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Text | cold purple leaves
Editor|Cold Purple Leaf
No children and no daughters, marry a "sister" for love!
Sibling love is not a rare thing in the entertainment industry, but there are very few who really accompany each other for a lifetime.
However, Ruan Xun shocked everyone, not only did he marry a wife 15 years older than him, he was ridiculed as "marrying a mother and going home", but he even had no children for his wife's life.
These two people are obviously also talented women and like-minded, but why are they resisted by everyone?
«——[·Encounter·] ——»
Even now, everyone is very unoptimistic about "sister-brother love", and there are countless rumors, but in fact, there are very few who have achieved positive results in sibling love.
But in the entertainment industry, which can be called the "big dye vat", there is such a pair of bi people, breaking the "sister and brother love curse", and they are fifteen years apart!
They are the pair of Ruan Xun and Wu Qiong, speaking of the two of them, you may not have any impression of this, but when it comes to their works, you will suddenly think of "it turned out to be them"!
Ruan Xun is Wu Liang, the correspondent in "Military Song Loud"; is the Jiaqing Emperor in "Prime Minister Liu Luo"; It's Li Yan in "Pulling Teeth from the Mouth of the Tiger"...
Since his debut, Ruan Tour has appeared in more than 30 film and television dramas and is a veritable powerful actor.
And Wu Qiong has been studying opera alone since she was very young, and has suffered a lot over the years before standing in her current position and being recognized by everyone.
She is famous for many opera works, it can be said that anyone who loves Huangmei opera knows Wu Qiong's great name.
Two people who seem to be unrelated, but they got together because of the shooting of a MV.
When Wu Qiong was filming "Blue Bridge of Broken Souls" as a director, she had a big headache because of the actor problem in the MV, and finally had to accept Ruan Xun, who was recommended by a friend.
The two who met for the first time actually did not have a good impression of each other.
When Ruan Patrol first met Wu Qiong, Wu Qiong was still painting exaggerated opera makeup, which shocked Ruan Patrol, who knew nothing about opera or even had no interest in opera: the powder on Wu Qiong's face was too thick, like a white bone essence.
Wu Qiong looked at Ruan Xun, although this person is dignified and handsome, but it looks very inconsistent with the style of his MV, and you can see through his gaze that he does not like Huangmei opera.
But after this shooting, the two changed their views on each other, and their relationship went further, even to the point of envying each other's lives.
Ruan Xun was born into a happy family, his parents were civil servants in the system, he did not worry about eating and drinking, and he also had a high social status, and as the only son in the family, he was pampered and therefore very confident.
This made Wu Qiong, who had left home since she was a child, extremely envious, and she had been running around for her livelihood since she was a child, and she did not feel much of the warmth of home.
However, Ruan Xun, who has always felt bound by her family, is very envious of the free, lonely Wu Qiong, who can do whatever she wants, like the freest eagle in heaven and earth.
«——[·Love·] ——»
After the two became friends, because they were very compatible, they often went out to eat and shop together, and over time, the relationship between the two became ambiguous.
And Ruan Xun took the initiative to take the first step towards love, and at that time was about to catch Wu Qiong's birthday, so he tried to give Wu Qiong a romantic courtship.
At that time, the two were in different places because of their work, and they had not contacted each other for a while, and took this opportunity to send a text message "Happy birthday to you in advance".
Wu Qiong, who saw this text message, was very disappointed in her heart, she thought that Ruan Xun would prepare some special surprise for herself, but she didn't expect that she was affectionate.
Wu Qiong collected her mood and comforted herself that the two were just ordinary friends, but she didn't know how to reply to this text message, so she could only hurriedly devote herself to busy work.
As everyone knows, this is also part of Ruan's patrol plan, he just wants Wu Qiong to feel lost, which is called wanting to be suppressed.
On her birthday, Wu Qiong remembered that she had not yet replied to Ruan Xun's text message, and could only make up a clumsy excuse that she had changed her new mobile phone and just saw the text message.
At that time, the troupe prepared a grand birthday party for Wu Qiong, but because her beloved was not here, Wu Qiong was a little absent-minded. Suddenly, all the lights in the venue went out, and Ruan Xun appeared in front of Wu Qiong with a handful of red roses.
