"White moonlight" outdated? What is popular now is the love of strong alliances

Recently watched a drama "An Le", first of all, I was attracted by the lineup, Di Li Gerba and Gong Jun played the male and female protagonists respectively, this combination is quite innovative.

From the temperament point of view, Di Li Gerba is bright and bright, while Gong Jun is cold, like the collision of ice and fire, which makes people very curious about what kind of love feelings the two want to perform.

After watching a few episodes, I found that this drama is really not limited to engaging in small love, and does not put too much ink on the warming and development of the relationship between men and women, but case after case, and the male and female protagonists found that they have long been deeply rooted in love with each other in the process of "joining hands to engage in careers".

To say that this drama has some "anti-routine" plots, then the prince played by Gong Jun has a "first love girlfriend" in his heart, which is what we often call "white moonlight", this "white moonlight" is always between the male and female protagonists, which is also a strong emotional barrier.

The prince liked her when she was very young, and was deeply fascinated by her talent, character, and of course, appearance.

Later, "White Moonlight" suffered a drastic change in the family lineage, and the two not only had a huge difference in identity, but also separated by thousands of miles, and could not see each other for more than ten years, but the prince still had a deep affection for "her in memory".

That is to say, from ancient times to the present, "white moonlight" is really the first love complex that many men can't give up!

The prince is affectionate, and he has never forgotten his first love girlfriend in his heart, and he wants to leave the position of the crown princess to her, he has made up his mind, and this matter is known all over the city. However, Ren Anle, played by Di Li Gerba, abruptly replaced "White Moonlight".

Ren Anle is actually Bai Yueguang herself, but as mentioned earlier, she suffered a family disaster when she was a child, and since then she has been invisible, and when she becomes an adult, she bears the family feud and has the determination to take revenge, so she can only show people with another face and pretend to be close to the prince. And after more than ten years of parting, coupled with her "great change in temperament", the prince could not recognize her.

Therefore, Di Li Gerba wants to perform two different personalities, in front of people, she is a brutal "straw bale water bandit", her style is hot and strong, people only know that she covets the beauty of the prince and wants to be the crown princess;

Later, she returned to the daughter of a famous family who had a deep hatred of her home and country in her heart.

This is also the highlight of the plot in the early stage, Ren Anle and the prince, both of them are acting in masquerade plays, and they are all comparable masquerade plays.

Although Ren Anle always and everywhere shows that she likes the prince, it is pretending that her real purpose is to get close to the core of power, realize her revenge plan, take down the traitor, and find the cause of the family tragedy.

Therefore, in the early stage, she was very active, deliberately creating encounters, and constantly using enthusiastic offensives to "attack" the prince, her behavior was quite "shocking", after all, she wanted to gain the prince's trust within the planned time and win the prince's power.

It's just that this situation scares our cold prince into something, and every time he faces Ren Anle's enthusiastic actions, the prince can only leave the word "absurd" and flee in a hurry, in addition to pupil earthquakes and tactical reclusion.

As for the prince, although he acted quite helplessly, he was also a smart person, knowing that she was pretending, and was more willing to cooperate with her pretend.

Because he is the prince of "invincible cold in high places", he also has a grand sense of home and country, trying to realize the Qingzheng of Haiyan River and the people. He knew that there were many dark forces in the imperial court, and he could not reverse the situation by himself, and only by joining forces with Ren Anle could he help him achieve his ideals, so he willingly accompanied her to dance one "pas de deux" after another.

Just, "I know you're pretending" "I know you're pretending", haha, really Dajing movie queen.

Therefore, in such a process of "false when true is false", two people with strong hearts each "strong union" for the sake of their hearts' grand wishes. When things are done one by one, the two people also become the most tacit couple, and the relationship gradually becomes deep.

The plot of this drama is mainly based on handling cases, in the early stage, there were cases of fraud in the imperial examination, and the corruption case of disaster relief grain in Jiangnan, and in the later stage, Ren Anle had to follow the prince to fight the border. In this process, the traitor Yuchen was eradicated, and the family grievances that Ren Anle had been carrying were also cleared, and the whole plot looked like a monster escalating.

But outside of the plot of "engaging in career", I still can't help but wonder, how did the love between the prince and Ren Anle happen?

For a long time, men and women have a "white moonlight" complex in their hearts, which represents the first love, represents the ignorance and throbbing of youth, and has a bit of "the first time in life".

The person who breaks into the heart for the first time will carry the memory of youth and stay in the heart for a long time, that person, not only a love, but also reflects the young self, so it is unforgettable and profound, which is also the common feeling of people.

The reason why the prince likes "White Moonlight" so much in the play is because they accompanied each other when they were very young.

She came from a famous family, with noble colors on her body, and a big heart, and often said words that impressed the little prince; Her chess skills, proudness and holiness made the young prince feel the taste of his heart shake for the first time, and he has been thinking about it ever since.

However, people will only find that truly good love is not a flashy memory filter, but an energy mutual help that can really make each other a better person.

What makes good love?

