Mother Sheng's story must have been paid attention to by many friends.
Thirteen years ago, she made a splash when she gave birth to twins at the age of 60.
Over the years, the children have grown up, her husband has died, has she regretted her original decision?
Just two days ago, Sheng's mother posted two videos in a row.
For the first time, she confessed that she had suffered a big robbery in recent years and was defrauded by millions.
For the first time, she confided that she found out that her husband's death was actually something else.
I was very impressed after reading it.
If you say, it was her experience of giving birth at an advanced age that filled me with curiosity.
The story she tells now gives me deep admiration.
01
In 2020, The Paper made a special report.
It details what Sheng's mother has experienced in the past 10 years since she became pregnant and gave birth again in 2010.
When she decided to get pregnant again, she was nearly 60 years old.
For others, doing IVF means countless needle holes on the belly.
For her, in addition to this, it takes a long time to condition the body, and more pregnancy reactions brought about by advanced age.
High swelling of the whole body, high blood pressure, high uric acid, bone pain, cramps...
But she begged an unknown number of hospitals, assuring every doctor who refused her that she would take all the risks.
Even in the years that followed, there were countless doubts.
She still insisted on suffering and suffering and gave birth to twins.
If there was a choice, how could Mother Sheng risk her life like this.
After listening to the call to marry late and have children later, she gave birth to a previous daughter at the age of 30, holding it in the palm of her hand for more than 20 years.
On the fourth day of the Lunar New Year that year, she sent her newlywed daughter to her in-laws' house to celebrate the New Year, and specially bought her daughter a brand new and fashionable imported fur coat.
But the next day she had a strange dream.
In the dream, the daughter was scruffy, wearing a loose sweater and old jeans, quietly looking at her.
She woke up from her dream and received a call:
The daughter and son-in-law were poisoned by gas and both died.
When she rushed to the rescue room, she saw her daughter wearing a sweater and jeans that appeared in her dreams.
For a while, the sky was spinning.
She used to be a doctor, a hospital director, saving lives and helping the wounded, pulling back many people from the lifeline.
But why did her daughter leave the house with a smile, but was held back?
Deciding to get pregnant again was a desperate choice.
All the wounds of the world can be healed by time, except for the loss of a child.
She bought herself a grave next to her daughter's grave and almost died together.
She searched everywhere for orphanages and tried to adopt a child, but to no avail.
In the end, I can only choose to do test tubes and give birth to myself.
Everyone thinks this is too crazy, but Mother Sheng knows that this is not an impulse, but a self-help.
02
Twin daughters were born.
Mother Sheng became a mother again and had the courage to live again.
However, life after that was more difficult.
In order to have children, most of the family's savings have been depleted.
And the old couple has retired, it is not easy to raise twins.
So less than 100 days after giving birth, she went out to work non-stop.
This is a 60-year-old man who has just walked through the ghost gate.
But she didn't dare to stop, she had to make money, she had to raise her two children well.
She flew all over the country and gave medical lectures.
Running from one airport to another with a suitcase is busier than a flight attendant.
There are nearly three hundred days a year, all running outside.
In an interview with a TV station one year, several early childhood education experts criticized her: You see that you don't accompany your children 70% of the time, how can this work?
She endured the grievances and said: Can I not want to accompany them, but without money, how can I raise them?
After all, she knows better than anyone about the risk of children becoming orphans when they are older.
So she can only fight harder than young people, just to save more money for her two daughters.
Because after the choice, it is not wanton, but responsibility.
This elderly mother gave all her pampering.
At the age of 3, I hired a tutor to learn a new concept of English for 400 lessons.
Interest classes should also be attended, and if you like to draw, you will be sent to learn to draw, and if you like to dance, you will be sent to learn to dance.
Teach them to be complete and self-reliant.
No matter how many people criticized him, he did not let the child suffer the slightest grievance.
For more than ten years, the two girls have grown up in love day by day, not only healthy and happy, but also sensible and motivated.
Today, her two daughters are 13 years old.
They said they wanted to get married early in the future, so that Mom and Dad could see it sooner.
Mother Sheng was sad and moved when she heard it.
As a mother, even if it hurts, even if she loses, she loves and gives her all every time, without reservation.
Everything is willingly dedicated to the child, because the child is her salvation.
03
But what the daughter promised, the husband could no longer see.
Sheng's mother never expected that at the age of 72, she would face a sudden loss again.
Sunday, December 4 last year, was the day the two young daughters returned to boarding school.
Mother Sheng was busy packing up for the child as usual.
At this time, the husband covered his heart with his hand and said that his precordial area was a little painful.
As a chief physician of internal medicine with more than 40 years of clinical experience, she responds quickly:
My husband has had a stroke before and is not in good health, although this slight discomfort is not a big problem, but it cannot be underestimated.
She gave her husband medication, called 120, and spent four and a half hours in the emergency room.
I saw that he regained his breathing steadily, his face was free, and his speech was normal.
Only then is it reassuring: the lover is fine.
It was already 7 p.m., the nanny was about to leave work, and her two daughters were still waiting for her at home.
Mother Sheng invited a nurse to say goodbye to her sane husband, and prepared to send the child back to school and come back.
