Wen 丨 Xiaoming is a little Nan
Editor丨Xiaoming is a little Nan
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preface
One day in April 2023, when He Shucheng was bringing goods in the live broadcast room, the number of people watching was low, and in order to drive popularity, he directly burst out a shocking melon, claiming that his father was no longer good and could not be a prostitute, and it was enough to give him 10,000 flowers for this month.
In an instant, the live broadcast room was brushed, the number of people rose in a straight line, and netizens left messages one after another.
Some people questioned whether the 75-year-old He Qingkui could still be a prostitute, lamenting that people could not play when they were old, thinking that this is what rich people look like. Some people are curious about how much it costs to spend 10,000 yuan a month if they don't prostitute.
At the same time, some people feel that He Shucheng's public discussion of his father's private affairs is too much.
He Shucheng noticed the strange reaction in the comment area, and quickly changed the topic: "Don't pay too much attention to this, the goods in my live broadcast room are very good, you can go and take a look!" ”
However, after such words, the number of viewers in the live broadcast room quickly declined, causing a wave of dissatisfaction, and netizens who had just been keen to eat melons left one after another.
It can be seen that He Shucheng just wants to use his father's fame to increase the number of people in some live broadcast rooms. These words can only be regarded as some unconfirmed rumors.
It is worth noting that in the video broadcast live at home by He Shucheng, there is a photo of Gao Xiumin, the titular wife, on the wall.
We don't know if Ho Qingkui really prostituted, but there is evidence that he ever cheated on him.
A twist of fate
In 1989, Gao Xiumin had become a successful sketch actor, and also served as the deputy director of a troupe, which was widely recognized by the outside world as a strong woman. At that time, He Qingkui was still submitting articles, and Gao Xiumin's troupe was one of the places where he submitted.
He submitted his script to the then head of the regiment, but the head was only perfunctory and did not really pay attention to the script. Fortunately, Gao Xiumin saw He Qingkui's talent, carefully read his script, and hoped that the troupe would give He Qingkui a chance.
He Qingkui did not live up to Gao Xiumin's expectations, and the script won the first prize of the provincial cultural performance that year. This gave He Qingkui some fame and laid the foundation for Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui's future cooperation.
In the same year, Gao Xiumin was also invited by Jilin TV to participate in the recording of the Spring Festival program, but the script at that time did not meet her requirements. Due to his previous cooperation experience, Gao Xiumin was deeply impressed by He Qingkui.
On the recommendation of Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui created "Double Gift" for the TV station. This drama made the relationship between the two closer, and He Qingkui attached great importance to this drama, rehearsing it day and night with the actors. At the same time, Gao Xiumin also participated in this drama, because the two had already cooperated before, and their relationship was closer.
However, this intimacy gradually transcends the partnership relationship and develops in the direction of deviating from morality. After a long time together, the two found that they fit each other very well, and they could understand each other both in thought and work. Although both are aware of each other's feelings for each other, they both have their own families and therefore still have concerns.
However, in 1992, the relationship between the two changed completely. That year, the Spring Festival Gala sketch "Baggage" was a great success, the screenwriter was He Qingkui, and Gao Xiumin was the editor-in-chief, and the two became famous together and became household stars.
Gao Xiumin, who was married at that time, had always been dissatisfied with her husband's bad habits, and at this time with He Qingkui by her side, she resolutely decided to divorce her husband Li Yunqi. Subsequently, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui began to live together and lived a two-person world, like a real couple, but they also understood that this was illegal.
In the eyes of the audience, they are like a match made in heaven, and the tacit understanding is incomparable. However, the reality is that their common-law relationship is not legal. Although Gao Xiumin is single and He Qingkui has left his wife Zhang Yanru, they are not officially divorced, so they cannot legally marry. However, the two lived together like this for more than ten years.
Why did the two make such an unethical choice? It all starts at the beginning.
An unfortunate beginning
He Qingkui was born into a poor rural family. Despite being favored by his father, he was thin and short in stature and unable to earn a living from farm work. In order to ensure that his son would not starve to death, his father sent him to the village theater troupe, which may have become the starting point of his playwriting career.
As an adult, He Qingkui made a living by fishing and writing letters, living the life of an ordinary farmer. However, for many years, his manuscripts were never appreciated by others, and he had to accumulate dust at home.
Zhang Yanru is a rural knowledgeable youth, but she likes and appreciates He Qingkui's honesty and enthusiasm for writing. She couldn't suppress her love for He Qingkui and married him wholeheartedly.
However, many people think that He Qingkui is not worthy of Zhang Yanru, after all, the identities of the two are very different, and Zhang Yanru should enter the city in the future. For these discussions, Zhang Yanru did not care, because she believed that He Qingkui would make a difference one day, so no matter what He Qingkui did, she would support it.
In 1986, Zhang Yanru returned to the county as a young scholar and brought her family to live together.
At this time, He Qingkui could only make money by writing. Although he wrote many plays and voted for many troupes, he received no response. However, there are still three children at home who are waiting to be fed, and life cannot be changed without money. He Qingkui, who has no other source of income, can only rely on Zhang Yanru's support.
Every day, Zhang Yanru sells vegetables on a bicycle alone and lives a hard life, but she still supports He Qingkui to write at home without complaint. Zhang Yanru's unconditional support allowed He Qingkui to concentrate on writing and eventually got the opportunity.
