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There are many temptations in the entertainment industry, and it is difficult to have real feelings everywhere.
And even if the model couple who is envied by everyone has a difficult scripture at home, there will be a marriage crisis.
The well-known "Bai Zhantang" actor Sha Yi and the host of "Happy Story" Hu Ke, originally a pair of love and harmony, career and love double harvest of life winners, but also inevitable the curse of "marriage is the grave of love", from a model couple to a chicken feather, what has their marriage experienced?
From the beginning of a fairy tale to a chicken feather
Sha Yi and Hu Ke met while filming the TV series "Luding Ji", and then fell in love and got married. At that time, their wedding was simply a major event in the entertainment industry, and they envied others.
The two of them have become a model couple in the eyes of everyone, and the prince and princess will live a happy fairytale life.
However, after many years of ups and downs, there was news of a marriage crisis.
Sha Yi is unique in the entertainment industry, shining with the identity of a powerful actor and the image of a good husband and father.
Since entering the palace of marriage hand in hand with Hu Ke, twelve years of spring and autumn changes, he is extremely affectionate with Hu Ke in front of the camera, respects Hu Ke between words, and frankly says that Hu Ke is the eternal queen in his heart, and even if he goes to the toilet halfway, he will make way for Hu Ke.
It is rare to have a lover, and such a gentle and considerate husband image naturally won the public's praise. However, what everyone did not expect was that, like many peers, the so-called spoiled wife was just a disguise.
Hu Ke publicly revealed in a program that Sha Yi was a person with serious machismo tendencies.
He is always indifferent to housework, unwilling to get involved, and even thinks that these things have nothing to do with him, completely pushing the housework to his wife.
He even resisted his wife's continued work after marriage, believing that her wife should concentrate on taking care of the family. And their union is even more dramatic: Sha Yi once threatened to break up, forcing Hu Ke to embark on this marriage journey.
Hu can gain or lose from this marriage?
What did Hu get from marriage?
After experiencing this unbearable past, Sha Yi's image of his favorite wife has fallen apart. The original love stories that were held up on the clouds turned out to be just a deliberately created illusion, and behind the surface tenderness, there was inner hypocrisy and indifference.
Hu Ke cried in "Wife's Romantic Trip 4", "Actually, I really regret getting married".
Sha Yi on the side quickly explained that his wife was a little depressed and often cried to go back to her hometown. ”
A woman feels depressed in marriage and wants to go home, marriage does not bring her a warm harbor, her home is an eternal harbor, marriage instead strips her off.
Women are generally treated unfairly in marriage. Traditionally, men are seen as the head of the family, while women are seen as auxiliaries. This perception often leads men to occupy more power and resources in the family, while women are in a disadvantaged position.
Sha Yi is a well-known "Bai Zhantang", but when he first married Hu Ke, he had not yet become popular in the entertainment industry, and he lived in the home of Hu Ke's parents, but he did not have the slightest consciousness of eating soft rice, but became a "grandpa" and threw all the housework to Hu Ke.
Sha Yi's behavior may reflect the influence of this traditional concept, and Hu Ke is even willing to serve the "uncle" he invited.
For countless nights, Hu Ke also wondered, if he did not enter marriage, but put his energy into developing himself, would he also become popular?
After paying so much, if the husband is considerate, the feelings and smoothness will be settled, but how does Sha Yi treat Hu Ke?
He didn't even want to take out the trash, and asked in Venus, "Let your wife do everything alone, so what if your wife is sick?" ", bluntly say that it is not good to be sick for two days.
Imagine, if Sha Yi said such things when his parents were sick, he would have drowned in Spit Xingzi.
But with the fig leaf of marriage, he can openly drive his wife to be a "slave" to himself.
After recognizing all this, will Hu Ke suddenly wake up and start his life again?
Awakened?
What really made Hu Ke intolerable was Sha Yi's derailment.
She broke into Hunan TV and made a big fuss, and Sha Yi, who was weak-hearted, was afraid of causing bad effects, and promised to cut off contact with a third party.
Hu Ke was a housewife at the best age, she had no time of her own, no life of her own, no career of her own, and she was not even respected and loyal.
After she chose to come back again, the whole person's state and spirit have greatly improved.
Work did not make her work, but she was getting younger and younger.
In the TV series "Changfeng Du", Sha Yi and Hu Ke both participated in the starring, Sha Yi played the male protagonist's father Gu Langhua, and Hu Ke played the heroine's aunt Zhang Yueer.
In the play, Hu Ke's acting skills are superb and his state is excellent, and some netizens even jokingly said that "Hu may be Sha Yi's daughter".
Returning to her career gave her a second spring in her life.
epilogue
Although Sha Yi and Hu Ke are in modern society, the family relationship has failed to build a model of equality, which is also the deep root of Hu Ke's tragic fate.
In modern society, family relations are increasingly egalitarian. Hu Ke and Sha Yi should share family responsibilities and obligations. At the same time, they should also respect, care and care for each other. In this way, harmony, stability and happiness will be achieved.
And women should also remember not to be hot-headed and give up their careers and prospects for men or children. Really good men will bear with you and will not let themselves be sacrificed.
After Hu Ke's comeback, the relationship with Sha Yi gradually eased, and the two have two children, I wish them can get along better and better.
What role do you think women should play in marriage?
- Author: Kong Ji
- Editor: Gardenia