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Speaking of "online love" overturning, it can be said that the jokes have appeared in major social media, with the development of the times, almost all the communication between people is through the network to communicate, so the "online love" application was born.
In recent years, there have been frequent reports of online romance overturning, and some netizens have beautified themselves through retouching software and sent flawless photos to each other, but when the two parties met offline, they found that they were completely two people.
Wang Lei, who lives in Xi'an, has always been particularly rejecting online dating, always feeling that there are no good people on the Internet, but as he grows older, Wang Lei's parents have never been able to let go of the fact that their son does not have a girlfriend, and they are even more envious of watching other old guys teasing their grandchildren.
So without telling Wang Lei in advance, he took Wang Lei's personal information and photos to the blind date corner of the park.
"Blind dates" arranged by parents
Wang Lei looked at the mobile phone number handed to him by his parents, confused and didn't know what his parents meant? The king father just urged Wang Lei to quickly add the contact information of the other party, and the queen mother also said: "Son, don't worry, your father and I will definitely not pit you."
But seeing that her son was indifferent, the queen mother told Wang Lei about her and her wife going to the park blind date, and the old couple carefully searched for 5 days in the blind date corner before finally finding a girl who was similar in age to Wang Lei and had similar conditions in all aspects, and finally got the girl's contact information from the girl's parents.
Wang Lei looked at his parents with earnest eyes, and could only bite the bullet and take the phone number, and sent a friend application to the girl under the earnest eyes of Wang Father and Mother.
After about seven or eight minutes, the girl passed Wang Lei's friend application, and the girl was not very surprised to learn that Wang Lei was the object of her parents' blind date corner in the park.
In this way, under the "supervision" of his parents, Wang Lei chatted with the girl without a match, the girl's name is Bai Li, and Wang Lei is a native of Xi'an, and her work as an accountant in a state-owned enterprise unit is relatively stable.
Wang Lei works as a civil engineer in a local construction company, and Bai Li is also a match for the conditions, so it can be seen from the side that the older generation's selection criteria for their daughters-in-law or sons-in-law are still based on the door-to-door pair.
Wang Lei and Bai Li chatted for about a week, and Wang Lei's parents urged him to ask Bai Li to come out and have a meal together to learn more.
Wang Lei feels that his parents have a point, the two should meet formally, and if they feel that they are okay after meeting, they can continue to communicate and see, but if they feel general, then there is no need to continue to waste time.
So Wang Lei sent an invitation to Bai Li to meet, and at the same time put forward an outrageous and reasonable request to Bai Li, that is, the two needed AA system to meet and eat this time.
In Wang Lei's eyes, the AA system does not mean stinginess, but a performance of equality and respect, so that no matter whether he and Bai Li can have a future, there will not be too much burden to get along.
After Bai Li heard what Wang Lei said about the AA system, she did not raise any questions, and Wang Lei felt that this was Bai Li's acquiescence to her proposal.
So after agreeing with Bai Li on the place and time to meet, Wang Lei inexplicably had some expectations for this "offline" meeting.
Is it really the scourge of AA?
On the day of the "offline" meeting, Wang Lei came to the agreed place early to wait for Bai Li, but to Wang Lei's surprise, Bai Li also brought his girlfriend this time.
At first, Wang Lei felt that Bai Li did not say in advance that he would bring his girlfriend with him, which was disrespectful to him, but after thinking about it, Wang Lei felt that it might be a good thing for Bai Li to be cautious in a girl's family.
When he will pay for the meal, he and Bai Li AA system, that Bai Li's girlfriend and he do not know him, he can also share the food cost for Bai Li.
The three came to the restaurant, and after giving in to each other, Wang Lei finally ordered, and after the dishes were ordered, Bai Li took the initiative to chat with Wang Lei.
In fact, the content of Bai Li's chat all revolves around Wang Lei's salary income, whether there is a house and a car, whether there are other siblings in the family, and how much bride price will be given to the woman if she gets married in the future.
Perhaps this is the adult view of love, both sober and realistic. Although Wang Lei was a little uncomfortable with Bai Li's such a straightforward question, he was not disgusted, and calmly said that his current career is on the rise.
The income is okay, the house is the down payment paid by the parents, but the monthly payment needs to be repaid by themselves, as for the bride price, as for the bride price, as for ordinary families, it will not be said that the woman is particularly bride price, after all, the day is to be spent by both husband and wife.
After saying all this, Wang Lei could clearly feel Bai Li's disappointment, and the deafening silence at this time made this meal tasteless.
