Once, Myolie Wu posted a photo, which caused a heated discussion.
This is a comparative photo showing the changes before marriage and after 7 years of marriage.
The number of people in the photo changed from 2 to 5.
Her husband's appearance has not changed much, but Myolie Wu's hair has become thinning.
The hair fell out from the front, leaving some scattered gray hair.
Previously, Myolie Wu also posted a set of photos, and the white hair in the photo was very conspicuous.
It's like dyeing grandma ash on purpose.
As soon as the picture was exposed, it caused the whole network to marvel:
"How did my sister become so old!"
"This gray hair is really scary."
"Does marriage really make women more haggard?"
Myolie Wu was born in 79 and is 43 years old this year.
Most actresses still maintain their youthful appearance at the age of 43, delicate and moving.
For example, Yin Tao is also 43 years old, and her figure is flawless.
One has already revealed the aura of an aunt, and the other still maintains the image of a young girl.
Such a gap makes people wonder: Is Myolie Wu's marriage too tormenting?
Myolie Wu and Li Chengde's marriage was not optimistic at first, and everyone thought that they would definitely break up.
When they began dating, Hong Kong media commented that the man was a soft rice eater, because he did not have a house, no car, and lived in Myolie Wu's apartment.
He is also the owner of a nightclub and has a complicated relationship with the opposite sex.
It is often photographed of intimate contact with women.
Sometimes Cecilia Cheung was reproduced with oil, and sometimes she was photographed having a night party with 3 women.
Whenever something happened, Myolie Wu always stood up for Li Chengde, and she believed him.
"Philip has a lot of friends, both men and women, it's normal to talk to friends, you really don't have to be too nervous, and I don't need to explain it next time."
At the beginning of 2015, the relationship between the two was exposed, which attracted widespread attention.
Soon after, they surprised people by quickly obtaining their licenses.
Compared with Huang Zongze's previous 8-year entanglement, her decision this time is very decisive.
After marriage, Myolie Wu's careerism weakened significantly, and instead she gave birth to 3 children in 4 consecutive years, which made her nicknamed the "fertility machine".
Seeing this, someone must say: Myolie Wu was physically and mentally exhausted due to encountering scumbags and being forced to get pregnant, and gray hair gradually grew.
But is that really the case?
When you learn more about the lives of the two, you will find that Li Chengde is not as bad as we think.
Before marriage, he was often involved in scandals because of nightclubs; After marriage, he sold his nightclub shares and stayed away from right and wrong.
After Myolie Wu gave birth, he often accompanied and took care of him, and on Weibo, he showed a responsible father figure.
As soon as he has time, he takes his children out to play;
He is also basically there for the family's festivals.
Myolie Wu commented on him: I am especially grateful to meet this husband, I can say that I am very lucky.
She gave a score of more than a perfect score, reaching 101.
She spoke highly of him and he was an excellent husband.
Their lives were praised to such a high height by Myolie Wu, which shows that their happiness index is high.
However, her appearance looks old, which cannot help but be confusing.
After learning more about Myolie Wu's other side, I found a new explanation.
Myolie Wu is a career-minded person, and even if her life is worry-free, she still pursues her career.
During the birth of her second child, her career came to a standstill.
But when welcoming her third child, she secretly participated in the program "Actor Please Take Position", a news that only Li Chengde knew.
"Actors Please Take Position" is a competition show in which contestants are subjected to great physical and mental pressure.
The recording and rehearsal of shows often leads to staying up late and staying up all night, and the situation that it may be eliminated at any time is even more stressful and anxious.
However, Myolie Wu did not care about this, and she participated in the competition without hesitation with a three-month-old belly.
In the show, she made a domineering statement: "I am actor Myolie Wu. After looking at it, I took it; As for the children, two were born; It's time to get back and get back to a career. ”
She made the audience ecstatic with her heroic gesture.
In the show, she cries and crawls, without a bit of pregnant pretentious gestures.
Playing "Dear" Li Hongqin, the scene of her snatching the child is very sad.
She was so emotional that she almost broke down.
He was also forcibly pinned to the ground by three men.
She practiced many times in private to present such a scene on screen.
She understood the challenges of taking this clip.
There may be a risk of miscarriage, or the fetus may be frightened.
But she doesn't expect privileged treatment just because she's pregnant.
In the end, the clip is stunning.
Chen Kaige commented: "You are cruel enough to yourself. ”
With this determination and perseverance, she also managed to win the honor of Best Actress on the show.
After the show, she successfully welcomed her third child.
After only two months, she was back to work.
During this time, she lost 30 pounds at an amazing rate and regained her figure.
In the eyes of outsiders, she looks resolute and inspiring.
However, only she herself understands the hardships.
She knows that she can only do her best, and everything is not easy.
She is too busy to breastfeed.
Every day, she expresses her breast milk, refrigerates it and delivers it back to Hong Kong for her baby to eat.
