Xiao Zhou, 26 years old, said that she met a man called a friend in 2016, but suddenly found out that he was married in 2018, causing him to be unable to accept this special situation.
Xiao Zhou said she and her ex-boyfriend met through chat software. After meeting, they chatted online for a while and then went out to meet. A friend was also present at the time and said that the friend used to be a good person. Then they said we were together and the whole process would take more than ten days. Our relationship has been strong ever since she broke up with her ex. In order to help his former lover solve the problem of capital circulation, Xiao Zhou lent a large amount of money.
Mr. Zhou said his former lover was an engineering worker. Since he could not get the money for the project, he asked himself to help him with the loan during this time. Since applying for a credit card in May 2016, the three credit cards have been issued a cumulative amount of 30,000 yuan. It is understood that the bank card she holds is still with her ex-boyfriend. During the relationship, she never went to her ex-lover's house, nor did she see anyone at her ex-lover's house, nor did she know that her ex-lover was married and had children.
My ex-boyfriend's wife came to me, but she knew he already had a family
In June 2018, after seeing the photos posted on WeChat, she called her ex-boyfriend's wife to inquire and learned that her boyfriend was married. Most surprisingly, Xiao Zhou said that his former lover had been married twice. After divorcing in 2016, she got married again in October 2017. Knowing about it, she also went to her ex-boyfriend, but he asked her to settle the matter privately. Well, the main thing is to solve the problem of money, do not contact me in the future.
Regarding the remarriage that occurred when they were together, the lover explained that his mother forced him, also because of the child. After the ex-boyfriend divorced, the children were raised by her. From 2016 to 2018, he gave his ex-boyfriend a total of more than 200,000 yuan. He borrowed a lot of money. This is because the credit blacklist can't get a loan, so it helps him get a loan again and again.
Mr. Zhou said the money was borrowed in his own name from various online platforms and transferred to his ex-boyfriend through WeChat and Alipay. All payments have been recorded and more than $240,000 remains unpaid. She hopes to find her ex and get her money back.
Xiao Zhou found Mr. Sun's home, but he was not there, and Sun's mother said she did not know where her son had gone. Xiao Zhou found that his ex-boyfriend blocked his phone number and could not reach him, so he borrowed a mobile phone to call her, and now he is in touch. He said by phone that he was out of town now and would return home in the middle of the month. He told Xiao Zhou that he had a reason to go to court and return all the money he had borrowed from Xiao Zhou. The best way to do this is to seek legal avenues and go to court. Learn to pay attention to your emotions
At that time, Mr. Sun's wife answered the phone, saying that she knew Mr. Sun had a wife, but she was still with him. After marrying Mr. Sun, she told Xiao Zhou, but Xiao Zhou still came to his wife every day and gave her gifts. When he asked his wife about the phone loan, Mr. Sun agreed and said he wanted Xiao Zhou to go. File a lawsuit in court. Mr. Sun recorded the conversation and said Mr. Zhou also sent threatening messages to his wife. He also admitted that he was indeed single when he met Xiao Zhou, but did not tell Xiao Zhou until after he got married. If you have any problems after payment, please solve them through legal channels.
Speaking of which, he talked about Xiao Zhou's debt again. An employee of an online loan company said that on May 10, 2018, Xiaozhou withdrew less than 10,000 yuan from the online loan platform. The loss was 1066 yuan, and it was not returned for more than 20 days after the expiration. They originally planned to report the case to the local police bureau, but the money was returned the next morning and Xiao Zhou was not charged. It's late now, Xiao Zhou doesn't answer the phone, and the phone numbers he left behind are all fake.
They don't know what's going on, and online loans are linked to their own merits, so Xiao Zhou can think about it. Xiao Zhou said that there were still more than 1,000 yuan, a total of 30,000 to 40,000 yuan. He also released his account and found that the money he transferred to his ex-boyfriend using WeChat and Alipay was recorded in detail. He transferred 160,000 yuan to his ex-girlfriend through Alipay, and the ex-boyfriend returned 120,000 yuan, leaving 40,000 yuan missing. In WeChat, the difference is more than 60,000 yuan, a total of more than 100,000 yuan. But in fact, Xiao Zhou paid off the company's debts himself. He needs more than 200,000 yuan, and the interest must be borne by himself.
Finally, Xiao Zhou said that he wanted to wait for Mr. Sun to come back, sit down and talk to him calmly, pay back the money owed, learn to give affection, and then leave everything behind. Commerce. If you're feeling frustrated and blaming yourself, let go of the past and look to the future.
So you should be kind to your parents. If you have money during this time, you should pay off these urgent debts first, because it is not your ex-boyfriend who affects it, but Xiao Zhou's debt story for the rest of his life.