As soon as the baby is on summer vacation, even Wu Jing, the "wolf warrior", can't stand it

In the past two days, I have frequently seen "celebrities take babies for summer vacation" on hot searches!

First of all, Wang Ziwen was photographed flashing on the campus of Harvard University, she was carrying a LOGO eye-catching brand-name large leather bag, and took a generous photo with fans, it turned out that on this trip to the United States, she came to accompany her son to participate in the summer school.

Then, passers-by met Nicholas Tse with his eldest son in Melbourne.

16-year-old Lucas showed half of his face behind his father, the two father and son have been in the same frame for a long time, Nicholas Tse is still cool, according to fans, this time Nicholas Tse brought his son to Australia to ski.

There is also Yang Mi's daughter Xiao Nuomi, who has not appeared for a long time, and her father Liu Kaiwei is taking her on a trip to Niagara Falls, Canada, and in the blink of an eye, the little glutinous rice has grown so tall.

This year is the first year of full opening, netizens can meet celebrities in tourist resorts around the world to take their babies for the summer vacation, it is not unusual, I can only envy them for money and leisure!

But gradually, the style of celebrities with babies on Weibo is a little different, from good mountains, good waters, good scenery, a calm and relaxed to become a little bitter haha!

For example, Wu Jing Xie Nan, the two took two babies and clocked in four cities in China in five days, which can be called a model of special forces-style walking of children.

In a small video posted by Xie Nan, the two couples sat on the floor in the lobby of an indoor amusement hall, both paralyzed, and Xie Nan leaned on her husband's shoulder and took a nap.

Wu Jing's expression is also capitalized "born unloveable", and he personally ran to his wife's Weibo to reply, "Take a baby man, Wu Jing play color".

To say why they have to arrange the itinerary so full, I think a large part of the reason is also out of helplessness, in two days Wu Jing's new play will enter the publicity period, maybe the time to accompany the children during the summer vacation is this week.

If you want to take your children to visit a few more attractions, even Wu Jing, the "wolf warrior", cannot stand it.

However, to say that it is still not as good as Ms. Zhang Lan, she is busy taking her grandson while also opening a live broadcast.

Zhang Lan also looked forward to four full years before finally reuniting with her grandchildren in Japan, and joy was about to overflow the screen.

But her "Ma Liuji" live broadcast business can not be lost, those who have done live broadcasts know that if this industry wants to be profitable, it must be broadcast every day, and it must be fought for a long time, that is, she has to broadcast in a hotel as far away as Japan, and the two babies are behind her as a background board.

However, this kind of "family affection and career two-handed" behavior, netizens are one-sided bad reviews, the main reason is that Zhang Lan is too high-profile, always makes people feel that they want to rub a wave of grandchildren's traffic.

Also taking the baby to work is Ella Chen Jiahua. Compared with Zhang Lan, Ella's small essay explaining why she wants to take her son around is really a wave of favorability. She decided to take her child to work with him before he went to elementary school in September, fly everywhere, experience various lifestyles, meet different people, and experience different things.

Although the son often stays up late to wait for his mother to leave work, and sometimes gets up at 4:30 a.m. to accompany his mother to catch an early flight, for a child less than seven years old, as long as he can accompany his mother, the memory is full of warmth...

After watching a circle of celebrities taking their babies for the summer vacation, I thought that recently, there were always friends who came to pour bitter water with me - "Why do you say this summer vacation is so abusive?" Speaking of which, there is still a lack of money + no time! ”

Gee, not necessarily! Isn't this the best proof of the above?

You see these celebrity parents, firstly, there is no shortage of money, and secondly, time is relatively free. Although the travel destination may be a little higher, there is a saying that "high-quality summer vacation = high-quality companionship", parents all over the world can't run away, they have to do it themselves, invest a lot of effort and time, and also need to make trade-offs and balances between work and raising children.

To sum up, July and August every year are the season of the devil for the old mothers of the whole world.

I took my son to the next city two days ago to participate in a car model competition, accompanied him under the bright sun (outdoor is close to 40 degrees), returned to the hotel in the evening to deal with work news, and began to work on articles after my son fell asleep...

I feel like if I stay one more day, my half life will be there! It just so happened that OK dad was still very busy during the summer vacation, traveling every day, and all the tasks could only be carried by me alone!

Yesterday also received a message from a friend, really empathetic, she said that just stepped into the office in the morning, saw colleagues lying on the desk silently sobbing, it turned out that the elderly at home refused to help pick up the children's training course, she could only bite the bullet herself, drove until she wanted to vomit, only two weeks after this summer vacation, people were about to collapse.

As soon as the summer vacation arrived, the old mother's face was full of sadness, how to let the baby spend this long 2 months, not only can he not let him do nothing, but also pay attention to the combination of work and rest. Also consider manpower, money input costs, and so on...

Before I have shared with you how friends around me plan their children's summer vacation time, and I will share it again this year, let's see if there is anything to learn from, or if you have better arrangements, you are welcome to leave a message to communicate~

Dual-income families: 80% of the problems are solved by solving 8 hours during the day

Nini's mother: 9-year-old half-girl, in the third grade in September, office worker mother

Our family Nini is naturally quite studious, so I have always been a little looking forward to her academically, hoping that the college entrance examination can be smoothly admitted to a good school, so a while ago I saw such a set of pictures circulating on the Internet - the summer vacation of grade X is the most terrible.