First of all, it will make people stronger, more efficient and actionable, that is, there is an effect of one plus one is greater than two, which can absorb the courage and ability to face the great waves of life in love.

In the play, Ren Anle and the prince are a complementary couple in terms of personality.

Ren Anle is stubborn by nature, and he is a "water bandit", often does not play cards according to the routine, and although he takes risks, he can always have unexpected gains. In the face of hard bones, she dares to come forward, and in the face of the sinister tricks of the rivers and lakes, she can also return them with the way of the rivers and lakes;

And the prince is rational, calm, full of poetry, and has great aspirations, which often plays a decisive role. In the early days, he was a little disdainful of Ren Anle's "reckless behavior", but he needed someone to charge ahead, and also mention her from time to time to help her.

They both looked at each other a little at first, but they quickly got along well, because they both knew that each gave each other more strength.

Without the Crown Prince, Anle would lose the support of important political forces, and the Prince gave her not only firm support, but also mental and ideological enlightenment;

And without happiness, the prince did not have the courage to tear through the tangled shadows of the imperial court, he needed a sharp sword, a person who dared to stir up the situation.

Therefore, the running-in period of two people is also the process of "strategic cooperation intention to achieve", this process is going smoothly, and the two people hardly need too much communication to understand that each other's goals are the same, and what should be done next.

Although it looks like a war of words, the tacit understanding between "comrades-in-arms" is established step by step.

Second, it must have enough tacit understanding, and the "couple + confidant" model is the most sustainable in intimate relationships. The passion of love is easy to dissipate, but a confidant-style "understand you" is not easy to fade.

Although Ren Anle and the prince had their own hidden thoughts at the beginning, there was no doubt that they cooperated tacitly and understood each other. This makes them even if they have a lot of emotional confusion and entanglement, but when faced with major events, they can quickly twist into a rope and become "grasshoppers on a rope".

In the process of handling cases, they often have a sense of rhythm of "silent is better than sound", and needless to say, one look can know how the other party is.

For example, in the Jiangnan disaster relief grain embezzlement case, the two had the feeling of "condor heroes". Faced with the common people rioting due to famine, the two quickly found a way to deal with it, and there was not much discussion, one was responsible for pacifying the troublemakers in the front, and the other went to the rear to find food non-stop.

The two people finally "met the division victoriously", and there were no other words, a sentence of "you worked hard", expressing the feeling of unity and cooperation to win the battle.

The people remembered the good deeds of the two, and the eyes of the two people were full of excitement to share the glory together.

When discussing the facts of the case, questions and answers flowed, and the mystery of the case slowly became clear with deduction.

Even dealing with the Assassins together began to have a sense of rhythm.

Such an extraordinary tacit understanding allowed them to test each other from the beginning, and gradually became mutual trusted comrades and confidants.

In this process, love has actually quietly sprouted, but neither of them knows it, or rather, they are unwilling to admit it.

Third, love is not just a small private affair between a man and a woman, if two people are moving forward with a heart of fraternity, ideals and beliefs, then love and ideals will also become mutually nourishing energy.

There is no love better than two people running together to the common ideal in their hearts.

Like the prince, Ren Anle's ultimate goal is not to fall in love, but to realize the ambition in their hearts. Coincidentally, their ideals are the same.

The prince said, May the creatures of the world no longer be charcoaled, and the world will be clear for a long time; And Ren Anle is also a "person who sweeps away turbidity" and "has the aspiration to serve the country". Although they have different destinies and different backgrounds, they are fortunate to have the same ideals.

If placed in today's context, it means that two people have "the same three views" and have a common life goal to strive for.

Therefore, on this arduous road of life, how fortunate it is to have a "comrade-in-arms" next to him who continues to encourage and accompany him, and to fight for that noble goal at all costs, such "great love" adds a stronger cohesion to the love of men and women.

Yes, the battle of two people is always more exciting than the solitude of one person.

Not only TV series, if there is such a love in real life, always transform the energy of love into the energy of progress, whether it is studying together, taking exams together, or deciding to stay in a certain city together, buying a house together, and solving all kinds of problems in life together... Well, this must be the luckiest couple.

Although watching the drama is easy and interesting, the people in the play are also very similar to the sentient beings in our ordinary world.

Yes, although the white moonlight is beautiful enough, she is so divine, so noble, so beautiful, but it is really not practical enough.

In real life, passion is easy to die, first love is fragile, and if you want to maintain a long-term intimacy with energy and nourishing effect on each other, you still rely on the mutual matching of mind and ability. This will cause two people to have a deep emotional need to rely on each other and trust each other in addition to passion.

The prince said that on the way to complete the plan, "it's not me, it's us", which is not only a career invitation and commitment, but also an emotional integration, because they know each other that only such a "strong combination" can make the love and life of two people move towards a better future.

Helpos says that if two like-minded minds collide, both sides can benefit immensely from that collision.

May we all have such "practical and powerful" love!

Author: Izu Mo

Editor-in-charge: Miss H

Produced by: Miss Lan and Miss Huang

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