#记录我的2023#
Aunt Zhao returned from Yanqing this morning, her face full of grievances, she said: "Teacher Li, I really didn't take her money, her son also believed me, but the old lady almost beat me with a stick!" ”
I teased her: "I have endured it for so long before, I have not been wronged, my family is good to you, I don't look at the monk's face to see the Buddha's face, no matter how bad it is, I have to look at the face of money, now I lost my job in the off-season, let's cook for us for free." ”
Aunt Zhao said: "I bought all the tickets, I can't live, I'm too sad, go home first to heal." ”
Aunt Zhao is from Shanxi, 54 years old, with a big grin, especially capable and hard-working, mainly with a good personality, never losing her temper, she has been doing the work of caring for the elderly, and the customers like her.
Because she can eat anything bitter, she does the work that no one does, so when there is a critically ill old man, we first think of her, and she has never complained.
Strange to say, one year she sent away 6 elderly people a year, and her sisters gave her the nickname "Send Old Professional Household".
Since she knew her nickname, Aunt Zhao said that she would not take care of critically ill patients.
I arranged for her to go to Yanqing two years ago, because it is a suburb, far from Beijing, can not rest on Sundays, many aunts do not want to go, Aunt Zhao said: "As long as the old man will not be able to leave for a while, I will go." ”
The customer is the old two, the male old man is in bed, the female old man is completely self-careging, such work is easy to do, as long as he is not afraid of being dirty and tired, sometimes the old man needs to be helped to sit in a wheelchair, Aunt Zhao is tall and effortless.
The people over there in Yanqing are also relatively kind, generally do not look for aunts, when they go, it is summer, the weather over there is still very cool, Aunt Zhao don't mention how happy she is.
After working for two months, Aunt Zhao told me that the old lady had a very bad memory, and she couldn't find things when she put them up by herself, and she was always suspicious.
Aunt Zhao said: "I understand, I just tell you, I take care of many elderly people, I doubt that she will be Alzheimer's?" I want to remind her son that he doesn't know if it's right or not. ”
The symptoms mentioned by the aunt are really the early manifestations of Alzheimer's disease, and drug intervention may delay the speed of dementia, but a complete cure is unlikely.
Later, Aunt Zhao said to the old lady's son, her son said that their family had known for a long time, but the old lady did not cooperate, and the family was afraid to stimulate her, and did not dare to tell her about the condition, only by herself.
Before the old lady had been taking care of her wife, she invited her aunt because she found out that she was sick, and she didn't tell her because her condition was not serious.
The family instructed Aunt Zhao to worry more, and Aunt Zhao said: "Don't worry, who has no parents, who is not old, you can rest assured, I will take care of them like my biological parents, the old lady does not drink medicine, I will adjust her diet and let her eat more fruits and vegetables." ”
Aunt Zhao also did a very good job, scrubbing the old man's body every day, afraid of uncomfortable diapers, so he gave the old man a urine pad, and during the day he had to hold the old man to a wheelchair to bask in the sun, for more than two years, the old man did not get up at all, the old man was often constipated because he could not move, and Aunt Zhao picked him with her hands.
The house is also very clean, there is no peculiar smell at home, cooking is even more careful, the old man himself will not eat, can only play liquid food, she never will, pasta is easy to digest, she is not afraid of trouble, often buns dumplings, steamed buns, noodles, change patterns to make.
The old lady also likes to eat pasta, and Aunt Zhao is afraid that she lacks vitamins, so she tries to make her eat more dishes, and if not, she will make stuffing. The old man often lost three and four, complaining about her from time to time, not that the aunt misplaced, or that the aunt deliberately hid it, and Aunt Zhao was never angry and always tried to make the old lady happy.
The children were very happy when they saw it, and their wages rose from 5,000 to 6,000 in just half a year.
The old man has nothing to do, as long as he takes care of it, but the old lady's condition is still getting more and more serious, especially after the New Year this year, every three to five to find the trouble of the aunt, Aunt Zhao does not know how many times she has secretly cried, every time she said that she wanted to go to the house, as soon as the children said to keep it, she was embarrassed.
She told me that the old lady now lets her push out for a walk every day, at least three times a day, in fact, she can walk, just to toss her aunt. He also did not let the old man use a wheelchair, saying that he was comfortable lying down. More seriously, he was not allowed to eat for the old man, saying that he would eat once a day, and the province would eat and pull.
Although the old man can't move or speak, she knows that she is hungry, and often shouts in the middle of the night that her aunt secretly gives hot food, and the old lady scolds her the next day, saying that she has stolen food.
Scold it, the aunt is silent, just wait for the old lady to pass for a while.
Recently, the old lady can toss more, scolding and not caring about things, so she changed her tricks to torture her aunt, once the aunt pushed her out for a walk, she let the aunt into the supermarket to buy something, and when the aunt came out of the supermarket, she hid alone, the aunt said that she didn't find it for three hours at noon, there was no way the aunt called her son, her son was also angry, and asked the aunt to go home first and leave her alone.
That time, my aunt almost quit, and her son and daughter said that I also did her work before staying.
In a few days, there was a moth again, Aunt Zhao said, at noon the old lady slept, she also lay on the sofa, not yet asleep, the old lady got up and took out the bag to count the money, the aunt knew that it was not good, pretended to be asleep.
In the afternoon, the old lady did not say that her aunt stole her hundred yuan, and told her son that she had a nose and eyes, of course her son did not believe it, but the old lady did not adhere to it, and had to drive her aunt away.
Aunt Zhao is also really sad, she said that the old lady is demented and does not know that I am depressed, I really can't serve her!
This time, the family couldn't help, and paid the aunt an extra month's salary and let the aunt come back.
There is no way for the old man to get sick, but it is really difficult to find someone like Aunt Zhao.