It really made me smile when I saw it, isn't it me?

I have always regarded summer vacation as a good time for "special breakthroughs in language", and for the past two years, I have stuffed Nini into the summer nursery school on my doorstep:

First, it is convenient to pick up and drop off, and solve the 8 hours of the day in one breath;

Second, and most importantly, the reason why I didn't choose a summer nursery school from a more affordable school is because of the class on my doorstep, where the teacher will help correct homework and test papers.

Of course, I know in my heart that the summer nursery school can do this step, it is already a ceiling, and it will not be targeted for the child's individual situation in the academic promotion, so the child's special breakthrough in language can only be arranged every night, by me personally. I arrive home at 7 p.m. every night, dig two bites to catch my breath, and start the formal study schedule at 8 p.m.

However, when I planned the summer vacation for Nini, I did not schedule the summer nursery class for 60 days, generally at most two periods, one period for two weeks, just one month. The second month, I signed her up for an independent summer camp, and the rest of the time had nowhere to go, so she could only take it to work.

This is also the helplessness of dual-career families, this year's environment is too bad, and taking leave to accompany the baby is particularly luxurious.

No extra registration, children at home to arrange independently, the same line!

Xiaoyu mother: There is a 10-year-old girl in the family, who is in the fourth grade in September, and is a mother of office workers

Xiaoyu's third-grade career is over, and this year's summer vacation is even more dull than last year, except for Xiaoyu's original two interest classes, dance and pipa continue to learn as usual, the rest is left to her at home to arrange freely.

In fact, last year I signed up for a summer camp in the Children's Palace for her, and I felt that there was no particularly big gain after a holiday, and more still solved the anxiety of "don't be idle at home", so this year, considering that the child's autonomy is also much stronger, and I am not so flustered at home, so how to save trouble and money.

Freedom is not completely hands-off, and I gave her several tasks that must be completed before the summer vacation:

1. Complete on-campus homework; 2. Watch 100 episodes of all-English documentaries and grind your ears; 3. Every week I take her to complete two short essays.

The first two items are handed over to her to complete by herself, small composition is the weak link of Xiaoyu last semester, in writing I am still a little careful as a mother, I will take her to play "improvised small composition class" on weekends to gnaw down this "hard bone".

After these tasks are completed, she can play at home, read a book, or ask a classmate in the community to play.

Before the summer vacation, I made a daily plan▽

It seems that there is a lot of free time, but this observation is quite fulfilling day by day, and I am responsible for taking out garbage, picking up couriers, and mopping the floor at home during the day; She loves to draw, and one painting lasts for an hour or two.

Niche alternative route, seize the time to "play crazy big and small"

Ding Ding's mother: Full-time 2 mothers, the second half of the fifth grade of the older brother, the younger brother is three and a half years old

I am full-time at home with two children, the eldest is in the fifth grade in September, the youngest is only three and a half years old, and the plan for the entire summer vacation may not be the same as many parents and friends around me, and most of the time I plan to "wave" on the road.

In the past two years of summer vacation, I have arranged family outings, that is, I and my husband take turns driving, sit in the back row of two children, and find a place with good scenery and no sun to travel in depth, usually about 20 days.

This year I want to be ruthless, because my husband can't take leave, I just don't have to worry about his time, it doesn't matter if I am out for two months, so this time I plan 40 days.

At the end of June, as soon as my brother finished the exam, I dragged the two children and set off alone.

I first took two male dolls to Sichuan, Giant Panda Base, Zigong Dinosaur Base, Leshan Buddha, Sanxingdui, various museums, and it took 15 days to walk around like this.

The self-driving trip during the summer vacation sounds like a walk-and-go trip, but in fact, I started preparing and planning 1 month in advance. I will buy books and picture books related to the destination in advance, and I will also discuss with my brother how to plan the trip, after all, he is almost in the fifth grade, and he is about to catch up with his mother, and he feels like a little adult.

However, I want to say that I use travel to arrange summer vacation is not because of how rich life is, but mainly a plan based on the actual situation of our family, because I have to take care of my brother at home and cook three meals a day, so I can't make a schedule exclusive to my brother's summer arrangement, but if I don't arrange my brother, a lot of his time will be wasted playing with toys and watching TV, I may not be able to watch it, and my mood will be bad, so it's better to go outside and take a look.

In addition, I also urge him to write a diary every day, record the bits and pieces of the journey, play meaningfully, and travel thousands of miles to read ten thousand books.

Ok Mom finally said:

Two days ago, I saw a division table of "fourth-class" summer vacation in the circle of friends:

The first-class summer vacation is a Harvard summer school like Wang Ziwen;

Second-class summer vacation is an elite aristocratic summer camp;

The third-class summer vacation is a top student mode, brushing IELTS TOEFL;

The fourth-class summer vacation is home squatting, training courses, interspersed with domestic parent-child tours.

But I still feel that each family's specific goals, resource allocation, and economic structure are different, so just look at this kind of table, don't take it too seriously!

You can also talk in the comment area, what form of summer vacation does your baby have?