When people are young, they will feel that gold jewelry is very earthy, and the gold of the soil is not at all compatible with their trendy temperament, but as people have a little experience, they will find the value of gold jewelry.
Diamonds are forever a long time, I believe that many people know this slogan, and it is precisely because of this slogan that many young people are willing to buy diamonds when they get married to prove their love.
But diamonds are still slightly inferior to gold, gold is hard currency at any time, even if it depreciates, it will not lose a lot of money, so many people are willing to buy gold for collection.
First, the girl who bought gold
No one can refuse the temptation of gold, but generally grandpa and aunt buy more, if you see uncle and aunt with a thick gold chain around their neck on the street, you will feel that this person must not be easy to mess with.
Sometimes gold is also synonymous with local tyrants, and many people feel that only local tyrants will wear gold jewelry, and everyone with taste brings jewelry and jade jewelry.
There will be despised chains in the fashion circle, but now gold has surpassed other jewelry to become people's hearts again, and even many young people have begun to buy gold.
Momo is a recent college graduate, she looked for a job in the talent market for a long time to find a good job, many people will take their first month's salary to buy things for their families, but she bought gold in addition to buying things for her family.
Don't be surprised by her behavior in buying gold, because she doesn't buy a lot of gold, she only buys one gram of gold, which is something that she can consume.
Since she first bought gold, she has been able to buy a gram of gold every month, and in less than a year, her bottle at home has many golden beans.
These golden beans are simply not enough to stuff their teeth in the eyes of those who have a lot of money. But for Mo Mo is very important, she knows how capable she is, if she takes out all her salary to buy gold is a very irrational behavior, swollen face and fat people are only painful, buying a gram of gold a month is a very happy thing.
Momo bought gold to wait for the gold to appreciate, which is actually no different from saving money, she is not willing to put money in the bank, she feels that it is very troublesome to store money in the bank, especially the attitude of the bank staff is not good.
She has also deposited money in the bank before, and it is easy to save money every time and it is difficult to withdraw money, and over time she is not willing to store money in the bank, she feels that the money is her own income anyway, and she can deal with it however she wants.
Second, the failure of love ends in blood
Another reason she bought gold was because she had a very internal relationship in college, and she and her boyfriend Zhang Mouqiang met and confirmed their relationship when they were sophomores.
Originally, the two of them were going to get married as soon as they graduated, and when she was about to graduate, she accepted her boyfriend's elaborate marriage proposal, and they had met both parents, and the parents of both sides also approved of their marriage.
Mo Mo felt that marriage was not for the man's bride price, and their family also prepared a lot of dowry for her, but what she didn't expect was that the other party would deceive their family with fakes, and the bride price sent by the man's family had a lot of diamond jewelry, only a small part of gold.
At the beginning, she didn't know that the diamond was fake, she was very happy that the man's family valued her, she actually didn't like diamonds or liked gold, but this was the man's intention, she was embarrassed to say anything.
The engagement ring she was wearing was also bought by her boyfriend, but her jewelry appreciation friend told her that there was something wrong with the diamond she had in her hand, and it didn't look like a real diamond.
If someone else told her this, she would think that the other party might be jealous that she couldn't see her doing well, but this friend was grown up with her, so she followed her friend to identify the diamond.
The results were really like what her friend said, the diamond was fake and not even rhinestones, she thought that there was still a diamond bride price from the man's family at home, so she went home and brought all the bride price to the store for identification.
All the diamond jewelry is fake, only one gold necklace is real but the gold content of the gold necklace is not high, and she now thinks that her boyfriend's family is playing her like a monkey.
So she took the bride price to her boyfriend's house to ask for explanations, she didn't expect that the other party's family were skinless and faceless people, and after they saw that the scam was exposed, they began to accuse the Momo family of unpacking the diamonds and then slandered their family.
Momo has never seen such a shameless person, she told her parents about this and took the diamond to the police station to call the police, she originally did not want to make this matter known to everyone, but the man's family is too shameful, the other party not only does not admit the mistake but also splashes dirty water on them.
She and her boyfriend Zhang Mouqiang no longer need to get married, and the most important thing now is to find out the source of fake diamonds so that the other party can admit their mistakes and let the other party have no way to quibble.
Finally, the police investigated the cause and effect of the matter, the fake diamond was indeed purchased online by the man's family in order to pretend to be a bride price, and after the matter was clear, the Momo family returned all the bride price sent by the man, and also canceled the wedding.
