#Challenge 30 days to write a diary in the headlines #Beautiful appearance can only create an opportunity for first contact, and the charm of personality can stand the test of time and ooze a refreshing fragrance.
01 No matter what others do to you, please don't look down on yourself
Here's the story of Otto Wallach:
Otto Wallach, winner of the 1910 Nobel Prize in Chemistry, is legendary in his success. When he began middle school, his parents chose a literary path for him. Unexpectedly, after one semester, the teacher wrote this comment for him: "Wallach is very hardworking, but he is too rigid, and such a person, even if he has perfect moral character, can never achieve anything in literature." ”
His parents then asked him to change to oil painting, but Wallach was not good at composition, could not polish, and did not have a strong understanding of art, and his grades were the last in the class. The teacher's comment was even more unacceptable: "You are an inadherently informative material in the art of painting. ”
In the face of such a "clumsy" student, most teachers think that he has no hope of becoming a talent. Only the chemistry teacher thought that he was meticulous and had the qualities that a good chemistry experiment should have, and suggested that he try to learn chemistry. Thus, the spark of Wallach's wisdom was ignited at once. Soon, this unmalleable material in literature and painting became recognized in chemistry as a "promising talent".
Otto Wallach's inspiration to us: find your own path, do what suits you steadfastly, give full play to your strengths, and don't look down on yourself no matter how others treat you.
02 Only by embracing the success of others can we truly grow
A person who has not made progress in many aspects such as how to behave in the world, attitude to life, and self-cultivation can only be regarded as aging, not growing, let alone mature. A person's growth is a process of constantly discovering mistakes, constantly correcting, and constantly moving forward.
A story about the famous world-class speaker Andrewks:
Andrewks, a world-class orator, was a journalist before becoming a speaker. He considered himself gifted in language, but he was never able to write award-winning reviews. Later, his neighbor, who entered the industry later than him, wrote award-winning articles and became a gold medal commentator for major media outlets. This made him very unconvinced, and he refused to contact the other party.
A few years later, Andrewx had to go to a neighbor's house to pick up something by chance. It was this unexpected visit that completely changed Andrewks' life. It turned out that he found that this neighbor, who had entered the industry later than himself, had written a basement full of manuscripts. These manuscripts were returned.
It is only natural that others work harder than themselves, and succeed earlier than themselves. Of course, Andrewks had a different understanding of this view a few years later.
With the increase of experience, Andrewx believes that a person's success has nothing to do with the time of time, age, and seniority, but more from a person's efforts and conditions. Knowing how to accommodate the success of others is a manifestation of a person's true growth.
03 People who control emotions can delegate heavy responsibilities
Abiley is a well-known radio host. Her son said goodbye to his football career after straining his legs during a training session, which made Abili feel extremely sad. She frowned and was immersed in pain every day. Over time, the work also slacked a lot, causing dissatisfaction among the people around him.
Once, a listener called Abili during a live radio broadcast, crying about some trivial things, and repeatedly entangled, and Abilly's emotions were out of control: "My affairs are much more serious than yours, and they are not as annoying as you." After the show, Abili received a lot of complaints from listeners, and her boss also thought she was no longer suitable for the job, and suggested that she take a break for half a year and return to work.
Abily did not calm down during the break. On the contrary, she feels very irritable, always unable to control her temper, and even growls inexplicably at dogs. Abili felt that this was bad, and found Carnegie through a friend and gave her advice. I told Billy to learn to be the master of emotions and to harness bad emotions, not let emotions dominate you.
A person who can control his emotions is more able to be entrusted with heavy responsibilities, and he is more able to handle work calmly and treat life rationally, and when you learn to control bad emotions, you will definitely become lovely and beautiful because of this.
04 Write at the end
Andrew, a psychologist, said: "Women are more likely than men to fall into the quagmire of low self-esteem and are more susceptible to external evaluation. Therefore, women must learn to evaluate themselves correctly and have the ability to be self-motivated. If you don't have any withdrawal in your mind, then you will give it your all, and the probability of success will be greatly increased.
In the process of growing up, everyone is bound to accommodate many different things, see different scenery, and appreciate different joys, sorrows, loves and hatreds. That's life. No matter what you're going through, always keep a religious, bright and inclusive heart.
Learn to be the master of emotions and control bad emotions instead of letting emotions dominate you. When you learn to manage bad emotions, you will surely become cute and beautiful because of it.