Yes, 47 years old chose to retire, Li Xiang is in another circle outside the entertainment industry, red and purple
Gender issues have become a "sweet potato" in the film and television market in recent years.
A large number of works represented by "feminism" are being broadcast hotly on large and small screens, while harvesting public opinion.
"Disappearing Her" and "I Pass Through the Storm" successively focus on women's intimate relationships and family relationships.
With bizarre and violent stories, tell girls how to protect themselves from the mystery of scumbags.
In the field of TV dramas, Gao Ye's new drama "All the Way to the Sun" has also aroused heated discussions.
Although he is wearing the shell of workplace emotions, he has staged a nondescript "father-daughter love".
Whether it is the heroine Li Mujia or the female partner Tian Rong, they are struggling in the vortex of love.
It's just strange to say that in this type of theme, "good girls" and "scumbags" seem to have become binding CPs.
It seems that without the stimulation of scumbags, feminism has no outlet for expression.
To put it bluntly, it's all about catering to market preferences.
But deep feminism, because of these precise grasp of the plot, will become shallow.
This heat has not receded, and another female star rushed to the hot search -
Li Xiang, who is only 47 years old, announced on social media that he has "retired".
A few short words from parents and a few expressions that are used every day have made countless netizens begin to "pick up good luck".
In a short period of time, the status liked more than 120,000 and retweeted more than 40,000.
The three labels of "retired at the age of 47, single rich woman, wealth freedom" have made Li Xiang a white moonlight for part-time workers.
Although the melon-eating masses have different attitudes towards Li Xiang, many people criticize her because of her educational philosophy and "showing off wealth".
But she is still regarded by many people as synonymous with independent women in the current era.
From an ordinary courtyard girl to a rich top class.
Reading her life carefully, you will uncover the 3 unspoken rules of success in life, and you will also find that true feminism has never been about men.
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There are three "turns" in life, and at critical moments, you must be accurate
"The economic base determines the superstructure", this is an immutable truth.
For both men and women, the prerequisite for personality independence is always economic independence.
On the point of rushing to economic independence, Li Xiang is a maverick.
She has both a clear understanding of her own characteristics and interests, as well as a keen judgment of the industry and career.
It is these that give Li Xiang the confidence to "retire" at the age of 47.
The reason why Li Xiang can become the current "rich woman" has a lot to do with the three turns in her life.
It is not so much that the choices she made were lucky, but that her wisdom and shrewd vision made her what she is today.
The first turning point was in 1991, when two roads were placed in front of Li Xiang, who had just become an adult.
The first is to guarantee the transfer to Tianjin University.
The second is to give up the qualification for escort and take the college entrance examination yourself.
And these two roads, for ordinary people, are not a choice question at all.
Because the first is a ready-made road, while the second is full of thorns and uncertainty.
But Li Xiang thought for a long time, because she knew that what she loved was hosting the media business, and if she was sent to Tianda, she couldn't take this road.
After careful consideration, Li Xiang chose to give up the opportunity to escort.
After taking the college entrance examination, she was admitted to the Beijing Broadcasting Institute (now Communication University of China) with the first score in the cultural course.
The spring breeze was proud of horseshoe disease, but after four years of student life, the second turning point immediately appeared at the crossroads of her life.
Do you stay in Beijing as a "North Drifter", or return to your hometown to live a comfortable life?
At the beginning, Li Xiang, like all recent college graduates, chose the former.
After all, it is better to be a phoenix tail than a chicken head.
She believes she can make a mark in Beijing.
But Beijing, which is full of talents, quickly taught Li Xiang a lesson.
In the face of the ultimate "inner roll", she wavered.
In 1996, coinciding with the reform of Hunan Satellite TV, fresh blood was urgently needed to replenish it.
Li Xiang saw the opportunity and entered Hunan Satellite TV.
After trying "Evening News" and "Lights on the Lights", she participated in the variety show that made her popular all over the country - "Happy Camp".
