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I was abused and you laughed at me?
The former CCTV beautiful anchor, married an American doctor 20 years older than herself, went to court after only a year of marriage.
When news of her lawsuit abroad came back home, the public had a different view of her complaint.
Smooth sailing
Her life is no different from that of the general public.
She was born in Suzhou, a small city in the south of the Jiangsu Province, in 1978, and her parents named her "Chen Qing", which she later changed her name to "Cao Qing".
During her school years, she was quite competitive and studied hard and seriously.
In 1995, at the age of 17, she achieved good results in the college entrance examination and was admitted to the Communication University of China.
After entering the university, she was so strong, in order not to be left behind, she began to actively participate in on-campus activities.
In her freshman year, she hosted the music program of Beijing Radio with Ji Yan, a local teacher in Beijing, which opened the door for her to host.
In her sophomore year, she worked as a reporter for the "Reading Column" on China Education Television.
Working and living while studying has made her famous in school.
In her junior year, she successfully applied for the job as an location host and reporter for Beijing TV's "Fashion Garden".
She graduated in the summer of 1999, and while other students were looking for jobs, she was worried about how to get a better job.
Soon, she entered CCTV with her existing work experience in various local satellite TV during school.
That year, CCTV's science and education channel's "Approaching Science" program was still quite popular.
Although it seems that a story that can be deciphered in a few sentences now often has to be filmed for several episodes, it feels ridiculous, but at that time, when countless knowledge needed to be popularized, the existence of this show did allow many viewers to learn to use scientific thinking to answer the unknowns of life.
And she, in her first job when she entered CCTV, was to be the location host and reporter of "Approaching Science".
Now it seems that even if you don't know her name, will her face still make you feel familiar?
After entering the CCTV work, not only her work treatment is well guaranteed, but also allows her to get acquainted with celebrities from all walks of life in her daily work.
While increasing her knowledge, it also made her work harder.
Later, in 2002 and 2006, she served as a reporter for Beijing TV's "Four Seas" and a news host for CCTV's Agriculture Channel's "Focus on "Three Rural Areas".
Perhaps it was the stable job that made her feel tired, or maybe she added too much knowledge in Vanity Fair to give her a heart to continue to "climb up".
As a result, she worked in a "iron rice bowl" unit like CCTV for 15 years, and at the age of 37, she was planted in the hands of a Chinese-American 20 years older than herself.
Yearless love
In 2015, she resolutely submitted a letter of resignation, intending to resign from CCTV.
With such a job that many people can't seek, why did she plan to leave?
In fact, from the introduction of her in the encyclopedia, you can probably see some clues.
Since 2007, her work has been biased behind the scenes, and she lacks the opportunity to show her face in front of the stage.
So that writing masterpieces in the next few years can only be like some fresh graduates without work experience writing resumes, trying to write "tall".
Until after 2010, such "resume content" was not written again.
It can be seen that if there is no continuous progress to gain a foothold, and there is no real talent to keep pace with the times, the competitive pressure is really not small in the central enterprises that the public envies.
In fact, shortly after Baidu Encyclopedia, which now looks quite "Mary Sue", broke off her self-introduction, she fell into a love that changed her fate.
She met Tu Zhongheng, a Chinese-American 20 years her senior.
Tu Zhongheng is a master of medicine from a prestigious university, has been a private doctor in the United States for many years, with an annual salary of more than one million, his parents are also university professors, and he has a pension after retirement, so he doesn't need his children to worry too much.
Why did you never get married on such good terms?
She, an industry elite who once worked as a reporter on CCTV, has no doubt about this?
She fell into the pursuit of the other party.
Tu Zhongheng admired her talent very much, shushed her every day, and showed her his "strong financial strength" from time to time.
He has a keen eye for investing in real estate, has many villas in the United States, and has long been among the local rich people.
Give her designer bags, expensive luxury goods, and satisfy her vanity.
Although her parents are not optimistic about her relationship, they can't bear her deep love.
When she was 37 years old, she held a marriage ceremony with Tu Zhongheng, who was 57 years old.
It was also that year that she chose to resign at CCTV.
The wedding was grand and luxurious, and Hou Yaohua was invited as the wedding officiant and Li Zhaoxing as the witness.
After the infinite scenery, she also happily followed her husband to live in the United States.
However, after arriving in the United States, real life was very different from what she imagined.
Life after marriage
She walked cleanly and freely, as if she had won a battle, and wanted to start a "Kuotai life" in the United States.
