Summer vacation is coming to an end, dads and mothers, the mythical beast is about to return to the cage, are you happy?
However, parents should not be too happy too early, because after the start of school, there will be a large wave of children "difficult to receive", there will be a variety of headaches for parents, such as: unwilling to write homework, in a daze in class, not focused, unable to get up in the morning and so on.
For this reason, many parents will take the "preventive vaccination" in advance before their children start school, but what is the effect?
Positive parents may say: you can't play after school starts, you have to study hard.
Negative parents may say: You are about to go to jail, and you are going to suffer again!
The former is useless, and the latter makes children hate the start of school, hate school, and hate learning.
Of course, you can't do nothing. Because the freedom has been wandering for so long, suddenly changing the environment, it is difficult for the child to adapt after all.
Before the start of school, take the children to do 5 "full of rituals" together, and the new semester will be full of blood
Psychologist Pavlov believes that suggestion is the simplest and most typical conditioned reflex of human beings.
Because in terms of psychological mechanism, this is a hypothesis affirmed by subjective will, and since its existence has been subjectively affirmed, psychology will also tend to this content.
Therefore, if you want your child to love learning, not be afraid of starting school, and be full of blood and resurrection after school, and devote themselves to learning as soon as possible, then parents can take their children to do 5 "full of ritual" things before school starts to let their children complete this psychological mechanism.
First Thing: Celebrate the Kids "Upgrade"
A friend has two children, one is about to enter the first year of junior high school and the other is about to enter the fourth grade. In order to celebrate the "upgrade" of the two children, the friend and the couple took the children out for dinner a few days ago.
Although every child is about to start school, it is "upgraded", but if parents will be such a common thing, but also use a sense of ritual to "beautify", then the child's feelings are different, he will feel: I have grown up again! I need to work harder than last semester!
Children without a sense of ritual will have no psychological presuppositions in the face of the new semester, and relatively speaking, they will behave more negatively after the start of school.
The sense of ritual can make our lives full of wonderful, more expectations, and make the mood more pleasant!
Parents give their children a sense of ritual, which can be a simple meal at home, or preparing their favorite "school gifts" for children, a happy mood can not only keep children more stable, but also allow children to maintain a longer learning ability!
The second thing: replace the "new equipment" and pack the "old equipment"
The child is going to a higher grade, and the "equipment" should naturally be overhauled and overhauled, and some iterations should be carried out.
For example, if you write only half of a pencil, don't put it in the stationery box, quite old automatic pen, also the whole new, eraser also get a new one, these old ones, put them at home for use, take them to school, new semester, just start a new start!
In this way, it is not wasted, but also allows children to have new expectations for going to school to start a new semester.
And kindly remind that this preparation is handed over to the child himself, and the parents are responsible for "buying, buying, buying" for the child, or giving the child a certain amount of pocket money to let the child replace it by himself.
In this way, the child's sense of ritual will be more sufficient.
The third thing: "Leave the old and welcome the new" books
After the child goes to school, parents will find: there are too many books, they can't put them down, they really can't put them down!
Before the start of school, it must be a good time to reorganize the books and "leave the old and welcome the new".
Parents can take their children to sort out the books of the previous semester, put away the ones that do not need to be used, put them together temporarily, and then prepare the extracurricular reading materials, teaching aids, etc. that need to be used in the next semester, so that the children know how many tasks they have in the upcoming semester, and then they can plan.
The fourth thing: restore a "healthy routine" on campus
Because the routine of Easter eggs has always been very normal, rarely sleep in, and the three meals are relatively timed, so I really don't feel much about this piece of work and rest.
However, many parents around them began to worry: during the holidays, their children slept until 9 or 10 o'clock every morning.
It's better to worry now, it's better to do it now. Don't feel sorry for the child, feel that you have slept a few lazy nights, in fact, going to bed early and getting up early is really good for the child.
Parents may wish to start restoring their children's "healthy routine" on campus, going to bed early and getting up early, eating on time, taking lunch breaks at fixed points, and completing homework tasks carefully. After a few days of habituation like this, the child quickly adapts when school starts.
Parents should not feel that adapting early is the same as adapting again when school starts.
First, adapt in advance, after going to school, you can adapt to the school routine faster, and adequate sleep will also make children more focused and happy in learning;
Second, adapt in advance, you can take your time, parents do not have the sense of anxiety in their hearts that "the child is going to be late", so that the attitude will be much better, and the child is more acceptable.
The fifth thing: Customize your plan and goals for the new semester
This point is the most important, which can directly "pull" the child to the idea of learning.
At the end of a semester, at the beginning of a semester, children need to summarize the problems and advantages of the previous semester, understand what needs to be completed in the next semester, and then make plans and goals for the new semester for themselves.
For example, which extracurricular books to read;
For example, when to learn Olympiad;
For example, the deletion and addition of interest classes;
Another example is the goal of academic performance...
There are too many plans and goals for children to make.
With such a formula, not only can children study and work harder next semester, but also let children gradually learn to "plan".
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Parents, you must not underestimate these ritual-filled things, it seems that they can be done after the start of school, but these can make children face learning with a more positive and proactive attitude in the new semester, and the child's mentality will be better!