After successfully transforming into a variety show host, Li Xiang was like a fish in water, and she released her words: The best entertainment program host in the country is me.
With the popularity of "Fast Ben", Li Xiang became famous and became a well-deserved "first sister" of the entire Hunan Satellite TV, which also allowed her to accumulate a huge amount of popularity.
At that time, Li Xiang was a bit of a lonely seeking defeat.
Standing at the pinnacle of national entertainment, her perception of society and career began to change.
What followed was her third turning point in life: entrepreneurship.
It's okay to say that the rapids are retreating, or that the horizons are broad.
At the height of "Fast Ben", Li Xiang turned around and left, opened his first cultural media company, and once again returned to Beijing.
This time, she no longer limited her career to the entertainment industry, but fully blossomed in the fields of real estate, finance, stocks, investment, acting, and production.
She turned her career into a career, transforming her personal fame into business value.
This also paved the way for her to keenly discover the rise of the live streaming industry, and made her assets grow exponentially.
However, it is also true that truly intelligent women will never attach their careers and finances to men.
It is important for women to correctly recognize their interests, identify the profession or career they really love and are willing to strive for, and strive to pursue them to financial independence.
Li Xiang once said in an interview that when he first joined "Fast Ben", it was only an alternative.
But for 7 years, recording programs every day without rest, she became a pillar step by step.
He Jiong said that when he first arrived in Hunan Tai, he only had a sense of security if he followed Li Xiang.
A woman who can give men a sense of security, how can the rest of her life be manipulated by others?
In life, most girls will seem confused and overwhelmed when faced with "career choices".
Under the label of "weak" women in society, under the yoke of "virtuous and virtuous", they are under great pressure, and even dream of becoming "full-time wives".
As everyone knows, true freedom can only be given by oneself, and economic independence is the biggest bargaining chip for freedom.
As Charlotte Brontë said: An independent woman must have an economic and personal independence.
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The tolerance for grievances determines the height of your rebound
Almost everyone has a stereotype of women, that is, "emotional".
"Emotional", in the final analysis, is the inability to reasonably vent and relieve one's emotions, resulting in making an outrageous, even incomprehensible move.
Everyone has to face all kinds of people in their lives, and in life, they always have to suffer some grievances.
But when almost everyone stressed the need to "fight back" and not "swallow their voices", Li Xiang is telling us with actions that a truly independent and powerful woman needs to bear some grievances to support her own pattern.
We often hear some people talk about the word "pattern", in fact, pattern is not only a measure of inclusiveness, but also a kind of wisdom for long-term consideration, consideration for others, and consideration for the future.
Li Xiang's relationship is not smooth, aside from a relationship in college, Li Xiang's life has two "ex-husbands".
The first one is Li Houlin.
After Li Xiang left "Fast Ben", he met Li Houlin, and the two got married in a flash marriage in 33 days, which became a good story in the entertainment industry.
In fact, Li Houlin's love history is far more complicated than Li Xiang.
He first fell in love with Zhou Yanhong, then was unclear with Sun Yue, and finally proposed to Qin Hailu.
Before being with Li Xiang, he even met with Qin Hailu's parents, and what Qin Hailu didn't expect was that Li Houlin married Li Xiang in a blink of an eye.
In the interview, Qin Hailu talked about this past, and he still had a heart.
At the beginning, Li Xiang was a little in love with the brain.
Li Houlin's scandals are on the table, she still insists on getting married, but life after marriage is not as smooth as Li Xiang thought.
Li Houlin's jewelry business shrank sharply and was on the verge of bankruptcy, because of the impact of Li Houlin's scandal, Li Xiang's new program "Li Xiangxing Sports" also suffered an upset.
The unfortunate career and family made the two have to reconsider the relationship, and in November 2006, the two announced their divorce.
