How many days does it take for a child to practice from standing independently for tens of seconds to walking a few meters independently?
1 day? 3 days? 7 days?
Xiao Di (pseudonym)'s answer is: more than 2550 days!
"Recovering from the age of one, sitting steady at the age of three and a half, being able to walk a few steps at the age of six and a half, and being able to walk three or four meters by himself at the age of seven and a half, Xiao Di's childhood was spent in the hospital." Xiao Di's mother left a message on the "Dream Fulfillment 365" micro-wish public welfare platform co-sponsored by Shenzhen Disabled Persons' Federation and Shenzhen News Network.
Di's mother said that the seven-year-old Di is now getting better and better, and he would love to own a children's bicycle and grab his childhood tail to sweat outside the hospital.
Xiao Di's wish is to own a children's bicycle.
When the reporter first met Xiao Di, he was dancing happily and was a very smiling little boy. It is understood that Xiao Di was found to have a genetic mutation at birth, which led to his multiple disabilities such as limbs. But this did not break his will, on the contrary, in the company of his family, he repeatedly carried out rehabilitation training and always maintained a cheerful and optimistic attitude.
"For so many years, there is only one goal of insisting on rehabilitation, that is, I hope that Xiaodi can live independently and become an emotionally stable, gentle and optimistic person." Despite facing such a special child as Xiao Di, Xiao Di's family remains optimistic, "because life has to go on, and I don't want to pass on unhappy emotions to my children." ”
"Every child will have a bicycle in his childhood, and I hope to fulfill his dream and make his childhood more complete." Xiao Di's mother said that when he was doing rehabilitation in the hospital, Xiao Di did the rehabilitation project of "bicycle" (the hospital's bicycles are fixed and cannot walk), and he liked it. Xiao Di's mother told reporters that Xiao Di's upper body stability is okay, if there is someone next to him to assist him without leaving his body, to ensure his safety, after a hundred times of practice, maybe one day he can ride independently.
"With this children's bike, we have one more thing we can do every evening, which is to practice cycling, and when he can ride independently, he can ride with the children." Xiao Di's mother said longingly.
Please scan the QR code above and enter the keyword "bicycle" to claim your wish.
He couldn't hear the world, but he wanted to speak with basketball
Perhaps you can try to imagine that in a misty world, the sun emits the sound of heartbeats, and the clouds will "rattle" like waves and wind. Unable to feel the voice, intonation, or even sound, from the day of birth, some people seem to live in a thick and noisy "fog".
Hengheng (pseudonym) is seven years old and a teenager who loves basketball. At the age of three, his parents found it difficult to receive sound information from the outside world and was later diagnosed with hearing disability grade 3. That is to say, by wearing hearing aids, in daily life, Hengheng can carry out basic communication with his family, but in a strange and noisy environment, he has difficulties in participating in all aspects of social life, due to the lack of a way to connect with the outside world, Hengheng likes to immerse himself in his own world, and is more afraid to interact with people.
Hengheng's wish is to own a basketball.
In the past four years, in order to improve his communication with others, Heng Heng's parents have signed him up for many interest classes, among which basketball is his favorite. "I remember the first time he saw children playing basketball, he showed a strong interest, wanted to play with others but did not dare, forced me to say, I encouraged him over and over again to express, maybe the attraction of basketball is too great, and finally he plucked up the courage to step forward, and thus began his basketball dream." Recalling the first time he came into contact with basketball, Hengheng's mother preached with satisfaction.
Because of this hobby, Hengheng's good friends have increased, and the children who like to play ball in the community have become his partners, everyone plays together, shoots the ball together, runs and trains together, Hengheng becomes cheerful, becomes laughing, loves to make trouble, and life gradually develops in a good direction. Hengheng's mother said: "I used to think that he was too young, we only bought children's basketball, this time I just paid attention to the activities of the 'Dream 365' micro wish public welfare platform, so I filled in the wish of 'professional basketball', hoping that he received gifts from strange uncles and aunts, and could feel everyone's love and love for him, which was a surprise and encouragement for Hengheng."
