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If you own an old house that you can't live in, will you sell it to relatives for the sake of family affection and face? This question touches on the complex relationship between money and family affection. The economy between relatives often causes various problems, and even if the family relationship is strong, once money is involved, the relationship may break down. However, refusal is also everyone's right, Bi Shumin once mentioned, because you are good at talking, should you embarrass yourself?
01. The family divides the property, and the brothers divide the property
Luo Ming has always believed that brothers and sisters should support and help each other. So when his younger brother offered to buy the old house that his parents had given him for 250,000, Luo Ming agreed without hesitation. The brothers were three years apart, and the younger brother entered society and married early before him. When Romine and his wife got married, the younger brother already had a family and children.
So, the parents decided to separate. In view of Luo Ming's better financial situation, they divided the newly built house to his brother and a dilapidated old house to Luo Ming. Although his wife was a little dissatisfied with this, in order to save face, Luo Ming accepted this arrangement.
In addition, Luo Ming provides his parents with 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses, although his wife objected, thinking that the money would eventually flow to his younger brother, but Luo Ming did not care, he firmly believed that brotherhood is deep and should not be turned over because of money.
02. The younger brother bid 250,000 yuan to buy an old house, which caused controversy
For the first two years, the brothers were at peace with each other, with Luo Ming and his wife living in the city, while the younger brother's family lived with his parents in their hometown. The parents took care of their younger brother's children, and although his wife often complained, Romine did not care.
However, when his younger brother suddenly offered to buy his old house for 250,000 yuan, Luo Ming deeply felt the conflict between family affection and money. Almost under his brother's sincere request and his parents' intercession, Luo Ming almost sold and half gave away this old house.
When the younger brother came to find Luo Ming, he was sincere, saying that his sister-in-law had just given birth to a second child and was a son, considering that both sons would need a house in the future, so he hoped to buy an old house. He also said that he had assessed the market value of the old house, which was about 200,000 yuan, but was willing to pay 250,000 to buy it in order to avoid infighting.
Hearing his brother's request and his parents' intercession, Luo Ming's heart softened. He believes that this old house is also a waste when it is vacant, and it is better to sell it to his brother, especially the family should not fight for property. But the wife was adamantly opposed, arguing that the homestead value of the old house was higher.
03. Consequences and thinking about decisions
The wife's persistence eventually left his brother and parents in vain. Luo Ming was seen as an unfilial son and a white-eyed wolf, and people said that he was ungrateful, and did not even help his own brother. Under pressure from his parents and younger brother, Luo Ming tried several times to convince his wife that it was better to sell it to his brother for the sake of an old house that was not worth falling out. However, the wife's resolute attitude could not be shaken.
Two years later, when the old house in his hometown was to be expropriated and demolished, Luo Ming understood why his brother insisted on buying the old house for 250,000 yuan. The parents and younger brother apparently learned the news in advance and were eager to buy the old house to get the demolition money. This made Luo Ming feel dissatisfied in his heart, and he was confused by the interweaving of family affection and money.
However, although his wife was determined not to sell the old house, his parents asked Luo Ming to share half of the demolition money. Luo Ming felt helpless, thinking that his parents still had property rights and had to agree to divide half. And this half of the demolition money will be used to compensate his younger brother, which is equivalent to the pension fee that Luo Ming paid to his parents.
For the kidnapping of his parents' affection, Luo Ming felt helpless. Although he wanted to retort, the house was given by his parents and he could not resist. This backtracking made him suffer. The question now is, is Romine obligated to give half of the demolition money to his parents?
Everyone may have a different opinion on this issue. Some people think that Luo Ming is obliged to share
The demolition money is given to the parents, because the house is given by the parents and they have property rights. In addition, Luo Ming should also consider his parents' pension needs, after all, his parents have raised him for years of hard work. Part of the compensation for his younger brother can also be seen as Luo Ming's contribution to family harmony.
However, some people believe that the unfair treatment of his parents and younger brother on the real estate issue made Luo Ming feel aggrieved. If the house is given to Luo Ming, then the demolition money should be completely owned by him, after all, this is his efforts and efforts over the years. The sudden request of his younger brother and parents obviously made Luo Ming feel used.
On the whole, whether Luo Ming's decision to divide the relocation money to his parents depends on the specific circumstances of the family and his personal values. In this process, all parties need to sit down and fully communicate, respect everyone's rights and positions, and seek a fair and harmonious solution. In the end, family harmony and affection can be maintained, and the issue of money should not be a stumbling block to family relations.
Summary:
This story reflects the complexity of making a choice between family and money. Romine was in trouble when faced with dissenting opinions and conflicts of interest from his parents, younger brother and wife. Money may test family affection, but in families, understanding, communication, and compromise are also key to maintaining family bonds. I hope this story will trigger more people to think about family love and money relationships.
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