The article comes from life, told in the first person, simpler and more direct!
After the birth of the child, the first thing my husband looked at was actually the child's legs, and then said coldly: When he is six or seven years old, I must take him to the hospital to see, you don't stop me, I just suffered a big loss on these two legs.
Although he and her husband have been married for a few years, but rarely pay attention to his legs, he told me why he never wears shorts, only loose slacks, because these two legs, not only affect his height, but also affect his walking, he actually walks slowly, because the knee valgus makes it difficult for him to walk, so he can only slow down as much as possible.
My husband also told me that this is a genetic knee valgus, his grandfather, his father have it, but it has become more obvious to himself, and he is very worried about affecting our children, after all, he is also a boy.
In fact, the first time my husband went to our house, my mother found that my husband's legs were wrong, and I said with a big grin: It's okay, and I'm not lame or crutch, you're suspicious!
My mother had nothing to say by what I said, but my husband's words made my heart cold, and the joy of giving birth to a child disappeared, and it was more anxiety after giving birth. What if it really inherited from his father and needed surgery, how much the child would suffer, I didn't dare to think about it.
I even think that my husband was cheating on the marriage in the first place, why not make it clear to me, if it really affects the children, I will really regret it for the rest of my life.
So in the process of the child's growth, we have been paying attention to the child's height, as well as the curvature of the thigh, fortunately, the child's height has always been middle and upper, unlike when my husband was a child, he has not grown tall, and his legs do not feel particularly curved.
When the child was six years old, my husband began to talk about taking the child to see the legs, but we did three chapters of the covenant, no injections, no medicine, no surgery, if there was really a problem, we didn't care, didn't want the child to suffer.
We went to the provincial hospital first, and they told us to go to a special pediatric hospital, but they couldn't see it.
We feel a little uncomfortable in our hearts, how can we not see it, is there really a problem.
My husband saw my anxiety, he told me that we are not in a hurry, look slowly, go to more cities, find more hospitals to ask, and finally determine the plan, let me not be anxious.
A week later, we went to the children's hospital again, when we went, we actually wanted to know which doctor was good to see the orthopedic department, what number should we hang, but I didn't expect the nurse at the guidance desk to directly say to us: the orthopedic number does not need to be booked in advance, it can be seen on the same day, and we can still hang it now.
After going to the window, fill in the basic information and the staff said: You are so lucky, the last expert number was grabbed for you.
When we waited for the doctor at the door of the consultation room, we found that there were more than a dozen specialists in the pediatric orthopedic department, and most of them looked at hereditary orthopedic diseases.
At that time, we planned to go to the hospital, and my in-laws felt that we were making a fuss, and when we really went to see it, we found that this seemed to have become a common disease in the hospital, and there were many similar to our children, and a very small number of children were children with broken bones.
We waited for two hours, the hospital number called us, we heard the trumpet, pulled the child to wait at the door of the clinic, did not expect the child to turn white, I asked him what was wrong, he actually came to say: Mom, I am afraid of injections.
My child and I promised that we would not take injections or medicines, otherwise we would not see it. After entering the consultation room, the doctor asked the child very kindly what was wrong, and I directly said that I felt that the child's legs were not straight and there was a problem.
The doctor rolled up the child's pants, brought the legs together, and said directly: Go back, the legs are fine, there is no problem.
My husband couldn't believe it, and asked the doctor again to confirm: Is it really okay? I myself am hereditary, and I feel that it is not convenient to walk now.
The doctor said: I said no problem, no problem, no need to come to the hospital again.
On the way back, my husband was still not at ease, saying that the child was too young to see, and he would wait until he was seven years old to see it again.
I said I'll give you a simple analogy, you buy two saplings, straight and a little curved, the straight one will only get straighter, but the curved one you have to tie it with something to straighten.
So if there is no problem with the sapling itself, then there will be no problem with bending, you still don't think so much, I won't bring the child again, there is a doctor's words, my hanging heart, really let go, for more than four years, I no longer worry about the child's legs all the time, tonight I can sleep peacefully.
My husband stopped talking when I said this, and later said: "Listen to you this time."
Therefore, for the matter of heredity, we still have to maintain a normal heart, and more importantly, meet a good doctor, let the child not be sinned, we do not spend money in vain!