After the divorce, Li Houlin slandered Li Xiang: "It is better than Li Xiang to find a random woman on the street." ”
Li Xiang, who paid for her love brain, chose to swallow this grievance, she turned her grief and anger into motivation, devoted herself to her career, and did not make any response.
The second is what we all know, Wang Yuelun.
What impressed Li Xiang was not Wang Yuelun's career, but his attitude.
Li Xiang felt that Wang Yuelun was very gentle with him, and the two quickly walked together.
After marriage, Li Xiang once again found that he seemed to have chosen the wrong person again.
Although Li Xiang is very career-minded, at home, she longs to be a "little woman", but Wang Yuelun does not eat human fireworks, and makes Li Xiang a family.
Not only that, Wang Yuelun frequently "broke into trouble" outside, and Li Xiang had to "wipe his ass" behind him.
Losing money in filming, Li Xiang was asked to advance funds.
was photographed cheating and asked Li Xiang to refute the rumors.
After repeatedly causing trouble, Li Xiang was asked to put out fires, and Li Xiang became Wang Yuelun's "fire captain".
In the eyes of outsiders, Li Xiang seems to be a little too "connived" with Wang Yuelun.
Because even if Wang Yuelun's unruly is exposed, Li Xiang will post a message to support her husband.
Until the end, the paper could not contain the fire, and the two parted ways.
At the end of 2021, Wang Yuelun issued her own divorce declaration, with yin and yang strange in her words, and deliberately "connotated" Li Xiang, so that she and her sweetheart "grow old together".
It was this kind of grievance, Li Xiang also endured, she did not make any response, but lightly posted a green food picture on social media, which was particularly atmospheric.
The melon-eating masses can't understand: why not tear the scumbags with your hands and fight for a breath?
But standing at a higher place, these grievances swallowed by Li Xiang really expanded her pattern.
On the one hand, family ugliness cannot be publicized, and what Li Xiang seeks is not simply "taking a breath", but avoiding the impact of external disturbances on family relationships.
On the other hand, in her world, what really matters is never her ex-husband's brother, feelings can be without, but the family must be, she still has her parents, and her daughter, and the grievances at this moment are more for them.
Nan Huaijin once said: Greatness is supported by grievances.
A truly powerful woman can withstand grievances, contain her temper, and tolerate others.
There is a line in the movie "One Sentence Top 10,000 Sentences" that impressed Pi Ge deeply: "Things in the world can't withstand scrutiny, and every thing hides grievances." ”
In the face of grievances, not venting emotions, not revealing mentality, and not complaining about others, it is not only the cultivation of one's own heart, but also the cultivation of one's own personality.
And the heart and personality can often shape a person's pattern.
Whether it is Li Houlin or Wang Yuelun, after the divorce, they have done their best to slander Li Xiang.
Have we ever seen that Li Xiang openly accused them?
Back and forth, people's hearts have their own backs, and it is of course Li Xiang who finally wins the reputation.
"Bear grievances and support the big pattern."
Pi Ge always believed that Li Xiang's subsequent success and accumulation of wealth came from her tolerance for grievances and her open-minded pattern.
And this pattern, in turn, will form a positive feedback on her life and help her be invincible in any competition.
This is also where all women should learn.
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High-profile, there is truth and falsehood
Li Xiang is most criticized for "showing off wealth".
Because of his huge wealth, Li Xiang always shows his success and achievements in front of the camera or on social media, and promotes his consumption level and consumption concept.
Judging from Li Xiang's state, her life is wonderful and extremely luxurious.
Living is the most expensive property, appreciating, the most beautiful scenery, a breakfast of seven or eight thousand yuan, even her daughter Wang Shiling, is full of luxury goods starting from 10,000 yuan.
In order to cultivate her daughter, Li Xiang sent her abroad to study very early, and the tuition fee of the famous British school Bonneton Middle School is hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, plus other expenses, I am afraid that it is nearly one million a year.
