44 years old is still in love like a little girl, Qin Lan's transparency, how many women dream of looking

In the group chat, I saw someone share a story about my surroundings.

It is said that there is a female acquaintance who has always prided herself as a little fairy and has extremely high requirements for her marriage partner, and as a result, she has struggled until she is 35 years old and still has not found a suitable person.

At this time, I found that men of the right age had already married and had children, and high-quality single men did not bother to intersect with her at all.

So I started complaining.

The group of friends turned on the mockery mode and attacked the little fairy one after another.

It seems that the last way left for her is to find the old, poor and disabled.

35 years old, still in the prime of life, how in their eyes, it has become a residual flower that no one wants.

Of course, if this woman also feels that she is not qualified to pursue love at the age of 35, then I will not cry out for her, because she does not understand, what is called:

If you bloom, the breeze will come.

There are ready-made examples here, and her experience is a wake-up call for all middle-aged women, including those who are married.

Qin Lan released an itinerary on September 1.

Her work schedule is packed from the beginning of the month to the middle of the month. And accompanied by a youthful photo.

Qin Lan is 44 years old and unmarried and single.

But over the years, there has never been a shortage of men around her who like her.

Among them is Wei Daxun, who has been rumored in recent days.

Wei Daxun is 10 years younger than Qin Lan, and although neither party positively admits the relationship, the interaction between the two is full of ambiguity.

A hug scene, filmed several times but could not be completed, Qin Lan smiled like a little girl, the atmosphere was sweet.

It can be seen that Wei Daxun admires this big sister, likes to tease her, and loves to see her laugh out of shape.

Under the sultry offensive, her sister also became a "girl" in Wei Daxun's mouth.

To say that the other party is a goddess can only be said to be appreciation and worship, but to describe her as a gentle "girl" is a different meaning.

The outside world had already spread the ambiguity between them, and Qin Lan seemed to be relieved.

Under Zhang Shaogang's questioning, she frankly said that "now is the state in which everyone sees me", and as for what expectations she has for the relationship, she said "take your time".

My sister really enjoyed the feeling.

Love without burdens and commitments, marriage will wait until it comes to fruition.

If you are really married, there are too many things to consider.

The two people became the bond of two families, and if you also consider having children, age should also be counted.

Zhong Liti is married to Zhang Lunshuo, who is 11 years younger than herself, and has been running for her belly for several years, asking God to tell the Buddha, but she can't see any movement.

It is rumored that Zhong Liti always has to tolerate Zhang Lunshuo's little nature that breaks out from time to time, and married life is not so satisfactory.

Men mature late, and only when they reach a certain age will they know how to be considerate.

Although she can provide her sister with the same emotional value as her first love, it is difficult to give a sense of security, and Zhong Liti has paid too much for this sense of security.

In fact, she already has several daughters, there is no need to pursue the crystallization of love, men should also take this into account when marrying a woman who is over the best childbearing age, even if the woman wants children very much, the physical function may not be able to do it.

Not everyone has the courage and luck of Yi Nengjing.

Her second child, millet grain, who gave birth at the age of 47, is too brave.

Qin Lan is 40+ years old, and she can still receive love scenes, and her partner is often an actor younger than her, not only because of the "anti-aging feeling" in her appearance.

It is the "vitality" that radiates from the inside out.

This kind of vitality is different from the natural youth of her 20s, and it is the result of her long-term insistence on "renewal" and shaping herself.

Take two well-known roles she has played, for example:

The "Zhi painting" of his youth was full and fresh, like a young shoots that had just emerged from a branch with hard thorns, and he couldn't help but want to pity (excluding the look and feel of the characters in the play):

In middle age, "Rong Yin" is gentle and inclusive, accepting all good and bad, like a calm pool, full of life and greenery.

Although she is a character in the play, she also has a part of her own shadow. She is as gentle as Rong Yin, but more cute and assertive than Rong Yin.

The gentle and atmospheric temperament is slowly cultivated, and the directors and actors who have worked with her like to get along with her. Not pretentious, and a little bit of the right little daughter posture, will make people forget her original age.

Temperament is a woman's best business card, including a well-maintained face, a straight posture, and a cultivation of treating others, no matter which one, it requires long-term unremitting internal and external cultivation.

