Lead:
Old age is full of helplessness and challenges. As you age, your body gradually ages, and your children's attention and care may decrease, and sometimes you may even face dislike. However, there are also methods and strategies that older people can adopt to reduce their children's dissatisfaction and worries and make their later life more comfortable and happy.
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Keeping the old nest and maintaining independence is the first lesson in later life. No matter how much the children lobbied, do not easily sell their hometown, especially when the elderly cannot take care of themselves, keeping this old nest means having a solid foundation for life. It may be different from the life and eating habits of young people, but having your own space and living old age freely is a priceless happiness.
At the same time, taking care of your wife and children is crucial. In old age, taking care of each other and spending old age together becomes a special kind of happiness.
The elderly couple can accompany and support each other, reducing their dependence on their children. In the event of minor illnesses and disasters, you can also go to the hospital together to reduce your worries and troubles for your children.
However, ensure your financial independence and stability. If you have surplus food in hand, you will not panic in your heart. The elderly should continue to work hard to earn money when their health allows, so as to prepare for future retirement. When you need to spend money, reaching out to your children infrequently can avoid unnecessary contradictions and disgust.
Keeping a certain distance from your children is also the key to happiness in later life. Don't cling to your children and don't interfere too much in their lives. Keeping a bowl of soup at a distance and not disturbing each other can reassure your children and reduce your worries.
In addition, older persons should avoid meddling in their children's household chores. Regardless of whether there is a conflict between the little couple, the intervention of the elderly usually only makes the situation worse. It is necessary to be less nosy and less worried, and let young people solve problems on their own.
In particular, it is necessary to learn to shut up and respect the way children are educated. Modern education methods may be different from the older generation, but the older ones should not interfere too much. Put yourself in the right position and don't stress and worry your children.
At the same time, be self-aware and not frequent in and out of your children's homes. Uninvited and overly dependent homes can be unpleasant, so keep your distance appropriate.
Self-respect and self-love are also very important. Older people should be steady, sober, and avoid engaging in things that might embarrass young people, such as twilight love and second marriage. We must not make trouble for our children and not be rejected by our children.
Finally, don't moan without disease. The elderly may have various physical problems, but they do not have to complain to their children every day. We must rely on ourselves in everything, and solve the problems we can solve by ourselves, so as to reduce the burden on our children.
Summary:
Although life in old age is challenging, the elderly can reduce the possibility of being rejected by their children by guarding the old nest, taking care of their spouses and children, maintaining financial independence, working hard to earn money, keeping a certain distance from their children, being less nosy, shutting up, being self-aware, self-respecting and self-loving, and moaning without disease.