"It was like a dream, I couldn't even imagine how many days in advance the two of us were so far away." Wu Qiong is still full of happiness after many years of recollection.
After that, the two justifiably got together, but because of the fifteen-year age difference between the two, this made Wu Qiong, who was originally confident, feel inferior.
Every time the two walk together, Wu Qiong always intends to keep a certain distance from her boyfriend.
In Wu Qiong's view, if the two of them walk hand in hand, passers-by will always look at them a few more times, as if asking, what is the relationship between these two? Mother and son are not alike, siblings are not alike, boyfriends and girlfriends are not alike.
Is he really old and decaying? Is she really not worthy of Ruan Patrol at all?
But Ruan Patrol's love for her is always very firm, in the face of his girlfriend's timidity, Ruan Patrol holds Wu Qiong's hand tightly every time and does not let go, in the face of the cynicism of others, he will domineeringly reply: "Shut up your."
But his girlfriend still cares about other people's opinions, and every time she goes out with her boyfriend, she likes to hide behind Ruan Patrol, so Ruan Patrol also gave her a loving name "Little Mouse".
The two fell in love so sweetly and low-key.
«——[·People oppose.]——»
But because both of them are public figures, this relationship was soon exposed, and many people found it difficult to accept the age difference between the two, fifteen years old, when the woman was forty years old, the man was only twenty-five years old, which is not a person of the era at all.
Some people ridiculed Wu Qiong for "old cows eating tender grass", "a handful of age is not ashamed", "tricking criminals to go to jail" and so on, and all kinds of ugly words were heard endlessly.
But what makes the two more uncomfortable than the malice of strangers is the obstruction of their biological parents.
In the eyes of Wu Qiong's parents, her daughter did not marry at an age, which was originally a "big disobedience", but now she is nearly fifty years old, but she wants to be with a man who is so many years younger than herself, isn't this raising a son for herself?
When this man dislikes his daughter's old age, won't he take his daughter's money and other little girls to ask me and me? Where is such a man worth entrusting for life? Where is the good candidate to take care of your daughter?
Parents work hard to bring up their children, is to hope that their children can live their own lives, and the most important part of this is marriage, who does not want their children to have a good partner who supports each other and has a sense of responsibility.
At the same time, Ruan Xun's father strongly disagreed, and said to Ruan Xun more than once: "She is eleven years younger than your mother", how many people have to accept when going out, as a cadre, he can not bear others to point fingers at him.
Even in order to separate the two of them, Ruan Xun's father personally approached Wu Qiong more than once, hoping that Wu Qiong would "spare his son".
However, the two did not hesitate to fight against the family and also to achieve positive results with each other, and in July 2004, the two officially registered their marriage, and held a grand wedding at the end of the same year.
At that time, both were very old, and their parents blocked it for many years without success, and they could only accept the children's choice.
«——[The Truth About Not Having Children.] ——»
In fact, shortly after marriage, Wu Qiong became pregnant, and just when both parents were overjoyed about this, bad news came...
The child in Wu Qiong's abdomen is not in the correct fetal position, the umbilical cord is around the neck, and the chromosomal abnormalities have made them catch up, and the woman's age is inseparable, and in desperation, the two can only endure the pain of losing the child.
After losing the child, Wu Qiong's vitality was greatly damaged, and she did not improve for many years, and Wu Qiong's age is getting older and older, the best childbearing age has been missed, and now if she has a child, the woman's body can't bear it at all.
The two have been running for their children for many years, traveling everywhere, but there is still no result, so many years of stop-and-go, they have gradually understood a truth, that is, children are not a necessity in life.
Walking in the world, the most important thing is yourself, followed by the marriage partner who has been with you the longest, the child may be the fusion of the blood of the two, but it will not be the continuation of their own life. Life, two people can also be beautiful.
Until now, Wu Qiong and Ruan Xun are still happy and sweet together, and the two have proved to the world that their love is indestructible.
«——[·Epilogue.]——»
Everyone has a different definition of happiness, and people will have more or less regrets in their lives, but there is no doubt that Ruan Xun and Wu Qiong have found the most scarce true love in this world.
What do you think about that?