Please scan the QR code above and enter the keyword "basketball" to claim your wish.
She can't understand the world, but she has smiling eyes
Satsuki likes to write and draw on books and paper, and since there is no suitable study desk at home, sometimes she writes at the dinner table, sometimes lying on the floor, she longs for a set of study desks and chairs that can be lifted and multi-functional.
Xiao Yue, who is 10 years old this year, was judged to be intellectually disabled and now lives with her parents and younger brother. When you first see Satsuki, she will suddenly turn around to observe you, her eyes full of vigilance. But if you start greeting her, she'll look at you and smile. When you try to talk to her, she has no way of understanding and will continue to smile at you. It turns out that Satsuki is also a girl who loves to laugh.
Satsuki has been a quiet child since she was a child, and her parents didn't put much effort into taking her. She was very shy in school and was afraid to raise her hand many times to speak. When I came back, I would say to my mother, "If only I had raised my hand." "The birth of my younger brother has made the family lively, and Satsuki seems to have spoken more than before.
There are many things that Satsuki can't understand, but she has a pair of sensitive eyes, silently observing everything around her, and then imitating it. She likes to be friends with one of the smartest and most lively female classmates in the class, and will subconsciously imitate her movements.
"It was going to be a little harder in previous years." Satsuki's mother said. Satsuki's father worked in a factory, and her mother was at home with two children. When she was a child, Satsuki had a rare disease and spent a lot of money on buying medicine every year. She now attends a special school in Namsan and receives one-on-one special training after school.
"Special training also costs 20,000 yuan a year, and sometimes I feel that I can't afford it, so I want to take a leave," Xiao Yue's mother said, "but if you always take leave, the degree will be gone, so you still have to take it." ”
In previous years, Satsuki would not greet people. Now, she has learned to recognize some common words, and when she sees familiar teachers and classmates, she will happily greet each other. Everything seems to be getting better.
Satsuki's wish is to have a sit-stand desk and chair.
Satsuki's mother applied for a set of tables and chairs at the "Micro Wish" event. The tables and chairs at home were too small, and Satsuki had a hard time writing and drawing on them.
"I don't have any requirements for her in the future, just hope that she can take care of herself." Satsuki's mother said.
Before leaving, the reporter asked Satsuki what she wanted to do in the future? Satsuki didn't understand, but just smiled shyly.
Please scan the QR code above and enter the keyword "desk" to claim your wish.
The "Dream 365" platform calls on you to participate in helping people with disabilities realize their wishes
A book, a table and chair, a basketball, an electronic organ... The "Dream 365" micro-wish public welfare platform, co-sponsored by Shenzhen Disabled Persons' Federation and Shenzhen News Network, is a public welfare platform for friends with disabilities to realize small needs and be careful of wishes. "We hope to understand the real needs of disabled friends through the wishes made by friends with disabilities, and through new media platforms, promote the whole society to pay attention to and care for disabled people, so that love can be put into practice, and work together to build a bridge of 'disability and health integration'." The relevant person in charge of Shenzhen Disabled Persons' Federation said.
According to reports, since the release of the "Dream 365" micro-wish public welfare platform in 2022, more than 1,300 wishes have been collected, of which nearly 500 micro-wishes have been collected since 2023, and about 63 wishes have been adopted by enterprises and institutions, including Shenzhen Lions Club, Shenzhen Revitalization Symphony Development Foundation, Xingfeiyang Health and Education Service Center, etc.
At present, the "Dream 365" micro-wish public welfare platform is open all year round, collecting micro-wishes from disabled friends in Shenzhen who need help. Here, the "Dream 365" micro-wish public welfare platform invites caring people, enterprises and organizations to solve small difficulties for disabled friends, realize their small needs and careful wishes, and become a "small luck" in their lives. With a little love, light up the sky full of stars!
Produced by: Cao Liang
Planning and co-ordination: Lin Weishan
Text: Lin Weishan, Tong Xiaojin, Wei Kunlun
Photography: Feng Muyuan, Zhang Yujie
Poster design: Wang Xiaole
Interns: Li Jiangting, Xie JialangSource: Shenzhen News Network