#Talk about Chinese culture #It turns out that only women and villains are difficult to raise, and the villains in Ye are not the villains we think [cover face]
I have always thought that the villain is the villain who is the opposite of the gentleman, and I often sigh with emotion, and after reading Mr. Yi Zhongtian's explanation, I understand that this villain is not another villain, what is going on?
It turned out that in the past, it was a system of primogeniture, and most of the family property was given to the eldest son, and the rest was divided among other concubines or brothers.
Their sect is called Xiaozong, and the people of Xiaozong are referred to as villains, Confucius said, only women and villains are difficult to raise, women here are not people with bad morals as we understand, but that women are like those small sect people (庶子 and 嫡二子), closeness is not, estrangement is not.
Get close to him! He will forget his identity and be your equal.
Alienate him! He is a family member and will have opinions.
That's why Confucius said that only women and villains are difficult to raise, but he also has a sentence later, far away is complaining, near is not inferior.
It seems that history and culture are really broad and profound, and sometimes we only learn a drop in the bucket, and our understanding will be biased.
It is indeed necessary to be rigorous in doing learning, and it is necessary to understand the ins and outs.