The man plays cards and does not support the family and is still very critical, the eldest brother takes advantage of the void, aunt: someone cherishes me for you
In a small village, there is a man named Xiaoming, he is a master card player in the village, often plays cards in the tea house at the head of the village, and is a well-known gambler. However, despite his success in playing cards, he was criticized by the villagers for refusing to support his family and being very critical.
Bob is the son of the village's eldest brother and should have shouldered the burden of supporting his family, but he has always lived a bohemian life against his parents' expectations. Not only was he reluctant to pay for the family's expenses, but he often nagged his wife and children to save money. The people in the village did not understand how a man who was nearly forty years old could live so irresponsibly.
The aunt in the village, that is, Xiaoming's sister, has never been able to see Xiaoming's behavior. She feels that as the eldest son in the family, Xiaoming should not only support his parents, but also care about the happiness of the family. Every time she saw her sister busy taking care of her children at home and worrying about the expenses of the family, a wave of helplessness and grievances would surge in her heart.
One day, the eldest brother in the village heard about Xiaoming's various behaviors, and he couldn't help but feel angry. The eldest brother has been working in the city, and although he is not at home, he has always tried his best to provide financial support for his parents. He felt that his younger brother Xiaoming's behavior was really intolerable, so he decided to take advantage of the void and teach him a lesson.
The eldest brother found Xiaoming and asked him to meet him at the teahouse. The two sat in the corner, and the people in the teahouse knew that this was a private conversation between families, and they all retreated. The eldest brother said to Xiao Ming with a calm face: "Brother, I heard that your performance at home is not very good, not only refusing to support the family, but also slamming at your wife and children. This behavior is really infuriating. ”
Xiao Ming listened to his eldest brother's words, and his face was a little embarrassed, but he still tried to justify: "Brother, you don't know, I have always had luck in playing cards, I just want to make some money for my family, but I didn't expect ..."
The eldest brother interrupted Xiao Ming's words: "Don't make excuses anymore, younger brother." Providing for your family is every man's responsibility, and you can't always count on someone else to cover your family's expenses. Moreover, you are too harsh on your wife and children, and the family should be warm and harmonious, not a stressful place. ”
Xiao Ming felt a little guilty, he knew that what his eldest brother said was right. The eldest brother continued: "Let me tell you, the happiness of a family is not only money, but also care and love. Your aunt, she has been giving silently, in order to take care of parents and children, you should cherish her well. ”
A touch of emotion flashed in Xiao Ming's eyes, and he began to reflect on his behavior. He took a deep breath and said firmly: "Brother, you are right, I am wrong. I will change myself, take on the responsibility of raising a family, and treat my aunt and children well. ”
The eldest brother smiled slightly, he knew that his words had already had an impact. He said, "Well, brother, if you change, everything will be fine." The family is our most important dependency, and we cannot allow it to break apart because of our irresponsibility. ”
From that day on, Bob began to actively look for work, and he worked hard to earn money to cover the family's expenses. He also became more considerate and caring for his aunt and children, helping to create a warm and harmonious atmosphere for the family. Everyone in the family felt happy and satisfied, and the people in the village also saw the change in Xiaoming, and their evaluation of him began to slowly improve.
Through the persuasion and guidance of his eldest brother, Xiaoming understood the importance of supporting his family and learned to cherish the happiness of his family. The story of this small village tells us that the family is the most important support system in life, and that everyone should take responsibility and maintain the happiness of the family with care and love. And in difficult times, understanding and support between loved ones will be the most valuable asset.