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Human nature, sometimes is to bully the soft and afraid of the hard, the weaker you are, the more people bully you, but you are strong, others dare not bully you.
Writer Yu Hua said that when we treat the world fiercely, the world suddenly becomes gentle.
In life, we must know how to protect ourselves, strengthen ourselves, do not be overly kind, do not be too honest, be measured, have a bottom line, do not let others consume you at will, and do not always be bullied by others.
Ma Youtie in "Hidden in the Dust" is too kind to be bullied by others.
His brother bullied him, did not pay him wages, and treated him as free labor.
The rich man bullied him and asked him to donate blood for free, and he pumped more and more at a time, without taking into account his physical condition at all.
The villagers bullied him, kidnapped him with morality, and wanted to embarrass himself.
All the bullying that others do to you is actually because you are too kind.
Human nature is like this, the more you are afraid of things and people, the less others take you seriously. Only by learning to fight back can we get rid of the situation of being bullied.
People live, be a strong person, tolerant and tolerant.
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Human nature is that when you have money, others look up at you, and when you have no money, others look down on you.
There is a very realistic saying that the poor are not asked in the busy city, and the rich have distant relatives deep in the mountains.
When you are rich and powerful, others will give you face, will be very polite to you, and are willing to cooperate with you, because you have value to use.
When you have no money and are down, others think that you are worthless, naturally they will not be close to you, and even afraid that you will come to them to borrow money, so when they hear that you are coming, they pretend not to be at home and do not wait to see you.
So, it's easy to put the icing on the cake and hard to deliver. This is the reality of human nature.
In the face of money and profit, human nature is really vulnerable. When there is no money, I see the reality clearly and the true face of the people around me.
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Human nature, that's it.
You give your heart to some people, but they take it for granted and don't know how to be grateful, but if you are not strong, they think you are a bully, so they are more aggressive towards you.
Some people will only remember your bad, never remember your good, no matter how good you have been, they will not remember, but if you do it wrong once, they will be worried about you and can't get by with you.
In this way, our goodness, our goodness, is to be given to the right people.
In the face of people who do not know how to be grateful, we do not have to approach, and in the face of people who do not value you, we do not have to please.
Life is short, leaving your own good to truly worthy people is the best life.
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There is a saying: "There are two things in the world that cannot be seen directly, one is the sun and the other is the human heart." ”
In human nature, some people hate the poor and love the rich, some people are cruel, some people are honest and kind, some people are compassionate, some people do not understand gratitude, and some people harm countless people.
We live, don't wronged ourselves, don't embarrass others, do what we should do, learn to keep an eye on ourselves, protect ourselves, choose good friends, and don't be easily used by others.
Don't test human nature, human nature can't withstand connivance, when your efforts don't get a response from others, we have to learn to stop losses in time.
People are sinister and the world is cold, but don't let yourself always be a rotten good person, not everyone deserves your help.
There is a saying that if you are too kind, you will be deceived; If you are too good to people, you will become a matter of course; Too humble, will be treated as a fool; Too righteous, will be taken advantage of.
Life is short, don't hurt yourself for unworthy people, don't waste time for unworthy things, learn to be kind to yourself, live your life well, live for yourself, don't settle, don't be aggrieved, and live happily.
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