests and reputation of the other party in the course of marriage, and this matter is the main reason for the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife, the injured party can file a divorce suit in accordance with the law.
The other party's unethical behavior is made public as evidence in court, and the court determines whether the parties' divorce claims are approved.
Under normal circumstances, the court will approve the claim after verifying that the evidence provided by the parties is true.
Therefore, even if Zhao does not agree to divorce Yu, Yu can force Zhao to agree to divorce through the evidence of the video of Zhao and Li having a relationship.
In addition, Zhao could not obtain the same amount of joint property after the divorce, because Zhao's behavior was the main reason for the breakdown of the couple's marriage.
In the end, Zhao still signed the divorce agreement, and then parted ways with Yu, and with this matter, Zhao will face greater obstacles in the future whether in life or work. But this is also what Zhao deserves.
In this matter, Yu also had something wrong to do, and he couldn't wait by his wife's side for a long time when he was away.
This requires him to give his wife a sense of security at all times, and Yu's attitude towards his wife has changed dramatically before Zhao cheated on him.
Although it was later found that Yu did neglect his wife because of work, his improper behavior planted a seed of revenge in Zhao's heart, which put his wife on a wrong path.
Through this incident, it has also sounded the alarm for many people, marriage and relationship need two people to operate together.
Before getting married, both parties must make sure that their three views match each other, and consider marriage after everything is considered properly.
Nowadays, the development of the information age is getting faster and faster, and many young people have begun to pursue fast-food love, which has led to an increasing divorce rate in the mainland in recent years.
The state has also introduced relevant measures in response to this situation, that is, both husband and wife have a cooling-off period before divorce.
After the cooling-off period, if the parties still want to divorce, they can continue to apply for divorce, so it seems that the country has also seen the adverse effects of the increasing divorce rate in the country.
Many young people choose to divorce a few months after flash marriage, which is undoubtedly tarnishing pure and beautiful love and marriage.
It is no wonder that many people sigh that in the past, the carriage and horse were very slow, and a person could only love one in his life.
Now data technology is overwhelming, changing people's lives, facilitating people's communication while also diluting the uniqueness of traditional love.
Marriage is a major event in life, and everyone regardless of men and women must face it with a rigorous attitude and must not act sloppily.
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