But less than two hours after she left, the hospital called:
The husband's heart stopped.
Mother Sheng was stupid, stunned, and stood in place with the earpiece in a daze and couldn't speak.
As the most experienced doctor and a wife who knew the state of her lover best, she could not understand how he suddenly left.
That night in the pouring rain, Mother Sheng stood in the rescue room for the second time.
The second time I saw my favorite person lying quietly on the rescue table, unable to return to the sky.
The two children are still so young that they have no father.
Relatives are complaining about why she didn't guard her husband at that time.
Although trapped in unimaginable sadness, Mother Sheng insisted on her judgment with rare sobriety.
In the past half a year, she has not given up investigating this matter.
It was finally discovered that due to the misdiagnosis and misjudgment of a doctor in the hospital, anesthesia and surgery were performed without her consent and signature.
This led to the death of her husband.
Knowing this, Mother Sheng was resolute and uncompromising and did not reconcile.
Having already watched her eldest daughter leave her, how can she watch her husband die in vain?
At the age of 73, she is on the road to seek the truth for her husband.
She hired a prominent lawyer specializing in medical disputes, filed a complaint, and awaited trial.
Even so, Mother Sheng still blamed herself.
She could have sent her husband to a better hospital.
It is clear that money can be spent so that the lover can get better treatment.
But at that time, she was so embarrassed that she couldn't even take out 5,000 yuan.
Because everything she has saved for her two children for many years has been deceived by a person she trusts the most.
04
Six years ago, my wife had a sudden stroke and my child fell ill again.
It coincided with the Spring Festival, the nannies all went home, and Mother Sheng had to take care of three people alone.
For the first time, she felt so powerless.
At her most vulnerable, a woman surnamed Chen pulled her.
Her husband was ill, and Ms. Chen helped find a doctor; The daughter was sick, and she followed suit.
She cares about Mother Sheng and her two daughters as much as she cares about her loved ones.
At that moment when she needed help the most, Mother Sheng couldn't help but see her as a confidant.
She also at one point called herself the godmother of her twin sisters.
But everything she said about herself was false.
What studied medicine, is the director of neurology, his lover is from CCTV, and his son works in the United States ...
Packed wildly, and pretended to be for the sake of Sheng's mother's family.
Coaxed Desheng's mother to give her all the more than 2 million family resources she had saved over the years to "invest".
An elderly mother who wants to save a little more money for her two minor children listens to the lies of a friend she thinks.
Until her husband fell ill, Sheng's mother asked her for money, but she avoided it.
Only then did I realize that I had fallen into a trap from the beginning.
In fact, Ms. Chen not only deceived her, but also deceived many elderly mothers who lost their independence.
When Sheng's mother was 60 years old and became pregnant again, many women with the same experience wanted to seek her for experience.
After Ms. Chen met her, she pretended to be an "agent".
Under her banner, she went around teaching her experience to her lone mother.
said that Sheng's mother successfully walked the VIP channel to find a child born by an expert after her conditioning and arrangement.
After that, hundreds of thousands of dollars were charged, promising them that they would be pregnant in a few months and that they would be able to hold a baby in a few months.
In the end, he was bold enough to invite the orphaned mothers to "see it with their own eyes" at Shangsheng's mother's home.
And Mother Sheng thought that her girlfriend was just out of sympathy and brought the same person to talk.
So she was especially welcoming every time, cooking, entertaining.
When those mothers saw this, they naturally believed in Ms. Chen.
Because of her, Mother Sheng's efforts for so many years have been in vain.
Because of her, her husband did not receive the best treatment and died.
I can't imagine how Mother Sheng carried it after experiencing such a huge blow one after another.
She also has to pull two daughters who are not yet adults.
Also rethink your child's future life.
Someone else's 73 years old, raising every day.
She was 73 years old and shaky.
05
But when I saw Mother Sheng again, I was extremely surprised.
Hammered by life again and again, she is still so cheerful and optimistic.
Losing one after another, she sighed without sighing.
It is useless to complain, the most important thing is to accompany the daughters to grow up well, and the children are now only themselves.
The family was deceived, and she did not slump.
In addition to cooperating with the police active investigation, at the age of 73, she began to learn young people to live broadcast goods.
I'd rather endure some doubts myself, but I want to save some savings for my children while I still have strength.
Even if she was not treated well by fate, she was still warm to everyone.
I still hope that everyone can regain happiness.
He lost his son at an advanced age, lost his husband in his old age, and was eaten and wiped clean.
Mother Sheng said that these were the three disasters she had encountered in her life.
These three mountains, put on others, may not be able to stand upright.
Kesheng's mother was not convinced every time.
After losing her son, she did not want to go against the grain, but wanted to gamble with God and give birth to a child in the year of flower armor.
When she lost her husband, she refused to resign herself to her fate, preferring to fight with the big hospital to seek justice for her late husband.
Deceived, she can start again at the age of 73, contact the industry she does not understand, and make another world.
This is the most admirable thing I have seen from Mama Sheng:
Always have the courage to pick yourself up.
This may be the mother.
As the line says:
God couldn't be everywhere, so he created Mom.