Inside: It is to invest the greatest sincerity and effort in your own business, learn from experience like a sponge, and enrich yourself.

Outside: It is a perennial diet control and fitness exercise.

Busy filming, busy with fitness, and taking time to enjoy sweet love, her sense of security comes from a completely controllable status quo.

In such a state of life, who would sour what "women 40 tofu dregs".

When Wei Daxun and Qin Lan had an affair, no one cared that she was 10 years older than him, but questioned Wei Daxun: Where are you worthy of her.

Until Wei Daxun took out Meng Yanchen, a role with enough convincing acting skills, everyone nodded slightly, and the person recognized by his sister was indeed Puyu.

Or the previous sentence "if you bloom, the breeze will come", everyone is a magnetic field, you are good enough, and people as good as you will gather around you.

The 35-year-old woman mentioned in the group chat could not find the object she wanted, in essence, she had a serious bias in her cognition.

I only achieved 5 points on my own conditions, but I wanted to find a man with 9 points.

Then look around and see why all the goods that pursue me are so bad.

Because what a pot with a lid.

After the age went up, I didn't even have the only age advantage, and I cried and shouted, why is no one chasing me.

Because the men who fit her have also found the right pot for themselves.

Do married women sit back and relax in middle age?

No, there is also age anxiety.

After washing my hair, it seems that it is not drying as quickly as before, gaps appear between the teeth, fine lines appear at the corners of the eyes, stains climb on the face, the shoulders and back are thickened, and walking is not so light...

Time passes uncontrollably, leaving behind a field of chicken feathers.

Complain too much, and people age quickly.

What kind of life was chosen, accepted part, changed part.

Time is fair to everyone, eat Haisei without exercise, give back to you bloated posture, for the family to be a cow and horse do not take care of yourself, will give you a yellow skin and wrinkles.

If you really like a chicken feather, the most afraid is to complain about injustice while looking for something to do.

Just like my mother.

There is a washing machine that has to be washed by hand, saying that the washing machine is not clean, and then scolding her while rubbing her clothes by hand does not make her worry.

She turned over the dishes I washed and washed them again, saying that she was not at ease.

Constantly doing things and complaining, she looked much haggard than her peers in middle age.

It wasn't until she was about to reach old age that she figured it out.

First of all, myself, then wife and mother. After breaking free from the cage he had knitted, he finally had leisure to read novels, shop for beautiful dresses, square dance, and play mahjong.

I was energetic when I saw it, and I looked much more energetic than the other old ladies.

Age is not a shackle, a negative mindset is an aging agent

The life of a star is the envy of most ordinary people, but in this circle of fame and fortune, it is many times more difficult than ordinary people to live freely.

If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight, no one is easy, the comparison is the mentality.

The face collapsed with medical beauty to save; When the mentality collapses, the spirit and spirit will collapse, and the immortals will not be saved. Those stars who age faster are just bad in spirit.

Qin Lan's mentality is "enjoy the moment".

Accept your age, but always keep your child's heart.

She also faces the gift of time when she loses collagen.

So what can you do, accept wrinkles calmly, or use modern high technology.

She doesn't think that injections are something to be ashamed of, moderate maintenance can make her look younger, although it cannot fundamentally stop the aging process, but it provides herself with great emotional value.

However, her greatest confidence comes from her own cultivated temperament, willing to renew herself and enjoy the current young mentality.

The youthful mentality makes her mingle with young people, and the tolerance and tranquility precipitated by the years make her exude charm all around.

Who doesn't love such a glowing big sister.

Of course, there are many unsatisfactory things in life, but there are always "small lucks" to rejoice, complain about it, it is better to shape yourself, this shaping process is a beautiful practice, enough to resist the anxiety brought by age.

Some women, the more anxious they are about age, the more they like to emphasize an age that is not their own.

Search for middle-aged on small sweet potatoes, and most of them are heavy P-map filter selfies, self-proclaimed middle-aged beautiful girls, middle-aged little fairies...

It's okay to cheat buddy, don't fool yourself.

Every age has a unique beauty for each age.

Why pursue a 40-year-old girly feeling, time does not allow such an anti-heavenly existence.

But being an attractive luminous body can be done by anyone, regardless of age.