preface
"I am a heinous crime, I am a murderer, I should not trust others easily"
"The child is gone, it is suffocation, it is my eternal pain"
This is the voice of a child's mother in pain after her child's accident.
It turned out that just recently, a baby over 9 months old died of suffocation in bed due to poor care from his grandmother.
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Mother's distress
It turned out that the mother had to go out to work due to the pressure of life, so she entrusted her daughter to her mother-in-law to take care of. However, the mother-in-law was not very willing to take on this responsibility and remained reluctant to go home to take care of the children.
But faced with the difficulty of making a living, the child's mother resolutely decided to leave the child to her mother-in-law and left her hometown to seek a living in Shanghai.
However, sadly, just 4 days after she left, something happened to the child, which separated her from her yin and yang.
On the day she left home, the child's mother also posted on social platforms: "I didn't expect the scene of separation to be like this, because my mother-in-law was not very willing to take over, I kept delaying time and not coming back." But the car I set off for was leaving, leaving you alone in bed and going. Hearing your cries breaks my heart. ”
From just a few sentences, we can see the pain of a mother who has to leave her children at home in order to live. But what the child's mother never expected was that this was the last time she saw her child.
Why do children suffocate to death?
Because the child's mother has a heavy debt burden, she has not been able to pay this debt. At the same time, her physical health also developed problems and required treatment and medical expenses. In order to pay off debts, receive treatment, and even more so for children.
The child's father persuaded her at the time and promised that the child's grandmother would take good care of her granddaughter, and even if the child's grandmother did not intervene, he himself would have enough ability to take care of the child.
It was out of trust in these words that the child's mother made the painful decision to leave the child to the child's grandmother.
However, she learned after the child's accident that the child's grandmother did not take care of her granddaughter as promised, and even played cards outside on the day of the child's accident, without stepping into the child's sleeping room.
A nine-month-old baby was covered by a quilt at night, unable to roll over on her own, and there was no one around to look after her, eventually suffocating to death.
Why would grandma ignore her own granddaughter?
Why would the child's grandmother ignore her own granddaughter? Through this mother's statement, we may be able to glimpse some of her reasons.
It turned out that the child's mother and mother-in-law had an unpleasant dispute in the past over the bride price.
Before they got married, the child's mother asked her in-laws to pay a bride price of 40,000 yuan. At that time, her mother-in-law claimed that there was not enough money, so the two sides discussed transferring a one-story property in the town to the newlyweds, and the market value of the property was about 40,000-50,000 yuan.
However, when the couple received the marriage certificate, the conveyancing agreement had not yet taken effect, and the mother-in-law suddenly changed her mind and refused to transfer the property to them again. She even bragged that she would give the house to those who filial to her in the future.
Even more outrageous, she also spread rumours that discredited her daughter-in-law, claiming that she had defrauded her son of money and was now attempting to take away her property.
Therefore, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also like water and fire.
In the face of all this, it is really unbelievable that there are such selfish, indifferent, and brazen people in this world. Although this mother-in-law does not have a good impression of her daughter-in-law, her granddaughter is her biological blood after all and has a family connection. Can she really make up her mind to treat her granddaughter so cruelly?
Now, we cannot know what this grandmother really feels, because due to her negligence and carelessness, her granddaughter suffocated. Whether she feels a hint of remorse in her heart is difficult to determine.
Mother who was "cyberraped"
It is incomprehensible that some netizens began to attack the child's mother.
The mother was heartbroken and deeply remorseful about the death of her child, and she deeply regretted her original decision: she entrusted the child to her grandmother and chose to work outside the home.
She expressed her remorse on social platforms, and at the same time was full of resentment towards the negligent grandmother.
However, some netizens did not sympathize with the mother, and almost everyone pointed the finger at her.
Netizens said: "My mother-in-law said that she didn't want to take it, you have to throw the child behind, the child died, pity the child." ”
They have said that the elderly are not obliged to take care of their children. They believe that children are supposed to be cared for by the childbearer, and if the mother cannot take care of the child, why should the child be born?
What's more, the child's grandmother herself is unwilling to bear this responsibility, it was the mother who forced her to take care of it, and now that the child has an accident, the mother should bear at least a large part of the responsibility.
These sharp comments were like sharp blades that mercilessly pierced the mother's strong exterior. This poor mother has lost her favorite child, and now she has to bear the blame from netizens, which is undoubtedly an even worse pain for her.
Wrong marriage
From the daily life shared by the child's mother before, it is not difficult to see that from the birth of the child, the responsibility of taking care of the child has always been shouldered by the mother. The child's mother once complained on social media: "I asked my husband, why is the task of taking care of the child completely left to me alone?" ”
The child's father actually replied: "Let who gave birth to who brought it, otherwise why did you give birth to her?" ”
The child's mother was very puzzled, after all, the family had plenty of time, why they were so indifferent to their granddaughter and daughter, and they were unwilling to come and hug the child in person.
They seem to think that taking care of children is entirely a mother's business and has nothing to do with them.
From these few words, you can also see the irresponsibility of the child's father. In serious terms, is there no father's responsibility for the death of this child?
Keep your eyes open
Marriage is a major life choice that should be carefully considered.
Women should focus on their personal growth and happiness first, rather than rushing to get married. They should only consider marriage when they have found a truly suitable partner who is willing to build a strong, respectful marriage together. Marriage should be a voluntary, equal cooperation, not driven by external pressures or social expectations.
Don't be rash enough to step into unblessed marriages, because you may have no idea what a terrible encounter may be for you in the future. At the same time, do not rush to give birth until you are not capable enough to raise your children. Rather than giving birth to them and leaving them to suffer, not giving birth is also a compassionate choice.
This poor child, she was so young, so lovely. Her innocent and beautiful smile seems to have the power to heal everything. We sincerely hope that she has become an angel and will no longer be troubled by human suffering.
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