Mo Mo had notified all her relatives that she was going to get married, but she finally withdrew from marriage, and this matter hit her very hard, and she went to look for a job in a foreign country after she quit.
Third, buy if you want to buy without fear
Because of the divorce, Momo is not willing to go home, but it is impossible not to go home, she will also go home to visit her parents during the holidays, and I don't know where her relatives know the news that they will buy gold every month.
Some relatives said to her face that her act of buying gold was a loser, and instead of buying gold, it was better to deposit all the money in the bank to collect interest, in case one day the gold depreciated she had no place to cry.
Mo Mo feels that her relatives are full and have nothing to do, not their own affairs, but also to intervene, she has not spoken all the time to give face to relatives, that is her own money to buy whatever she wants, others can't care.
In fact, there are many young people who have the same idea as Momo, they also think that buying gold is a better way to preserve value than saving money, and Fangfang in Shanghai has bought hundreds of thousands of gold, which is the guarantee of her future life.
Whether it is to deposit money in the bank or keep money in the bank, people are so that they can have more money to live a good life, both of these practices have their own benefits, different people will have different choices.
What people are most afraid of is that they do not have self-knowledge, as long as they have enough understanding of themselves, no matter which way to save money is okay, ink ink such a way to buy gold to save money is also a very good choice.
Buying gold with their own money is not to rob in the gold store, and what is there to be afraid of, even if one day the gold depreciates is their own choice, the loss must be borne by themselves, some people do not eat salty turnips and worry lightly, as long as they take care of their own affairs.
4. Legal analysis
Mo Mo chose to withdraw from marriage with the other party after discovering the deception of her boyfriend Zhang Mouqiang, and the two families have since become enemies who do not communicate with each other, if the man's family feels that a lot of time and energy has been spent on the woman, and they all tell their relatives that the wedding day is over, and their family's face will be lost if they do not get married.
So Zhang Mouqiang's family threatened Momo if he didn't get married, he would get a knife and go to her house to kill her parents, and the other party did go to the house to threaten the old man and shoot a video, forced to have no choice but Momo can only marry the other party.
In this case, did Zhang Mouqiang's threat to Momo forcibly marry him violate the law, and will he be punished by law?
The Civil Code of the People's Republic of China stipulates the marriage system of freedom of marriage, monogamy, equality between men and women in China, and also prohibits arranged marriages, the sale of marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage.
If Zhang forces Momo to marry him, Momo has the right to apply to the people's court for annulment of marriage in accordance with Article 152 of the Civil Code, and the time for requesting annulment of marriage shall be submitted within one year from the date of termination of the coercive act.
If Momo is illegally restricted by Zhang Mouqiang, then she should propose to annul the marriage within one year from the date of restoration of personal freedom, the annulled marriage is invalid, both men and women have the freedom to marry, and marriage is completely voluntary between the man and the woman.
Article 257 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates the crime of violent interference with the freedom of marriage, and this crime refers to the criminal act of the perpetrator using violent means to interfere with the freedom of marriage or divorce of others, and the legal interests of infringement are human freedom of marriage and personal freedom.
Under normal circumstances, those who commit this crime shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or criminal detention, and if the perpetrator violently interferes with the marriage freedom of others and causes the death of the victim, he shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than two years and not more than seven years.
Marriage is actually a certain extent also pay attention to fate, whether men or women are married is a very important thing, before marriage must have a detailed understanding of the other half, if you do not know each other very well choose to get married.
Most of these marriages are unhappy, and some women may be influenced by their original families, and they are unwilling to divorce even if their married life is unhappy, and they feel that divorce is a very shameful thing.
They have repeatedly chosen to tolerate in life, not only did not exchange for their husband's understanding and concern, but only received a violent beating, many women who have been subjected to domestic violence are unwilling to seek legal help, or they have sought help from their relatives.
But relatives will only let them endure for the sake of their children, really to the unbearable place will cause unexchangeable results, in the face of domestic violence must seek the help of relevant departments at the first time, people are the first person responsible for their own safety, only they can be the most precious in this world.
Now the pressure of people in society is great, but no matter how much pressure can not do illegal and criminal things, people can not change the environment, but can change their mentality, people must learn to release pressure through legal ways, buying gold is actually a very good way to relieve pressure, decompression at the same time can save money, gold will not devalue in a short period of time.