Control your temper and don't let love become a catastrophe. In the face of love, straight people show that they dare to love and hate, love a person willing to love until the sea is rotten, hate - the individual will also hate to the end, but why do people who are happy with each other finally work and separate? And people who once loved and hated each other and had a deep friendship forgot about each other? Everything has a cause, if you don't go too deep, how can the other party decide to leave? The deeper the affection, the more people tend to expose their truest side to each other, show all the advantages and disadvantages in front of their lovers, love each other in a stubborn and wrong way, hurt each other in a straightforward and passionate way, and blurt out some annoying words.
Sometimes, a desperate word is stronger than any blow, and the lover's heart is cold, and you cannot find the tenderness in you, so you have to leave with a broken heart. Sometimes lovers leave you for the same reason as they love you, love you because of your true nature, and leave you to hide from your true nature. Straightforward and frank may make people feel charismatic, but sometimes it can be transformed into a kind of willfulness.
People in love need tenderness and thoughtfulness, not verbal bickering, not endless concessions and patience. Don't say to the other person, "I'm this kind of straight temper, why bother with someone like me?" "Because, how deep love will not withstand the test of deep water, not paranoid, let their violent temper to hurt each other's feelings, no matter how beautiful love will evolve into a "catastrophe", no matter how much you do afterwards, you can not recover this relationship that cannot be abandoned.
Zhao Tianyu has been straight and temperamental since he was a child, but his appearance is sunny and handsome, and he is young and vigorous, obviously full of spirit, and quite pleasing to girls. Later, he met Cao Xue and fell in love with her at first sight, and the two quickly fell in love. Cao Xue is a delicate and gentle girl, with beautiful deer eyes and slender hands, looking well-behaved, petite and cute. Zhao Tianyu wanted to take good care of her, but he couldn't control his bad temper, and he always spoke so directly, and sometimes it was harsh, which made the sensitive Cao Xue very hurt.
Zhao Tianyu hates sweet talk and thinks that all rhetoric is a trick to coax girls, so he has never made a romantic confession to Cao Xue, but only said to her very sincerely: "I will make you happy".
Sometimes, two people will quarrel, there is no big contradiction between the two sides, it is all trivial things, but Zhao Tianyu speaks too directly, and always compares others with Cao Xue when fighting. Cao Xue felt very uncomfortable when she heard this, and couldn't help but salute back. The quarrel continued to escalate, and Zhao Tianyu's anger became more and more intense, his voice became higher and higher, and his appearance was very scary. Cao Xue took two steps back, as if she couldn't recognize the lover in front of her. Like a wounded little animal, she retreated to her house, then locked the door and lay on the bed crying with a headache. Zhao Tianyu kept smashing the door outside, and couldn't help but roar.
The two were in love for a year, the same scene was staged countless times, and finally Cao Xue decided to break up, she felt that since the two parties had incompatible personalities, there would be no results in the future, the long pain was not as good as the short pain, it was better to let each other go and no longer torture each other. The friend mercilessly pointed out, "You have such a good temper, the problem is definitely not yours." Zhao Tianyu is known for his hot temper, and his speech is neither light nor heavy, which girl can stand it? Zhao Tianyu refused to break up no matter what. He said: "It's better for us all to calm down first, and then think about how to run in later." "I didn't propose a breakup on impulse, I've been thinking about this for a long time, I hope you can find a boy who is more suitable for you, and I hope you can also bless me to find my next happiness."
Cao Xue said very resolutely: "Zhao Tianyu, I have already decided, let's break up." Zhao Tianyu saw Cao Xue's resolute tone, but still refused to give up. He still intends to make a last-ditch effort to save the relationship. I know that I have a bad temper and let you be wronged, my personality has always been so straightforward, my brain will not turn and speak badly, maybe it hurts you. Please give me another chance, I will change it later.
Cao Xue saw that his attitude was sincere, and she almost softened her heart, but thinking back to the various grievances she had suffered in the past year, she did not want to continue this painful relationship. So he still said in a calm tone: "I'm sorry, let's separate, it's good for each other." After that, he picked up his backpack and turned to leave.
Zhao Tianyu looked at the silhouette of his girlfriend's departure, and the sweet past scenes of the two were played back in his mind. He recalled her smile, recalled the harsh words he had said, and felt great regret. But it was too late, and he buried himself in the couch with a lot of thought. He found himself crying, and when he realized that no matter how many tears of remorse, he could not exchange for Cao Xue's change of heart, leaving more tears.
Love is always a matter of two people, if you only respect your own temperament and completely ignore the other person's feelings, always hurt your lover in the most direct way. Then this kind of love becomes a kind of sadomasochism, if it is true love, the other party will be happy because of the happiness of the other party, happy because of the happiness of the other party, and can empathize with the pain of the other party. If you can do this, how can you lose your temper with your former lover without scruples? It's not wrong to be straight, but if you can't hide your weaknesses, how can you reap a happy love if you can't control your behavior?
Everyone has longed for love for a long time, but who wants to join hands with someone who does not care about their inner feelings for a lifetime? So if you are a standard straight person, whether in a relationship or a marriage relationship, learn to control your words and actions to minimize the harm to the other person. Don't wait until you lose your loved one to start regretting it.