This busyness and exertion made her body age rapidly, coupled with the concern for the baby, which made her unable to feel at ease.
Outside, running around.
Inside, worry day and night.
Gray hair is born early, and it can be understood.
Therefore, those gray hairs, one represents taking care of the family, one symbolizes raising children, and the other represents the pursuit of career.
Which ordinary woman has never had these three strands of white hair.
No one can avoid it.
Everyone suffers from it.
However, Myolie Wu is very comfortable with this.
On the day of Qixi Festival, she put on makeup and carefully matched jewelry and clothing.
Only her white hair was not hidden.
This kind of truth and openness instantly touched people's hearts.
Gray hair, no longer a symbol of embarrassment.
It is a testimony of the years.
No more disguise.
It proudly, and should proudly, be displayed before the world.
Myolie Wu's fearlessness and confidence are really enviable.
And a new question has emerged - where does this fearlessness and confidence come from?
Myolie Wu has experienced countless setbacks and difficulties, but she has persevered in overcoming these difficulties since she was a child.
Her looks are not outstanding.
Her lips are not rich enough, her complexion is darker, and her facial features are not delicate enough.
The whole face gives people a rustic and rustic atmosphere.
In 1999, she unexpectedly won the third place in Hong Kong sister, but was questioned as shady.
The Hong Kong media also spoke very badly of her, calling her "Pork Chop Hong Kong Sister".
Because of her ordinary appearance, TVB gave her the opportunity to mainly play an inconspicuous role.
For example, Ding Shanyin in "The Golden Years", she plays a girl with a limited IQ, often crying non-stop, snot tears and tears.
She played a fat mother-in-law role in "Hida Happy Event", for which she gained 36 pounds.
Myolie Wu is in her youth, and no one wants to see her so ugly.
However, in order to gain weight, she desperately consumed large amounts of chocolate and ice cream.
Eventually, her weight increased to a level she couldn't believe herself.
She is not only fat, but also dares to wear bikinis and shows her fat flesh without care.
Despite this, she did not complain or say much, but walked onto the stage without hesitation.
Although her figure is ridiculed in the play, she still plays a powerful role with full devotion.
Because she is not beautiful, she is ridiculed for not being a heroine in her life.
But the fool goes first. She struggles with greater effort and rewards with more effort.
She eventually achieved great achievements, which she won through acting skills and hard work, not by appearance.
Her greatest charm is not in her appearance.
She has won everyone's recognition and has the glory she has now, and the many roles she plays do not depend on appearance.
She never really had good looks and wasn't afraid of losing it.
Therefore, she is not afraid of the passage of time and the consumption of her face.
When gray hair appears, she welcomes it because it means that her life has entered a new phase.
When wrinkles appeared, she accepted it because it meant another chapter to her story.
That's what she's comfortable with.
In the entertainment industry, the importance of beauty cannot be ignored.
Whether it is in poor condition or in good condition, it will attract attention and comments.
In order to pursue beauty, many female artists continue to lose weight, skin care, and fitness.
However, only those who are truly confident and capable can dare to say "no" to age.
For example, Myolie Wu and Yu Feihong are such women.
They don't lament the passage of time because of the wrinkles on their faces, nor do they cover them with skincare products.
Instead, they greet aging with ease, like greeting a long-lost friend:
"You are finally here, then let's live in peace."
Another example, Wing Mei.
She specifically told the retoucher not to erase the traces of age from her face.
Even if there are wrinkles, it is a beauty.
Even if there is a strand of gray hair, there would have been at this age.
As long as it exists, it is beautiful. She fully accepts them.
Shu Qi also has gray hair, and she happily posted it at the age of 40, proudly saying that she was "bursting with wisdom".
She was ridiculed by some netizens, saying that her gray hair made her look like a goddess, and she unabashedly said the word "getting old", and she hoped that everyone could gradually see her getting older.
True feminine beauty lies in understanding the essence of life and facing it with a calm attitude.
They do not antagonize others, do not demand, do not falsely and do not pretend.
They accept and tolerate themselves and others.
This gesture is more admirable than those who are crazy about medical beauty and dressing up.
Because real women have works and professional abilities, they don't rely on their faces to eat, nor do they rely on hype to get started.
It is precisely because they have real skills, so they are not afraid of the wind blowing, and the fame and profit will float away;
Don't be afraid that spring on your face is not there, because there is spring in your heart.
Those who serve others in color, and those who are weak love to relax;
Those who show their talents are still undiminished.
True women focus on self-cultivation, do not pursue superficial glory, and can always be open to the changes in life.
Therefore, do not stereotype women, they are not flat, not symbolic, and even more so can be carried by a single evaluation system.
In addition to reproductive value, they also have the self-worth of life.
They are entertainers and at the same time themselves.
Just like Myolie Wu, she has white hair and becomes Myolie Wu with warmth in her heart and a brilliance on top.