Educating children is an indispensable topic for every family, and I don't know which one you take?
First, pampered type: now there are few children, almost all children are regarded as palm pearls, grandma pain, grandma love, parents are no exception, look at it high, the social atmosphere is also like this, children grow up in honeypots, open to eat, raise their hands to dress, to wind to wind, to rain to rain, not to be a little grievance, not a little setback, your children are like this?
Second, the stick type: some children from birth, although not fell in hell on earth, but in the long growth years, but also suffered a lot, most of such children grew up in poor families, parents in order to live, tired all day exhausted, regard the child as a burden, a little unhappy, scold and corporal punishment of the child, are you so?
Third, permissive type: children are nature, let the child, indulge the child, unrestrained, let it develop, I go my own way, for this way of education, there is a good side, save to limit the child's nature, the child is in charge of obedience, only promises, obedience, the so-called good children, but limit the child's creativity and intelligence to find the roots, is your education method like this?
Fourth, the talent type: from the time the child falls to the ground, parents have made careful preparations, first learn parenting knowledge, and according to their own situation, teach their children according to their aptitude, continuously summarize lessons and lessons, understand the characteristics and interests of children in many aspects, and put forward warnings and suggestions to children, affirm the advantages and disadvantages of children, praise of praise, criticism of criticism, be a good counselor and confidant friend of children,
Not condescending, teaching children at every turn, and even scolding corporal punishment, but being a good teacher and friend of children! Are you like this?
Written on: 2023, 09, 11