It is said that "men are afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", which shows that in the marriage market, women as a vulnerable group are very difficult. Especially under the influence of traditional Chinese marriage concepts, women almost only have one marriage trial and error cost, once they step into the abyss, it will be doomed.
Therefore, in this harsh social environment, if a woman does not have self-respect and self-love, and encounters scum again, how hard and difficult life will be, such as the former military art school flower fatimai. Yaqi (later replaced by Yaqi).
First, Zhang Tielin's underground girlfriend
With the popularity of the TV series "Huan Zhu Gege", Zhang Tielin, who played the Qianlong Emperor in it, was gradually known to the public, and he almost became a professional emperor later.
On the screen, he is the loving and affectionate Emperor Amma, but behind the scenes, he is a prodigal with no sense of responsibility. If it is placed in the star-chasing environment of modern society, Zhang Tielin has long ago not known how many times he has "collapsed the house", but at that time he could still maintain some superficial glory, because his affair history was only known to insiders who knew him well.
Yaqi is one of the insiders, in fact, Zhang Tielin had already had a marriage and a daughter, and even had several girlfriends before he met Yaqi.
Maybe Yaqi thinks that he has the infinite charm that makes Zhang Tielin's prodigal son turn back, or maybe Zhang Tielin constantly instills rhetoric in Yaqi, in short, when Yaqi and Zhang Tielin became a male and female relationship, she was only in her twenties.
In fact, Yaqi's relationship with Zhang Tielin was not favored by her friends and relatives, and there were even various persuasions to let her leave this man early.
First of all, Zhang Tielin has long been a famous figure in the circle, and older people know that this kind of amorous person is impossible to change for a certain love object.
Secondly, Zhang Tielin is 25 years older than Yaqi, and he can be Yaqi's father if he says something ugly. Yaqi is a traditional girl, she and Zhang Tielin are dating but rushing to get married, marrying a man 25 years older than herself, even if this man is now famous and rich, but when he is old? You must know that the combination of Yaqi and Zhang Tielin does not mean how much Zhang Tielin loves Yaqi.
It is not so much that he loves Yaqi deeply, let alone that he looks at Yaqi's young and beautiful body, after all, this is the military art school flower of the year. The last point that does not make people optimistic about the two is that Zhang Tielin has an arrogant and irresponsible attitude in the relationship between the two.
It turned out that in the seven-year relationship with Zhang Tielin, Zhang Tielin never took the initiative and was unwilling to make Yaqi public, and to put it bluntly, he was still marketing his single persona. Even after Yaqi became pregnant with his child, Zhang Tielin's first reaction was not happiness but impatience, and he also said the golden sentence that shattered people's three views, "You women are trouble, and if you touch it, you will get pregnant!" ”
It is conceivable that Zhang Tielin, who has this idea, will naturally not be a responsible father, so his first act after learning that Yaqi was pregnant was to let Yaqi beat him.
Second, the infinite possibilities of the past
In this way, Yaqi spent seven years with Zhang Tielin, and then she really didn't want to wait aimlessly, so she took the initiative to ask Zhang Tielin how long it would take to marry her.
Unexpectedly, what awaited her was Zhang Tielin's insult, because he required Yaqiqin to be proficient in the book and painting, and to be fluent in English. I don't know if I really thought I was choosing a concubine!
Only now did Yaqi deeply realize that she was being played by Zhang Tielin, and she left Zhang Tielin and closed her heart that loved her again.
Yaqi is an authentic Beijing girl, who was deeply influenced by Peking Opera performances since she was a child, and later naturally embarked on a road of interpretation. At the age of 15, she was admitted to the Chinese People's Liberation Army Art Academy, which is known as military art. With his excellent artistic talent and beautiful face, Yaqi was named a school flower not long after entering the school. There is no doubt that if she hadn't met Zhang Tielin, a scumbag, in the process of visiting Ban Lin Xinru, perhaps her life would really be promising, but unfortunately there was no if.
3. A life of hard work
After breaking up with Zhang Tielin, Yaqi was silent for a while, and she was also single until she met Li Zixiong in 2007 for filming "Father and Son Detective Gemini", which can be regarded as opening her official second relationship again.
It is worth mentioning that Li Zixiong is still a man 23 years older than Yaqi, but unlike Zhang Tielin, Li Zixiong's love for Yaqi is sincere. Under Li Zixiong's fierce pursuit, the two finally entered the marriage hall, and after marriage, Yaqi lived the life she wanted. Li Zixiong always takes her as the center in everything, which makes her experience a feeling of being loved, and now the two have a son, and the family of three lives happily and happily.
epilogue
In the love with Zhang Tielin, Yaqi was the weak party, and lost himself for Zhang Tielin, and finally ended up being abandoned. Fortunately, she later recognized Zhang Tielin's true person, withdrew in time, and finally worked hard to meet her current husband, which can be regarded as a good thing and grinding.