Li Xiang also specially posted an article, saying that the room where her daughter lived was once lived by Princess Anne of England.
Li Xiang also once said that her family's monthly living expenses are nearly one million, so this cost is nothing to her.
As ordinary people, we hate "showing off wealth".
Its essence lies in the fact that most people who "show off their wealth" know the gap between themselves and ordinary people, know that the source of their wealth is ambiguous, and declare their privileges as "rich".
For example, Guo Meimei, such as Zhang Ting, such as Internet celebrity Wang Chengcheng.
But those who really have huge wealth show off their wealth, but netizens are happy to ridicule, Wang Sicong is one of them.
We don't have to entangle what kind of mentality Li Xiang's "showing off wealth" comes from.
But facing the camera, what she shows is more of a reality.
We are completely out of the same circle as Li Xiang's life, so we can't understand her consumption philosophy.
Just like most people can't understand that Hu Ge, as a star, could have achieved things that ordinary people can't achieve in a lifetime with his fingers, but he wants to grow his beard and go to Qinghai to pick up garbage.
But from Li Xiang's state of life, we can still see her attitude to life: stepping on the soil of reality, not forgetting poetry and distant places.
Reality is firewood, rice, oil and salt, food, clothing, shelter and transportation, children and the future.
In Li Xiang's "retirement declaration", only three people, children, and parents.
In fact, she has devoted her life to these three people.
She sent her daughter to an aristocratic school, gave her a material life that matched her wealth, and did not forget to cultivate her spiritual wealth.
When Wang Shiling was eight years old, he sold his paintings for hundreds of thousands, and at the age of 12, "The Garden" was exhibited at the Louvre in France.
A simple meal of 4,000 yuan, dozens of bottles of perfume, can not be used.
Material is reality, and Li Xiang has only raised the material life of his daughter and family to the top within his own ability.
If we also have the same wealth as her, I believe most of us will have the same level of consumption as her.
Poetry and the distance are the future.
Li Xiang poured all his future into Wang Shiling.
Any achievement her daughter has achieved, Li Xiang will "show off" on her social media, just like other old mothers.
From Li Xiang's eyes looking at Wang Shiling, it can be seen that the gentleness and smile in her eyes are not only as simple as looking at a relative, but also like looking at the continuation of her own life.
Rooted in the soil of reality, looking at poetry and the distance, Li Xiang seems to be telling us that whether rich or poor, whether men or women, as long as we find the true and meaning of life, the process of life will become very beautiful.
Pi Ge has always opposed "consumerism" and also reserved his opinion on Li Xiang's attitude of "rich daughter".
Although Li Xiang has the labels of "single mother" and "divorced rich woman", and often this label is not very friendly to women.
But this true attitude to reality, and calmness in facing the future, interprets the real power of women.
Regardless of the gap between rich and poor, we must always base ourselves on the present in order to look to the farther future.
Honestly face the limited wealth of oneself, maintain a kind calmness towards people and things, do not show off or cowardice, do not inferior or vanity, do not follow the trend and do not flaunt at will.
Always maintain a focus on reality and expectations for the future, this is a woman's positive life, and it is also the meaning of life.
Being a human being is not easy, and being a woman in today's society is even more difficult.
But the truth why a woman is really strong is nothing more than this.
Independence, giving women the economic foundation on which anyone can create value;
pattern, raising the upper limit of women's careers and lives;
Looking down at reality and looking up at the sky also gives women unlimited power to explore more possibilities in life.
Li Xiang is not a template for women, but she has lived out the wisdom and philosophy of women and walked a path of a wonderful life for women.
After choosing to retire at the age of 47 and staying away from the entertainment industry, Li Xiang lived himself in the circle of life, red and purple.
She told us that reality is not a feminist drama, and that women do not have to raise or devalue themselves through men.
Really powerful women can choose their own lifestyle at will, can freely choose their own life, and can live well without anyone.
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