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Tangled fate
Back in 2010, at the Changshu Municipal Public Security Bureau, an old lady suddenly broke into this peaceful place, full of guilt, claiming that she had killed her daughter-in-law and hoped to turn herself in. This sudden incident shocked everyone present, because what caused this tragedy was a seemingly trivial family dispute - the daughter-in-law did not allow her to watch TV. This absurd fuse may seem unbelievable to people, and it can't help but make people think: Can the entanglement of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law evolve to this extent, and even lead to murder?
Liu Xiuying, the old lady involved, has experienced three marriages and has a bumpy life. She pinned all her feelings and expectations on her only son, Dong Gangbiao. In Liu Xiuying's eyes, her son is the whole of her life and the last harbor in her heart. Dong Gangbiao showed excellent qualities since he was a child, worked hard, and in order to live up to his mother's expectations, he worked hard all the way and finally became a doctor. However, her son's success also made Liu Xiuying's possessiveness even more frantic, and she was unwilling to share her son's attention and love with anyone.
Liu Xiuying's overdependence and possessiveness became the time limit for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Dong Gangbiao met Xu Yili, a girl who was also a doctor, with similar thoughts and living habits, and the similarity of the two brought them together quickly. However, Xu Yili's background and family are far from Liu Xiuying's expectations. Xu Yili's parents, who are university professors, expressed concern about the wrong marriage. However, love makes Xu Yili believe that as long as there is love, everything can be overcome. This marriage conflict has been undercurrent from the beginning, and the differences between the family backgrounds and lifestyles of the two parties have become more and more obvious.
After marriage, the problem gradually became apparent. Xu Yili's pursuit of cleanliness and hygiene conflicts with Liu Xiuying's habitual casualness. Small things accumulate into intolerable contradictions, and the relationship between the two gradually deteriorates. Liu Xiuying adopted an obvious hostile attitude, and was full of suspicion and hostility towards her daughter-in-law's every move. Xu Yili, on the other hand, constantly compromised and tolerated in contradictions, tried to maintain the marriage, but to no avail.
Dong Gangbiao's request for perfection exacerbated the contradiction between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. He chose to side with his mother in matters of marriage and with his wife very few times. Before the conflict erupted, his posture and decision-making appeared hesitant, unwilling to solve the problem head-on. This negative attitude exacerbated the problem, which eventually turned into a tragedy.
That tragic day has finally come. During an argument, Xu Yili's help was ruthlessly ignored by Dong Gangbiao, who chose to compromise and choose to obey his mother. After this quarrel, her mother-in-law's emotions were completely out of control, and she used extreme means to kill her daughter-in-law with a knife. Calm and fierce, she calmly turned herself in afterwards without remorse.
This tragedy reflects many problems in family relationships. A possessive mother, a husband who does not act or even chooses to compromise, and a wife who constantly compromises all contribute to this tragedy. The entanglement of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the possessiveness of mother-in-law, the inaction of the son, and the indifference of the daughter-in-law, this series of problems have jointly led to a tragedy of human life.
In this tragedy, the mother-in-law's possessiveness became a destructive force. She pinned all her emotions on her son and could not stand the presence of anyone else. This excessive possessiveness eventually led her to take extreme measures and end the life of a young woman. Dong Gangbiao's inaction and incompetence also played a key role in this process. He chose
Resigned, he chose to escape and compromise, and did not stand up to protect his wife at a critical moment. His negative attitude and inability to respond made it impossible to resolve the conflict in time, which eventually led to tragedy. As a victim, although Xu Yili continued to compromise and tolerate, she could not change the situation, and eventually became a victim of this family dispute.
The tragedy also reflects some of the common problems of marriage in modern society. Parents' expectations, family background, living habits, these can all become factors that affect marriage. Choosing a partner is not just about choosing a person, it also means choosing a family, a lifestyle. In this marriage, Xu Yili and Liu Xiuying represent two different families and outlooks on life, and the conflict and friction between the two escalated after marriage, and eventually evolved into irreconcilable contradictions.
Dong Gangbiao's attitude and decision-making also reflect the negative tendency of some men in family disputes to a certain extent. His inaction and infirmness made him a weak player in family conflicts and even exacerbated the problem. He chooses to compromise between his wife and mother, not realizing that such a gesture can lead to tragedy. This also reminds people that in marriage, men need to stand up bravely and play an active role in order to maintain family harmony.
Behind this tragedy, there is also the question of social values. Liu Xiuying's pathological possessiveness and her son's obedience may be related to the concept of "filial piety" in traditional family culture. In traditional Chinese concepts, filial piety is a virtue, but excessive filial piety can lead to imbalances in family relationships, or even extreme situations. In modern society, the balance of family relations and individuality
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