#秋日生活打卡季#
There are many parents complaining, fully engaged in their children's life, education, children still do not buy it, from time to time and parents against each other, the heart is particularly uncomfortable, but with these parents in-depth communication, found that they are really busy, the child's life learning, everything is called quite in place, but feel that parents are very careless, the child's learning situation, current problems confused, psychological state is not known, how can this situation educate children well? How to understand the child, grasp the child's dynamics at any time, and then educate the child well?
Mom and dad, especially mom, as long as they do these 3 aspects, they can understand the child at any time, plus correct education, the child will definitely have a chance in the future, the method is actually very simple, the key is that parents must be attentive.
First, the eyes are fast, good observation,
Silently pay attention to the child's behavior and thinking, to capture the information behind some of the child's behavior (don't ask rashly, as the child grows older, the child's independence increases, and parents do not want to interfere more with themselves). For example, this child suddenly began to be particularly keen to dress himself, then you should pay attention, maybe the child's heart has undergone some changes, began to pay attention to their own image, may be her friends, classmates are enthusiastic about this, may also be Internet celebrities or popular culture caused, or looking for a sense of existence, parents find the reason, the right medicine, pay attention to proportion. There are also many details such as the child suddenly begins to close the door and lock it, parents should also pay attention, eyes should be fast, be good at finding changes in the child in the details, and think about the reasons behind the analysis.
Second, fast ears and good listening
That is, parents should listen carefully to their children's words (talk less and listen more). Obedient, many parents are very slow to respond. As they grow older, the people that children trust the most are from parents, to teachers, and then to classmates and friends; After reaching the upper grade of primary school or junior high school, because of the problems in the parent-child relationship, most of the children talk to their parents to say half and keep half, or only say good, good news but not worry, parents must respond quickly when listening, to think about what the second half of the child's sentence is, or what is behind the words, we can really understand the true meaning of the child.
Third, the brain is fast, think diligently
It is when our children throw out some problems, when he encounters some difficulties, we must have this rapid response wisdom, to help children analyze, assist children to solve, encourage children, and at the same time must pay attention to children's sensitivity, discuss more in case of trouble, not forced, in order to ensure that this time, next time can communicate well with children, effective communication, help children continue to grow.
As long as parents do a good job of eyes, ears, and brain online at any time, you will be a attentive parent, a wise parent, your child under your influence and nurturing, his learning, his future life must be very excellent.