Sister Han Ai fell in love with the prodigal son Chen Jingji: love is like water, easy to open and difficult to break, if you know life and death

Han Aijie is the daughter of the most shameless couple Han Daoguo and Wang Liuer in the book "Jin Ping Mei", and when she was a little sensible, she often saw her mother Wang Liuer and uncle Han Er mixed up incest and cheating, which has a huge impact and negative impression for an ignorant girl who is building moral thoughts and emotional concepts.

She really knows how to distinguish between right and wrong, and the closest people around her have served her as the most direct negative teaching material, that kind of state of mind, but all those who have a positive view are either extremely sad about how they were born in this kind of family, or hate how their parents can be so shameless.

When she was fifteen years old, she had just raised her head and barely considered an adult, and she was married by her vain parents to the forty-year-old housekeeper of the Taishifu Zhai as a concubine, and served as a fertility tool.

Housekeeper Zhai was still relatively clean before Nahan's sister, there was only one original wife, a bit like the Hai Chaoyun family in "Know No, Know No, It Should Be Green Fat Red Thin", the age is forty, and the knees are empty, which only moved the idea of taking a concubine, and the motive is not for lust but for the inheritance of heirs. The reason why I want to choose a young and beautiful girl is because the young girl has strong fertility, neat and beautiful appearance, and can pass on the excellent genes to the descendants, which is still very different from Ximen Qing marrying Pan Jinlian in order to lust.

However, this also indirectly led to the fact that Han Aijie's chances of meeting love after marrying Zhai Butler were very slim, in that era of average marriageable age of fifteen or sixteen years old, a forty-year-old man, even if he had been passionate, had already been consumed to other women in the past twenty-five years of relatively youth, and what Han Aijie could get from him was at most some scraps.

In the book, through the mouths of Han Daoguo and Lai Bao'er, he briefly mentioned one or two sentences about Han Ai's sister's married life, and Han Daoguo, who went to send relatives, said this after returning, "Good family, when the child goes there, he will serve with three rooms and two maids, and the clothes are needless to say." On the second day, I saw my wife in the back. Zhai Butler was very happy...", and then came to Bao'er to send Jiale to Mrs. Cai's mansion, and when he came back, he said, "You still don't know, the two of Han guys are so good and rich in that mansion, they live alone in a house, call slaves and servants, sit in five elements and three, Zhai butler calls him as his father, and his daughter Han Aijie, and he goes up every day to promise the old lady, never leaving an inch, he will serve ten, pick a mouthful to eat, change clothes and dress." Now I can write and calculate, blessed to the soul, grow up well, and look beautiful. I came out to see me the day before, dressed like Qionglin Yushu, a hundred clever and smart, and a mouthful of uncle. ......”

Looking at this situation, after Sister Han Ai married Zhai Butler, if nothing else, at least get rid of poverty and live a rich life as a slave maid, a bit similar to Pang Chunmei, who was later discovered. But unlike Pang Chunmei, Pang Chunmei became pregnant and gave birth as soon as she entered the Zhou Shoubei Mansion, holding the key to the house in front of half of the home, and after completing the target task that Zhou Shoubei used to give birth and nurture when she bought her, Zhou Shoubei's main room lady just passed away, and Pang Chunmei was successfully helped right, becoming the indispensable housemother, usually acting as a blessing in the mansion, so that even Zhou Shoubei had to fear her for three points, and she was really pampered and proud. But Sister Han Ai married butler Zhai, firstly, she did not complete the childbearing task, and secondly, she had to serve the rules in front of Mrs. Zhai like a slave day by day, so that even if Mrs. Cai did not fall later, Zhai Butler would inevitably buy a younger third room for the sake of inheriting the heir, and then Sister Han Aijiao would be similar to Li Jiaoer in Ximen Qingfu, becoming a dispensable role.

So, has Sister Han Ai ever loved Butler Zhai who is ten years older than her father Han Daoguo, I don't think she really loved, she married Butler Zhai on the orders of her parents, and there is no room for self-choice. Whether it is humans or animals, when choosing a mate, the first choice is still the kind of age, followed by the old and the young, in short, everyone unanimously likes the young, energetic, vigorous kind. In this matter, Sister Han Ai has no choice, she is just the chosen one, and then Zhai Butler treats her as a fertility tool, and she treats Zhai Butler as a long-term meal ticket, and this transaction will also show a short-term state of extreme harmony when both parties are profitable.

Later, this state of affairs was broken by the fall of Mrs. Cai, and Zhai Butler could no longer provide Han Aijie with a stable and prosperous life, so Han Aijie abandoned him at the instigation of his parents, and later became a secret prostitute due to life.

It wasn't until she met Chen Jingji at the Linqing Pier Hotel, which inspired another side of her life.

People who usually grow up in bad people will become two kinds of people, a submissive type of obedient from evil as collapse, like a learner, gradually grow into a new generation of bad people, rebellious type, because of disgust and resistance, they force themselves to develop in the opposite direction, and finally grow into an alternative "unscrupulous", which is similar to the gangster young master in the TV series we watch to rebel to become a policeman.

It can be said that before meeting Chen Jingji, Sister Han Ai was a meek and well-behaved girl, her parents asked her to marry the old man, she obediently married the old man, let her abandon her husband Zhai Butler and run away, let her sell herself as a prostitute to support the family, until she met Chen Jingji, the two smiled for three lives, and after the spring breeze, Sister Han Ai changed a person like a rebirth.