Originally thought that making He Qingkui famous in one fell swoop "Baggage" could usher in earth-shaking changes in the family's life. However, things backfired, at this time, He Qingkui only wanted to divorce, and never thought of coming back to live a good life with her.
What she didn't expect was that He Qingkui actually expressed his love for her to Gao Xiumin. This fact shocked and pained Zhang Yanru, and she could not accept such a betrayal.
After returning home, He Qingkui just dropped the sentence "let's divorce" and turned away, without thinking about the family at all.
At this time, Zhang Yanru began to doubt whether her persistence and dedication were meaningful. She once gave up a lot for He Qingkui, including her own dreams and pursuits. And now, she was ruthlessly abandoned by him.
Zhang Yanru felt like a knife in her heart, her love for He Qingkui had reached the point where she could not give up, but she also understood that this love had become meaningless.
In the end, Zhang Yanru did not agree to the divorce and expressed her determination to He Qingkui: "If you want to leave, leave, I will not stop you, but no matter what happens, this family will always be here, and I will always wait." If one day you regret it, it's okay to come back. These words made He Qingkui understand his guilt for his family more in his heart, but he still left the family coldly and started a new life with Gao Xiumin.
Their subsequent collaborative works became better and better, and He Qingkui's career also flourished. However, the relationship between the two families fell into chaos and lasted for more than a decade.
However, in 2005 there were a series of changes. He Qingkui returned to Zhang Yanru's side because of the success of their previous TV series "Shengshui Lakeside" and the opportunity to shoot a sequel. However, just as they were happily shooting, the news came that their eldest son had died in a car accident.
He Qingkui could only put down his work and go back to deal with his son's funeral arrangements. This kind of white-haired person sending black-haired person made him very painful and unacceptable. He Qingkui, who was already overly grief-stricken, had not yet recovered from this trauma and unexpectedly learned the news of Gao Xiumin's sudden death. Gao Xiumin died of a heart attack at home at the age of 46.
He Qingkui was hit hard, and he lost two important people in a row. Due to Gao Xiumin's death, his creation had to stop. Without Gao Xiumin's presence, he became depressed, his newly created works became no longer popular, and his career began to decline.
The soulless He Qingkui chose to return to Zhang Yanru's side, and Zhang Yanru accepted him tolerantly. The two have lived together for more than a decade.
However, Zhang Yanru later died of illness, leaving only her son and He Qingkui.
Zhang Yanru's strength and tolerance are admirable. Instead of complaining about her fate, she chose to accept and tolerate. She proved her dedication and love for her family with her actions.
When He Qingkui was still unknown, she put down her face, served food in the suburbs, and then rode home on a bicycle to support her family.
She silently supports He Qingkui's cause, and even their affection and love on the stage, and she never complains or expresses dissatisfaction in front of the public. Even when Gao Xiumin died, she remained strong in taking responsibility for related matters.
However, after He Qingkui left, Zhang Yanru could not accept this fact. She decided to talk to Gao Xiumin once, hoping to save their marriage. Although she is a victim, she is willing to put aside her self-esteem and seek Gao Xiumin for the happiness of herself and her children. She hopes that Gao Xiumin can return He Qingkui to her, because she and the child need him.
However, Gao Xiumin also insisted on not giving in, saying that he could not do without He Qingkui, and their career was on the rise, and it was impossible to give up such a beautiful future easily.
And He Qingkui is also deeply in love with Gao Xiumin, like her talent, from the initial acquaintance and slow tacit understanding, let He Qingkui like every advantage and disadvantage of Gao Xiumin, although Gao Xiumin likes to snore when sleeping, but He Qingkui still likes it very much.
Zhang Yanru has to admit that He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin do have a very high tacit understanding in script cooperation. After the two were together, their careers really got better and better.
Fate did not go her way. No matter how hard she tried, He Qingkui did not change her mind. Ho insisted that leaving was the right choice and that he could not return to his past life. This broke Zhang Yanru's heart, but she still chose to face it strongly and continue to take care of her children and family.
Years later, when He Qingkui returned to her again, she did not complain, but accepted him silently. They spent many years together, and although their careers were not as brilliant as they used to be, they supported each other and faced life's challenges together.
In the end, Zhang Yanru compromised and chose to let He Qingkui pursue her career, she only hoped that she and her children could live a happy life. She did wait for He Qingkui, but the entanglement between these three people lasted for decades, was it really worth it? Zhang Yanru is not wrong, but is He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin's choice really correct?
The feud between the three eventually ended with the death of Gao Xiumin. The relationships between the characters in this story are intricate, and everyone has their own persistence and choices. Perhaps it was the arrangement of fate that allowed them to go through it all together and eventually go their separate ways.
epilogue
Later, He Qingkui gradually withdrew from the public's field of vision. What is indeed embarrassing is that most of our news about him is learned through the live broadcast of his son He Shucheng. He Qingkui is already 75 years old, and at this age, grudges are no longer important.
Now, the original three people are only left with He Qingkui, and everyone can only live their own lives. In the recent video of He Shucheng, we can occasionally see He Qingkui. Although he is old, his mental state is still relatively good.
He has experienced many twists and turns and setbacks, and now is the time to enjoy a life of peace and serenity. I hope he can find inner peace and live a happy old age.