She encountered the "persecution" of two scumbags in a row, and suffered from schizophrenia under extreme collapse.
In 1997, a song "The Sunshine is Always After the Storm" became popular all over the country, this song made singer Xu Meijing famous overnight, and once called "Queen of Heaven" with Faye Wong.
However, 26 years later, although the song is still popular, Xu Meijing has been reduced to singing on the street, and her behavior is crazy, and she does not have the appearance of a "diva" at all.
It is said that "love will make people lose their minds", and Xu Meijing's experience may be a living example.
The person who made her ended up hurting her
In 1992, Xu Meijing relied on her outstanding appearance and her own superior conditions to stand out in the beauty pageant and won the Singapore beauty pageant championship.
This also allowed her to smoothly open the door to the stars, and among the many choices, Xu Meijing embarked on the path of chasing her singing career.
The following year, she participated in a talent show and met the show's producer, Chen Jiaming.
Just the first time they met, Chen Jiaming was deeply impressed by Xu Meijing's singing voice, and took the initiative to apply to become her mentor, wanting to fully support her singing career.
In 1994, Chen Jiaming wrote 12 songs for Xu Meijing alone, which was the first time in his music career.
With Chen Jiaming's careful support, Xu Meijing's debut album "Knowing Knows" sold 1 million copies as soon as it was released, and Chen Jiaming's tailor-made works for her are all hits.
Under the care of Chen Jiaming, Xu Meijing's singing career soared and set sales records many times, but in addition to musical co-production, the relationship between the two people also underwent subtle changes unconsciously.
Chen Jiaming's care and care for Xu Meijing exceeded that of normal tutors and students, and Xu Meijing gradually developed a different kind of attachment to Chen Jiaming.
It was not until 1999, when Xu Meijing first met Chen Jiaming's wife, Peng Xiumei, that she woke up like a dream and realized the chasm-like distance between the two.
In the same year, Taiwanese king Li Zongsheng invited Xu Meijing to develop in Taiwan, and a huge choice was placed in front of 25-year-old Xu Meijing, because leaving Singapore meant separating from Chen Jiaming.
She fell into contradictions and painful struggles, but finally chose to accept Li Zongsheng's invitation.
Before leaving, Xu Meijing plucked up all her courage, asked Chen Jiaming to eat, and gave her heart and mind.
Unexpectedly, Chen Jiaming directly rejected her confession, saying that they were not suitable, and asked Xu Meijing to find a more suitable person.
Chen Jiaming's answer was undoubtedly a blow to Xu Meijing, and she watched Chen Jiaming leave with red eyes.
However, the next day, Koh made a move that shocked everyone - she publicly announced that she refused Li Zongsheng's invitation and said that she would continue to stay in Singapore to develop her music career.
Xu Meijing's reason is simple, she feels that unlike Li Zongsheng's style, she needs to start from scratch in Taiwan, and everything must be rebuilt.
But the most important thing is that whether musically or emotionally, she is already closely connected with Chen Jiaming, and she can't let go of him in her heart.
This unexpected decision surprised and delighted Chen Jiaming, and soon after, he took the initiative to meet Xu Meijing, confessed his thoughts to her, and promised to divorce his wife Peng Xiumei as soon as possible to give Xu Meijing a justified identity.
After all kinds of bitter love, Xu Meijing finally came together with Chen Jiaming, but Chen Jiaming's promise of "fame" made Xu Meijing wait for 6 years.
In the end, the man who held her up in the sky also became the most difficult scar in her love path to heal.
Chen Jiaming's elaborate lie
After Chen Jiaming promised Xu Meijing that he would file for divorce, the two began to frequently date secretly after work.
However, love is like an open Pandora's box, and soon this underground love affair is discovered.
Chen Jiaming's wife, Peng Xiumei, is the editor-in-chief of a well-known fashion magazine, very sharp, intelligent and capable, she has noticed that her husband has been working overtime frequently recently, and she is always mysterious.
So she began to pay attention to her husband's every move, and occasionally encountered the scene of Chen Jiaming hiding and hiding with Xu Meijing.
Not only that, some gossip tabloid media are also like sharks smelling blood, and began to frantically "track and shoot" the two, hype their scandalous romance, and anonymously break the news that the two are dating.
This pushed the relationship between Chen Jiaming and Xu Meijing to the cusp.
Peng Xiumei repeatedly questioned Chen Jiaming what was going on, but Chen Jiaming denied it, claiming that it was just an ordinary work friend.
In order to avoid the limelight, Chen Jiaming began to deliberately avoid Xu Meijing, showing more care for his wife in public, putting Xu Meijing in an embarrassing situation.