Maybe he was impressed by Chen Jingji's youthful beauty, or perhaps he was impressed by Chen Jingji's deep love (although Chen Jingji loved Han Aiji as Pan Jinlian's stand-in, but it is not false to have love for her. ）。 These were things she had never received from the housekeeper Zhai, who was older than her father, and from the clients who paid for the spring. Since then, Sister Han Ai and Chen Jingji have been together all day, playing and singing together, exchanging love letters, you non my nong, a lot of affection, simply sitting face to face and thinking about you.

Chen Jingji left aside his newly married lady Ge Cuiping for Han Ai's sister, and his sister-in-law Pang Chunmei didn't bother to deal with it, let alone go to other places to throw flowers and grass, as soon as she had time, she devoted herself to Han Aijie, and the secret prostitute Han Aiji also swore never to pick up other guests in the room for Chen Jingji, and only looked forward to Chen Jingji, maybe this is the exclusivity of love, it is said that double pairs are pairs, pairs are paired, and there are no three or three pairs of pairs.

Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, and Chen Jingji, in order to vent anger for his trouble-making mother-in-law Wang Liu'er, returned to the Zhou garrison mansion to complain to his sister-in-law Pang Chunmei about Zhang Sheng and his brother-in-law Liu Er, and was overheard by Zhang Sheng, who was patrolling the night in the garrison, and Zhang Sheng took a knife and killed Chen Jingji in a fit of anger.

Sister Han Ai, who heard the bad news at first, cried all day and did not think about tea and rice, in order to go to the Zhou Shoubei Mansion to see Chen Jingji's corpse, she said that she was willing to die. Finally heard about Chen Jingji's grave, she wore a filial uniform in front of the grave crying sad fainted, finally woke up, saw Pang Chunmei and Ge Cuiping who came to the grave in the Zhou garrison mansion, Han Aiji also did not care about the shame, ran to the two and kowtowed, and said to the two of her that although she and Chen Jingji are a dewy couple, but the two swear to live and die together, she is willing to leave her parents from now on, and follow the two sisters back to the house to observe the festival for Chen Jingji, only hoping to be buried next to Chen Jingji after death.

Pang Chunmei was moved after hearing this, and still raised her question, you are so young and beautiful, how can you keep it, if you make a scene, forget it, in vain delay your good time of youth for several years. After hearing this, Sister Han Ai swore righteously, even if I cut off my nose in the future, I will insist on keeping the festival for him and will never marry someone else again. Han Aijie's parents were afraid of losing the cash cow and did not agree with Han Aiji to observe the festival for Chen Jingji, so Han Aijie threatened them, if you have to force me, I will take advantage of your impermanence. Under the insistence of Han Aijie, she finally lived in the Zhou Shoubei Mansion as she wished, and the two of them spent their days together with Chen Jingji's house filled Ge Cuiping.

Love or not, you can see it here, Han Aijie and Zhai Butler are a couple who have had a wedding, but they are willing to abandon him and flee when he is in danger, and they have never kept the festival for him, and even took the initiative to become a secret prostitute, but when Han Aiji fell in love with Chen Jingji, even if there was no wedding and no official title, she had to wear filial piety for her, and even for him, to violate her parents again and again, don't say what girls are outgoing, this is also divided into occasions, to people, she feels worthwhile, she will be outgoing if she is willing, Before meeting Chen Jingji, Han Aiji was definitely towards her parents and was not outgoing at all.

And when the fan soldiers went south, because Pang Chunmei made a scandal, the servants and maids of the garrison were all sent, and only Han Aijie and Ge Cuiping, who insisted on observing the festival, remained in the mansion, and later Ge Cuiping was picked up by her mother's family, and Han Aijie in order to avoid being insulted by the soldiers who came over, so she held Yueqin in her arms, sang all the way and fled, and later fled to Huzhou, where her parents were located.

After the death of Han Aijie's father, Han Daoguo, her mother Wang Liuer married her uncle Han Er. Because of the beauty of her birth, Han Aijie often had local rich children come to ask her for relatives, and when her father Han Daoguo was alive, she could also make her refuse to marry, and when his uncle became a family, she forced her to marry every day, and the cornered Han Aijie had to fulfill the vow she had made before, cut her hair and ruined her eyes, and became a nun.

Before meeting Chen Jingji, Han Aiji was just a money-making tool for her parents, she didn't have a little self, and after meeting Chen Jingji, she awakened self-esteem, self-love and self because of true love, and since then she has only bloomed for him and is beautiful for him. After his death, she tried her best to live decently and beautifully, and when she had no choice, she was willing to destroy her beauty, cut off the covetousness of others, and resolutely retain her faithful love.

It can be said that Han Aiji's love for Chen Jingji really answered the words in the book, love is like water, easy to open and difficult to break, if you know life and death.

Love, if you meet that person, you can be reborn in an instant and become a person you didn't expect. No matter who you have met before, and no matter who you will meet in the future, he will be the only one, the one forever. When you come, I will be radiant and amorous, and when you are gone, I will keep our vows for the rest of our lives, even if I destroy my face and abandon my life.

Compared with Wu Yuenniang guarding the huge family inheritance left by Ximen Qing, with the name of the main house, and the observance of a grave son under her knees, Chen Jingji left nothing to Sister Han Ai except for a piece of Ayapa, which was written in four not very clever love poems, she had no name, no family, no job, and no son, this weak woman's persistence along the way was really very touching, especially her parents were still such a couple, one only greedy for lust, the other only greedy for money, and no good influence on her at all.

She kept her steadfast love, refused all the temptations of gold and lust, successfully slapped her parents in the face, and also told everyone that no matter who your parents are, what your family environment is, what kind of life you lived before, as long as you want, you are willing, you are willing, you can become a brand new person, the beautiful person you really want to be.

PS, from the perspective of modern people, Sister Han Ai is actually a junior, but we must not judge a person out of the background of the era in which the character is located.