It is human nature to love beauty, and if you can, no one wants their appearance to be ugly. Most of those who emphasize inner beauty have not given up on themselves, but feel powerless because it is too difficult to change their appearance.
I have shared too many exquisite bloggers with you on weekdays, they seem to be naturally beautiful, and ordinary people are difficult to reach in their lifetimes.
Then this issue will share with you an amateur mother, she, like all inconspicuous mothers in reality, in the two years after giving birth, unpretentious, put in the pile of people will not be noticed at all, but she did not give up on herself, but spent 8 years to transform herself, and finally successfully counterattacked.
First, an ordinary mother's counterattack road
The reason why this mother is amazing is not how pompous she is compared before and after, there are many good-looking people in the world. Rather, she is like most people, ordinary and ordinary, without a legendary background such as Goldfinger and strong financial resources.
She is an ordinary clerk in a small company working from 9 to 5, and after giving birth, most of her resources are spent on dolls, she is thrifty to herself, and she is reluctant to spend money on beautiful clothes on weekdays. The early image was a typical black dwarf round, puffy face, convex mouth and thin teeth, and it was common to be ridiculed as "potatoes".
But it happened that her old classmate opened a clothing store downstairs of her company, and it happened that her work was free, the time and place did not need to be fixed, and she could leave the workstation after finishing the task at hand, so she would help her old classmate take care of the store in her spare time, and exchange labor for clothing.
In this way, she worked in the clothing store for 8 years, and for the first five years she did not pay much attention to herself, only labor. However, she has been in contact with some high-quality women for many years, and the other party's words and deeds and aesthetics have deeply moved her, and she has seen too many possibilities in those people, brave, confident, independent, free, and life can be so colorful.
did not find that over the years, under the invisible influence, she has long been not the boring mother who only revolves around the baby at two points, both in appearance and inside, she has been greatly improved. Paying attention to the world, loving life, starting sports, and taking the baby to the dentist while correcting his teeth.
In this way, we have the opportunity to see the transformation of an ordinary woman and become synonymous with beauty.
Second, explore the beauty and find your own positioning
Becoming beautiful is a long process, and it is not something you can look good immediately by changing your clothes. In order to become beautiful, this mother actually made a lot of attempts. At the beginning, her transformation situation was like this ↓
Compared with the previous period, it has changed, but it is still more conservative, and the clothing is basically black, white and gray. It can be seen that he is not particularly courageous.
Later, when she started to work out, her back thinned inch by inch, her shoulders and arms tightened, she found that her lines were so beautiful.
This made her very happy and began to put on the suspenders↓
Those vivid colors that once seemed too bright to try↓
As everyone knows, in fact, people with dark skin like her are most suitable to wear this bright color. Only by controlling light with darkness and canceling each other out can a balance be achieved.
After becoming beautiful, not only the appearance and form have undergone tremendous changes, but in this process of becoming beautiful, she has learned patience and persistence, honed her heart, and finally her efforts are proportional to her gains, and her heart has become rich, so that she becomes more confident and brave, and her attitude towards life will be completely different.
I think the biggest gain from this mother's counterattack is to know yourself, change yourself, accept yourself, and finally become a better person.
Third, dressing: the fastest way for women to improve their temperament
Whether a person loves to dress up or not, dressing is as necessary as eating, since it is a must, why not dress beautifully? When the outside is good-looking, the heart is happy, and the spirit is much better, the temperament is of course improved.
(1) Color matching
How a person's taste is, color matching is the easiest to see.
If you want to get dressed, the colors can't be messy. Everyone knows the trick of no more than three colors, but how to make the whole full with the least number of colors is a difficult point.
First look at saturation and brightness, when you choose clothing with rich colors but dark colors, the upper body must retain enough blanks.
The clothes are directly connected with the face, which plays a role in lighting, and if the color of the clothes is dull, the face will inevitably be affected and dull, thus appearing bad. It can reduce the wrap between the shoulders and neck, exposing some skin, connecting naturally and maintaining light. Such as large necklines, narrow sleeves/suspenders.
Then, the colors cannot be beautiful, they have to be connected to create a sense of unity.
At this time, you can use some color contrast/color echo and other ways to match, such as the main color monotonous and large area, together to look boring, then through some details of the same color system to create, so that the upper and lower left and right can echo each other. Each section is spaced and the center of gravity is there.
Thirdly, makeup also has a great influence on a costume. When the clothes you wear cannot highlight their own advantages and make people dull, then lipstick must be able to light up the whole. For example, some light tones or heavy colors, one is not showy, the other is too pressuring skin tone, then choose a stronger lipstick, it is a perfect fit.
(2) Curve
Whether the clothes are good or not, not to see how beautiful it is, the key is to be able to set off the subject.
Each person is different, preferences are different, but the mainstream aesthetic is not bad, no matter what style, you must pay attention to the proportion of the body, with 3:7 opening is the most superior.
Clothes are cinched in as much as possible at the waist, or choose a short style to raise the waistline, as long as the legs can be extended, you can definitely show high.
At this time, it should be noted that loose pants should be close to the mouth of the shoe and long enough so as not to show thick legs; Tight pants should show the ankles and retain a certain degree of skin exposure, so as not to appear tight and cumbersome. Freshness is also one of the conditions that determine the temperament of the whole person.
(3) Accessories
There are certain conditions, wear clothes with as many accessories as possible to match, rather than choose clothing with complex designs.
The stronger the sense of design, the more impatient it is, easy to be outdated, and it looks rustic if it is not worn well. And the basic model seems to be unremarkable, in fact, it is the best match, the category of jewelry, directly determines the overall style.
Mature and exquisite dress, accessories choose a style with strong lines, enhance the heroism, look more powerful.
Fashionable and delicate dress, you can use some small pieces such as scarves / shawls to increase the soft atmosphere, which not only retains the mature charm of women, but also has a touch of sweetness, making people delicate but not charming.
The hat is a rare practical good, whether it is ugly hair or bad face shape, it can be perfectly modified, and the most important thing is that as a part of the matching, it can echo the whole through its own shape and color, making the image fuller.
Finally, I want to say that there are few people in the world who are naturally good-looking, and everyone has their own flaws after removing makeup. People who look beautiful on the outside have never given up on themselves, and only then do they show an effortless beauty by exploiting their strengths and avoiding their weaknesses. LZ
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