Fu Seoul and Lao Liu on "Goodbye Lover", may be in the eyes of many people, this is a loving couple, but many marriages have changed, and they are cumulative.
Lao Liu talked about the series of changes in his life from Hefei to Shanghai, and what he had to do every day was to pick up and drop off his children, becoming almost social, and people becoming more and more closed.
Fu Seoul, on the other hand, is more and more focused on his career, and the pace is getting faster and faster, talking about the reasons for wanting to separate, Lao Liu said that it is more dissatisfaction with himself, including the denial of his life state and the attitude of wanting to make changes, and the inability to resonate at the same frequency is not a healthy marriage state.
And such an imbalance has long been foreshadowed, it happened on the "21 Days Before Marriage" variety show in 20 years, and Lao Liu still talked a lot at that time, and his eyes were full of love for Fu Seoul.
Remember the scene where the two were cleaning up from Shanghai's round fat home? The two of them reminisced bitterly in the car, Fu Seoul felt that life could have earth-shaking changes, all due to his own credit, a sentence that was mainly my reason, I don't know how many people's hearts stung.
Lao Liu was a little sad, so he said, "You don't need to emphasize that it's all your reason, and you don't need to indoctrinate it repeatedly." ”
In fact, this is an unbalanced state, husband and wife, once someone thinks that they have given too much, and repeatedly emphasizes in front of each other, will consume the other person's self-esteem, feel that they are living on the other half, they are very incompetent.
Such frustration will always linger in Lao Liu's heart, and he has to hold Fu Seoul like a flower, catering to her sense of achievement, this contrast is really suffocating.
In the accumulation bit by bit, Lao Liu still filed for divorce, so it seems that the two parties to the marriage are still equal, and walking towards each other is a healthy marriage state.