According to Tu Zhongheng's previous statement, after she married into the United States, all she needed to do was to enjoy life, eat fragrant, drink and be happy every day, and did not need to work or economic pressure.
The truth was fundamentally different from what she had imagined.
After coming to the United States, she stopped working, and although at first she was dissatisfied with the fact that life was different from the luxury she imagined, she and her husband got along quite harmoniously.
But soon, she discovers a shocking secret.
She has been with her husband for nearly a year, but she has not been heard of her pregnancy.
After several follow-ups, she learned the news that made her feel like a thunderbolt: her husband was infertile.
This is also an important reason why Tu Zhongheng is in his early 50s and has not successfully married.
Several previous girlfriends who talked about marriage and marriage left because of this problem, and when they came to her, Tu Zhongheng chose to hide it.
From hiding her true financial situation before marriage and creating a "dream of Kota" for her, to telling her soon after marriage that she is infertile, this huge contrast has made her on the verge of collapse.
After all, she left in a victorious posture because such a man quit his originally decent job, married away from a foreign country despite her parents' objections.
And she behaved like a "gambler of love", taking a life bet and now losing a mess.
With more than ten years of experience as a journalist and host, how could she stop here?
She did not admit defeat in her mouth, and opened the humiliation and abuse of Tu Zhongheng.
She did not work in the United States, relying on her husband, so she was driven out of the luxury villa by Tu Zhongheng and went to live in a private house in the suburbs.
But she did not wake up and look for a job or choose to divorce, but chose to continue to entangle with Tu Zhongheng.
However, without financial resources, she needed the help of the other party to eat, drink and Lasa, and the conflict finally broke out, and when she claimed that she wanted to take her husband to court, Tu Zhongheng took the matter to trial first.
She listed her husband's 6 major crimes and then sought help from the embassy, saying she was abused by her husband after marrying into the United States.
Even more surprising things are yet to come.
On the day of the trial, she was previously rigorous and realistic and articulate, and shortly after the trial began, she shouted hysterically in the courtroom:
Give me food! I'm going to starve! I want to eat!
In this way, the matter was transmitted back to China, and many media reported on the matter.
Ghostly in mind
The former CCTV anchor married far away and was abused in the United States?
After the domestic media reported this matter, many netizens said that they "deserved it" and questioned that she resigned to marry a Chinese-American 20 years older than herself, and even dared to marry if the other party was not clear whether she was fertile.
After she was exposed by domestic media about her experience in the United States, she immediately revealed a number of videos and related dynamics to say that she was abused.
Her allegations included that she was bought a dollar pack of sanitary napkins and could only use it for a year.
Give her instant noodles that are about to expire and cheap toast slices at a discount.
And posted a video of only giving her white rice and not vegetables, in which her shooting angered Tu Zhongheng, and the other party took her mobile phone away to prevent the shooting.
Later, she filmed and posted a video of herself being starved to the point in the United States.
After being treated so inhumanely, she should divorce her husband, right?
The facts are eye-popping.
In court, Tu Zhongheng said that he was unwilling to settle and insisted on divorce, and said that her malicious slander had damaged his reputation.
However, she refused to divorce, hoping to reach a settlement with Tu Zhongheng, and she proposed a "mutual avoidance order".
She said the two sides could limit contact, but it would not affect the reputation and career of both parties.
In addition, she mentioned that she hopes to better protect her life, and if the two parties do not want to meet, Tu Zhongheng can buy food and throw it in front of the door of the suburban house where she lives.
How is she like this?
On a Q&A software, there is such a question: "How do you view the family dispute case between CCTV media person Cao Qing and her husband in the United States"?
Among them, Gaozan replied roughly like this:
Cao Qing got a marriage green card in the United States, and if divorced, she would be deported to China.
If she wants to get a regular green card, she must prove that her husband abused her, so that after the divorce, her marriage green card will be converted to a regular green card.
But in my opinion, she may just not be able to let go of the dignity of leaving as a "victor" at that time.
When he got married with great vigor and scenery, he came to the United States not only did not live a life of high society, but his husband was still nearly 60 years old, busy with work every day, and infertile "bad old man".
Just over a year after being married, the two sides had a quarrel and went to court.
In the face of public opinion, she could only bite the "abuse", get a regular green card, and start another new life incognito;
Or choose to reconcile with Tu Zhongheng, continue to hold a marriage green card, and passively avoid the world.
epilogue
In fact, if you think about it, a former professional strong woman, a high-achieving student who has no barriers to communicating in English abroad, why can't he find a job after marrying abroad?
This is really puzzling. #娱评大赏#
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