So Xu Meijing began to urge Chen Jiaming many times to fulfill the promise she had made to divorce his wife, but Chen Jiaming was only vague and always said to give him a little more time.
Finally, one day, the media broke the explosive news that Chen Jiaming had divorced, and Chen Jiaming personally confirmed this "good news" to Xu Meijing.
This made Xu Meijing ecstatic, and began to look forward to entering the marriage hall with Chen Jiaming, but because she was too immersed in love, she did not realize that she was about to step into the endless "abyss".
Just when the two were about to get engaged, Xu Meijing inadvertently saw Peng Xiumei's figure again in Chen Jiaming's house!
It turned out that the so-called divorce rumors were just a lie fabricated by Chen Jiaming to coax Xu Meijing.
In fact, with the support and threat of his wife, Chen Jiaming could not really file for divorce, because Peng Xiumei controlled the power of the media and public opinion, and she could make Chen Jiaming's career collapse at any time.
All kinds of truths and lies were revealed, Xu Meijing's whole person collapsed, she locked herself in her home, and she either slept or sat all day.
In the end, her parents decided to take her on a trip abroad to relax, hoping that this journey would help her out of the shadow of emotional sadness.
It's just that Xu Meijing's parents didn't expect that their daughter would meet her second boyfriend on this trip, and what they didn't expect was that Xu Meijing's life would also "collapse" because of this.
Into the second "abyss"
In order to heal the pain of her first relationship, Hui Meijing embarked on a trip to Taiwan at the suggestion of her parents, where she met singer Yuen Yiu-fat from Hong Kong.
Yuan Yaofa fell in love with Xu Meijing at first sight, and the two gradually became acquainted, and even became good friends who talked about everything, and Yuan Yaofa's sunny personality also rekindled Xu Meijing's enthusiasm for life.
However, they didn't know that this time, Xu Meijing fell into a more terrifying emotional vortex than before.
Xu Meijing did not expect Yuan Yaofa to look at the surface sunshine, but her heart was extremely insecure.
He constantly made unreasonable troubles, made a lot of excessive demands on Xu Meijing, and threatened to break off relations with her if he was not satisfied, and the two often quarreled over it.
At the same time, the scandal between Xu Meijing and her partner Chen Jiaming gradually spread, and Chen Jiaming's fake divorce incident stopped Xu Meijing's career.
When public opinion intensified, Chen Jiaming took the initiative to contact Xu Meijing, saying that he wanted to continue to cooperate, in order to make a break with the previous matter, Xu Meijing agreed to meet, in order to avoid people's eyes, the two met secretly in a high-end hotel in Singapore.
However, Xu Meijing did not know, this meeting had already been detected by Yuan Yao, who indifferently announced the breakup on the phone without knowing the truth of the matter.
The emotional setback again made Xu Meijing desperate and unable to extricate herself.
In June 2006, Chen Jiaming came to Xu Meijing's hotel room, Xu Meijing looked in a trance with tears on her face, and she asked Chen Jiaming why she deceived herself.
Chen Jiaming felt guilty and was about to apologize, but saw Xu Meijing jumping out the window, fortunately the hotel had a guardrail Xu Meijing did not succeed, but she had obvious mental disorders.
Xu Meijing, who failed to jump off the building, pushed Chen Jiaming away, rushed out of the door and ran in the corridor.
When she saw a door, she rushed in and shouted, "Kneel, I am God!" The tenants were frightened by her hideous appearance and hurriedly chose to call the police.
When the police arrived, Xu Meijing was no longer the goddess of the music scene she used to be, and she was diagnosed with severe depression and schizophrenia and needed to be forcibly sent to a mental health center for treatment.
After six months of treatment, Xu Meijing was finally allowed to be discharged from the hospital, and under the media interview, she generously admitted that she did suffer from mental illness and needed to rely on drug control.
After being discharged from the hospital, Xu Meijing announced that she would return to the music scene, however, the glory of the first half of her life seemed to have consumed all her luck, and her road to comeback was extremely difficult.
Now 49 years old, she has long lost her popularity in the music industry, only occasionally there is news, Xu Meijing's appearance is no longer young, and her figure is also much blessed, making people almost unrecognizable to her before.
epilogue
It can be seen from Xu Meijing's experience that a person's fate can be turned upside down in an instant, she fell from the peak to the bottom, and struggled desperately at the bottom.
What is the meaning of life? What does fame and fortune mean? How can we live cautiously and how can we love courageously?
Xu Meijing's story is not over, and we look forward to her regaining confidence and starting again.
Because there is no desperate situation in life, only a broader world.
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