She is a Chinese female singer with multinational origins, and she has been full of yearning for Western culture and music since she was a child. She once desperately followed a black star to the United States for love, but suffered his cruel domestic violence and suffered great physical and mental damage. Today, she is 39 years old, but no one dares to marry her, so she can only live alone in Beijing.
Female singer Gao Xinxin and black star
Her name is Gao Xinxin and she was born in Harbin in February 1983. Her mother is Korean, and her father is of Russian and Arab ancestry. Studying music and dance since she was a child, she is very interested in Western records, books, and movies, and dreams of one day being able to settle and live in Western countries.
After graduating from university, she came to Beijing to work as a resident singer in a Western-style bar. On July 23, 2009, her fate changed. That night, a black man came to the bar, saw Gao Xinxin's performance on stage, and fell in love with her at first sight. He was American professional basketball player Ron Artest, later renamed Metta World Peace.
Artest was already an All-Star in the NBA at the time, playing with stars such as Kobe Bryant and Yao Ming. He took the initiative to find Gao Xinxin, praised her singing, and invited her to make a friend. Gao Xinxin agreed ecstatically, and the two soon became lovers. However, Gao Xinxin did not know at that time that Artest already had a wife and children, and his wife was hot-tempered and often clashed with him.
A month later, Artest was returning to the United States for work. Gao Xinxin resolutely decided to follow him to live in the United States, and gave up his job and friends in Beijing. Her family and friends discouraged her from doing so because of Artest's bad reputation, his violent tendencies, and the huge cultural differences and habits between them. But Gao Xinxin did not listen to the advice and insisted on being with Artest.
In early 2010, Artest took Gao Xinxin to the United States and divorced his original wife. Gao Xinxin moved into Artest's luxury apartment, found a local music company, and released several songs. Artest also often accompanies her to travel and shoot MVs. To outsiders, they are a happy couple.
However, this is only a superficial harmony, but there is a hidden crisis inside. The reason why Artest is so good to Gao Xinxin is firstly because of the freshness, secondly, because he likes her singing voice and sexy and beautiful appearance, and thirdly, because she obeys him and is extremely docile. Compared with his ex-wife's irritability, Gao Xinxin is simply well-behaved like a sheep. This also fueled Artest's arrogance and allowed him to unleash his nature.
Gao Xinxin was subjected to domestic violence
Artest has always been violent, breaking Jordan's ribs during the game, for which he was warned by professional league officials and condemned by fans, but he still went his own way. Back in early 2003, three violent incidents broke out of him. In January 2003, he got into a fight with the referee, and not long after, after losing a game, an angry Artest smashed a camera piece of a reporter on the field, which was worth $100,000. In February 2003, the NBA Union Dinner was attended by US President Bill Clinton. But at this meal, Artest got into an altercation with another player, Posey, and then got into a big fight.
Although many years have passed, Artest's violent tendencies have not completely changed, plus he is easily angry, and as soon as the novelty passes, he begins to pick up new thorns. In 2011, Artest changed his name to "Charity, World and Peace", taking his name from the English word of these three words, Chinese translated as "Ci Shiping". However, after changing his name, Artest encountered a major low point in his career. This is the 12th season in the NBA, and Artest is averaging only 7.7 points per game and shooting 39.4% from the field this season.
And Gao Xinxin, who obeyed him at home, became an excellent target for violence. At that time, Gao Xinxin was resting at home, Gao Xinxin was also a person who was not good at housework, and the two of them almost all relied on nanny to take care of their lives, but Artest was difficult to hire a nanny because he had a criminal record of assaulting a nanny. So their babysitters all came and didn't work long before they quickly slipped away, and then there was no nanny for a long time.
During this time, Artest will let Gaoxinxin take care of household affairs and take care of himself. Gao Xinxin is also a "glamorous" person, does not like to do these things, and at first will agree, but over time, she is also a little irritable and somewhat resistant to Artest's call. When she first talked to Artest, Artest was immediately set on fire.
He directly grabbed Gao Xinxin's hair, dragged her to the bedroom, and then beat her hard. Gao Xinxin cried out in horror, but Artest ignored her pleas for mercy and became more violent, until Gao Xinxin was beaten to the point of fissure.
Gao Xinxin endured countless injuries and humiliations, gradually lost himself, became silent and emaciated. Her fans and media also noticed her abnormality and began to question her feelings and life. Her career also suffered, with song sales declining, fewer invitations to perform, and a damaged reputation. She decided to flee. Gao left the United States and returned to China, looking for some comfort and support. But she found that Chinese society was not friendly to her. She was ridiculed and discriminated against, considered a woman greedy for money and fame, and accused of being an unfaithful and unfilial woman. She did not receive any sympathy and understanding, but was hurt and hit more.
She felt hopeless and lonely, feeling that she had no hope or future. She tried suicide but was unsuccessful. She also tried to revive her career, but had no chance. She can only make ends meet on some part-time work in a small apartment.
Today, she is 39 years old, but no one dares to marry her. She has no love, no family, no friends. She has only herself, a woman forgotten by the world.
This is the tragic story of a Chinese female singer who fell in love with a foreign black man, was later subjected to domestic violence, and now no one dares to marry at the age of 39. Although the story is fictional, it reflects some real social problems. How should we look at these issues? How can we help these victims? How can we prevent these tragedies? These are questions that deserve our thought and action.