Wang Lei understood that this was Bai Li's first date with herself, and it would also be the last date, and she couldn't help but sigh in her heart that online dating was false, and face-to-face blind dates were terrifying in reality, and she estimated that she would disappoint her parents again.
After eating, Wang Lei didn't ask anything more, so he called the waiter and said to pay the bill, and the waiter came to Wang Lei with the bill and said:
Sir, you spend a total of 205 yuan, how do you pay? Wang Lei looked at Bai Li and said: A total of 205 yuan, let's AA, you can pay the whole 100, and I will pay the rest.
Bai Li glanced up at Wang Lei and said, "I'll go to the bathroom first." After that, he and his girlfriend got up and walked to the bathroom. But this time it was half an hour, and Wang Lei waited left and right and did not see Bai Li's figure.
Thought that something happened to Bai Li, so he immediately called Bai Li, but Bai Li hung up the phone directly, and when he called again, he had already prompted that the other party was not in the service area, Wang Lei sent a message instead, but the chat window displayed: The other party has blocked you.
"Persistence" that makes people laugh and cry
At this time, the waiter holding the bill looked confused, thinking what is the situation? Could it be that they want to eat overlord meals?
And Wang Lei's heart is also extremely broken at the moment, feeling that Bai Li's escape for 100 yuan is simply a character problem, looking at the resentful Wang Lei waiter whispered a reminder: Mr. A total of 205 yuan, how do you want to pay?
Wang Lei said indignantly: I am not familiar with her, today is the first time to meet, before the meal said that I want AA, now I can pay my 105 yuan, but the remaining 100 yuan you yourself find her to ask for it, she is evading the order You can call the police.
And Wang Lei's movement on this side soon attracted the owner of the restaurant, and the waiter whispered to the boss about the general situation, thinking that the boss should be able to solve the matter.
But the boss opened a hotel for the first time in these years to encounter this kind of thing, the boss can only confirm with Wang Lei repeatedly, but Wang Lei insists on paying only 105 yuan, and the rest let the boss go to Bai Li to ask for it.
In desperation, the restaurant owner could only call the police, and the police of the police station who received the report rushed to the restaurant, and after learning the beginning and end of the matter, the police of the police station persuaded Wang Lei to pay the meal money first, and then take the bill to Bai Li to ask for the expenses that need to be shared equally.
But no matter how well the police at the police station persuaded him, Wang Lei insisted on paying according to the AA system, and the restaurant owner looked at such a stubborn Wang Lei and was helpless, so he spoke:
You can pay 102.5 according to your AA system, and you don't have to pay 105, lest you feel that you can't sleep at night.
The owner's slightly mocking tone did not make Wang Lei feel that there was anything wrong, he took out his mobile phone to scan the code and paid 102.5 yuan, and strode out of the restaurant with his head held high.
The police at the police station and the restaurant owner shook their heads when they looked at Wang Lei's departing back, and the restaurant owner jokingly said to the waiter next to him: Do you say that this kind of person can still find a partner in the future? You can't learn from him.
And the royal father and the queen mother were still at home waiting for their son to bring good news back, when Wang Lei told his parents what happened in the restaurant, the royal father and the queen mother felt as if there was a basin of cold water poured from head to toe, the royal father was so angry that he turned around and left, and the queen mother sighed:
Originally it was a blind date, it was normal for you to invite a girl to a meal, and besides, it was 200 yuan, and it was not 2000, why should you be so careful?
But Wang Lei did not agree with his mother's statement: I said before eating that I wanted the AA system, and she agreed if she did not object, but she escaped when she paid the bill, which proved that she had a problem with her character, isn't this a scammer who cheats everywhere in the name of blind dates?
The queen mother looked at her son, who had a strong speech, and could only shake her head helplessly and turn away. The incident was later videotaped by other diners who were eating at the restaurant that day and posted online.
As soon as the video came out, it triggered heated discussions among netizens, some netizens thought that Wang Lei was too critical, and it was natural for men to invite women to dinner, why should they be careful:
Some netizens think that Wang Lei did the right thing, if the girl is not willing to AA, she can decisively refuse when Wang Lei proposes it, this kind of escaping because of 100 yuan should not be done by an adult.
In fact, as more and more people grow older, they find that their circle of life is getting smaller and smaller, and their friends are getting fewer and fewer, and it seems that it has become a luxury for friends to sit together, drink and chat and imagine the future.
Falling in love, getting married, and having children that seemed natural to my parents' generation became extremely difficult. Online dating or blind dates, in fact, is a way to meet new friends.
The relationship between people should be based on respect, trust as the basis, and the same three views as the standard.
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