To be honest, I didn't finish reading, the first of the four famous books, every time I persuaded myself to sink my heart and read it, I began to persuade since I was in my teens, persuaded for more than twenty years, I still can't read it, there are too many poems and new words in it that I can't read, after reading that Qin Keqing died, there is no taste, as for the harvest that the book brings me, it's really not much, and the old men of the red school blindly study anything, Bai raised a group of cultural people, I feel that the dream of the Red Chamber is a tragedy, dare not hate or love the only way to live, a group of boys and girls are lonely and do not appreciate themselves, The only good thing is a good song, the prosperity is over, and the distortion is dispersed!
[1] How can a person float in the rivers and lakes without being knifed
Throughout the ages, any literary work, whether positive or negative, has alerted us and spurred us on to varying degrees. Let us benefit greatly from this.
As far as the book "Dream of Red Mansions" is concerned, I personally think that one of the biggest gains that "Dream of Red Mansions" gave me is that people can't help themselves in the rivers and lakes.
You see, what a good family, just copy it. It's a good big family, and it will be scattered. This is called the scourge of innocence. It can be imagined that under the thunderbolt of the clear sky, even ordinary people may be difficult to accept. What's more, a hereditary family that had been an official for three generations, especially the Qianlong Emperor's six southern tours, four of which had stayed in the Grand View Garden, and were treated by the Cao Mansion as well as food, clothing, housing and transportation. Even so, what can be done, a decree, the whole of the Cao Mansion immediately jumped chickens and dogs, people turned on their backs, only to end up under the nest.
It's terrible! Of course, we do not exclude the historical background and objective conditions of that time. However, the lesson of blood teaches us that where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. It can be seen from this that in this life, even if you bear a hundred thousand care, no one dares to guarantee you a smooth, a hundred smooth, a thousand smooth. That's why old people often say; There are unpredictable storms in the sky, and people have bad luck. Walk in the rivers and lakes, and be a man with your tail between your legs. In our current terms, it's to keep a low profile. Remember to plan ahead.
[2] The human feelings are cold and warm, and the world is cold
The disparity between the rich and the poor is an ancient and indisputable fact. There is no doubt that people's hearts are not ancient, no matter what generation or generation. In fact, the disparity between the rich and the poor, and the warmth and coldness of human feelings are themselves conjoined babies who are both opposing and unified. They are like twin brothers, dependent on each other and supporting each other. Survive each other.
I remember that Professor Li Xiulin, a professor at the Department of Philosophy of Chinese Minmin University, wrote in his book "Principles of Dialectical Materialism":
...... Contradictions, all the time, everywhere. There are contradictions from time to time, contradictions in everything, contradictions everywhere.
The gap between poverty and wealth, the dignity of status and power, and the disparity in status and honor often make us feel the distance between people. Hate the poor and love the rich, and take people by their appearance, it does not start today. This point is clearly written in the book "Dream of Red Mansions". It draws a dividing line for us with the word shame.
Whoever you are, you should stand in what position. When you put yourself in the right position, you can take on your corresponding responsibilities. The so-called seeing people and talking about people, hell talking about ghosts. In fact, the reason is very simple, don't dislike others. Don't compare yourself to others. Each of us has our own starting line and landing point. How can people be compared?
Natural selection, the fittest can survive. Let it be. Don't put yourself on the cusp of contradiction. The gun shoots the head bird, and Mu Xiu will destroy it in the forest wind. If one day you want to put yourself on the opposite side of the contradiction, and slowly, first weigh yourself a few pounds and taels, know yourself and know the other, self-knowledge can be self-evident, otherwise in the end it is you who suffers.
[3] Full of etiquette, righteousness, shame, yin and yang
No matter when, no matter what place or occasion, look at the big people who are carrying the spring breeze on their shoulders. They never forget to be different. Under the public, there is still grandstanding. The sauce is better than the fish. A mouth is etiquette and shame, and a stretch of hand is a moral article that spills overflowing. But when you turn off the lights, these people still do ugly things and do bad things. Outright scumbags. The best thing is to steal chickens and dogs. Men and women thieves and prostitutes do everything and do everything.
People who have seen "Dream of Red Mansions" may remember Jia Huan. Because he was jealous of Baoyu, he deliberately pushed down the candlestick, hoping to burn Baowang's eyes and hurry up. What a hatred you say.
He went around making a small report to Jia Zheng, saying that Jia Baoyu "fornicated his mother-in-law", and when he threw dice with Ying'er, he played tricks, bullied the weak, and bullied others. In short, it is useless to spoil the treasure jade. Mess.
However, once he was exposed to everyone's eyes, he immediately put on a respectful and sincere look of fear. Everywhere shows that he is decent and reliable, and the whole picture is a villain's face. Similar faces in the book "Dream of Red Mansions", although dare not say that they abound, but including Jia Rui, they taught you how to distinguish between despicable and vulgar. You can see how obscene these people are. What kind of "benevolence" do they show, what are their deeds, and which one can be called a model of propriety and integrity?
[4] The heart is higher than heaven and the destiny is thinner than paper
There is no doubt that people are seeking fame and profit in this life, and the so-called life in the world, of course, is rich and powerful. Therefore, if Jia Baoyu can marry the beautiful and delicious Xue Baochai, I dare not say that he will be rich from now on, but at least Xue Baochu's rich dowry can completely make him the icing on the cake for the rest of his life. A carefree life.
What is shocking is that we, the son of Jia, have a heart higher than the sky and a life thinner than paper. His old man still couldn't look at Xue Baochai. In his eyes, Xue Baochi opened his mouth to be Shitu Economy, and closed his mouth was to stand up and make a name, in addition to the rambling words that would rather be broken than destroyed, there was only an empty shell of hypocrisy, corruption, and sour smell that emanated from all over his body. Authentic snob. Alas, different ways do not conspire against each other. Or you take your sunshine road, and I'll cross my one-wood bridge.
In Jia Baoyu's inner world, he liked Lin Daiyu, who was a maid with a young lady's body. Drowning three thousand, I only took one scoop. Sister Lin is his dream lover, her arrogant thinking and character tightly grasp the string rhythm of the two like-minded themes, and her unforgettable words are the true portrayal of Bao Dai's heart. Therefore, Jia Gongzi put aside the "golden and jade good relationship" without regret, stood at the forefront of completely breaking with the worldly concept without hesitation, resolutely stepped into the love hall of "wood and stone marriage", and vowed to die with Sister Lin to carry out the music of the poor couple to the end.
The book "Dream of Red Mansions", it begins and ends with love. The book runs through the love from beginning to end. This love word is not only "love", nor is it just "human love", it says that the bitter, spicy, sour, salty taste of the world is exhausted, who can comment? It's not just a "love" word.
When the balance between secular ideas and disciple morality is broken, we see a tragedy unfolding again. We truly realized that any equality, struggle, and emancipation of the mind that are divorced from the real society, once it is outside the social system, will end in failure.
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