Recently, some netizens said: If the women's clothing store continues to roll, we adults should go to the children's clothing store to buy clothes.
Who would have thought that Zhang Xinyu, who is 169cm tall and weighs 100 pounds, was PUA by a women's clothing.
"I like a brand of clothes, but I can't even wear his big size."
Some time ago, actress Zhang Xinyu publicly complained on Weibo.
It is clear that her figure is normal, and as a female star, she also pays great attention to diet and body management, but she is still turned away.
Can't help but sigh, this year, all rolled up like this?
The comment area also gathered many people's complaints.
It turns out that such things are already so common.
I want to find a normal piece of clothing, but I find that this "normal" is not the other "normal".
Such an increasingly outrageous aesthetic has long penetrated into everyone's side.
Creamy wind, whose eyes are dirty?
Milk spicy style, as the name suggests, milky + sexy hot outfit.
To put it bluntly, it is to compare the mature dress of adult women to a little girl with a childlike face.
The first to catch fire because of the "milk and spicy wind" was the mother of a 4-year-old girl.
She shares her daughter's outfit online.
Pink off-the-shoulder hip skirt with slanted shoulders and a small black satchel.
White lace suspenders, pure black tight skirt, necklace, earrings, high heels...
In the picture, the mother also specially teaches the girl to take strange poses.
Cocking hips, twisting waist, supporting walls, throwing eyes...
Soon, the post went viral.
There were many people in the comment area, and there were many people, and the voices were divided into two groups.
Some people commented: Milk spicy? Parents are sick, this is playing on the sidelines;
Some people say: I really can dress up children, it's so good-looking.
In the face of criticism, the blogger showed the banner of "freedom of dressing".
She replied to netizens: You are interfering with other people's freedom to dress!
This matter is very noisy.
However, it does not prevent "milk spicy wind" from becoming a new trend.
I don't know if I really think it's good-looking, or I smell the traffic, and many bloggers have successively posted "milk and spicy wind" girls.
There have always been voices of resistance, but the more fierce the scolding, the more popular it became.
Gradually, we see mature young girls everywhere in our lives.
On the subway, the girl leaned against the corner of the carriage, with a floral skirt and white stockings. Accompanying text:
"It is said that this is the style that the old father does not allow his daughter to wear. I don't care, anyway, Mama likes the look. ”
On the street, a little girl dressed in a tight dress.
The photo exudes a feminine charm that belongs to adult women.
At school, elementary school students wear black silk to shuttle through the campus.
It is undeniable that the milk spicy wind still affects many parents.
They insist on themselves and dress their children as adults.
As soon as the "milk and spicy wind" blows, the merchants selling women's clothing will naturally not let go of this outlet.
Dressing up a girl as a woman has become a traffic password.
That allows girls to wear sexy clothes, pose femininely, and use this method to sell clothes, the benefits should not be bad.
So we can see some weird children's clothing samples on the Internet.
Maybe children don't understand what this means.
But I believe that every adult with independent thinking ability can know the intention of this at a glance and what it means.
Therefore, it is not an exaggeration to call it "sexualized young girls".
This is the morbid aesthetic that is born from the perspective of adults, male gaze is the center.
I thought that this shameless behavior of objectifying women and taking girls' attention would be severely spurned.
But sadly, the phrase "respect aesthetic differences and respect for freedom of dressing" has swept the Internet and become a weapon to fight back.
What is the essence of "milk spicy wind"? Who is behind this manipulation and pushing? Leave it all right.
A phrase of "freedom of dressing" travels all over the world.
For example, I saw people questioning under a post:
"It is said that you can dress freely and dress freely, why can't it be done to children?"
There are also people who think that everyone's aesthetics are different, why don't they wear it because some people say that they are "sexualized young girls"?
It's not that you can't do it, it's not that you can't wear it.
It is the righteous and awe-inspiring "freedom of dressing" and "aesthetic differences" in our mouths, which have nothing to do with children.
Thinking about the whole thing, does the child really have the freedom to choose and express in it?
To put it bluntly, "milk spicy wind" was to meet the aesthetics of adults from the beginning and meet the flow.
Is it really beautiful? Is it really liked by children?
Not necessarily.
The product of this deformity not only leads to a distorted aesthetic, but also exacerbates the survival risks of girls and women.
In 2021, the non-profit organization Girls' Protection released a set of data that concluded: "In the past year, an average of 1.5 children were sexually assaulted every day, and the youngest victim was only 2 years old".
The data is dry, but behind it is the heavy life of the girls.
And the social anger is getting heavier and heavier, and the heavy story is only increasing.
The frequent exposure of sexual assault cases of girls is enough to explain everything.
"Just because there are bad people in this world, we can't wear suspenders?"
I see this comment often.
I think this sentence obscures the point.
We resist the spicy wind, not against the suspenders, against freedom and beauty.
It is to resist "sexualizing young girls".
Resist the practice of consuming children to get traffic.
Resist the act of turning naïve children into objects of sexual gaze.
They're just children.
Child model, a big business
In fact, the children's clothing market is moving closer to the adult world, and there are already clues.
In 2019, a video of a child model shooting scene was exposed.
In the video, a two- or three-year-old girl is kicked for putting down the basket in her hand, and it is her biological mother who kicks her.
As a result, the chaos of the child model market was unveiled.
In Zhili Town, Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province, the child model market has developed rapidly and is quite large.
The good-looking, well-behaved children were sent to a training class to learn how to pose and interact with the camera, and then their parents were sent to the shooting base to rush one by one.
In a video interview, someone familiar with the matter said: "Disobedience will be beaten, it is normal to be taught. ”
In the video that flowed out, there were also girls who were pushed hard because they were slow.
The opposite of such rigor is the huge amount of work overloaded.
In the circle of friends of the girl's mother that netizens picked up later, it can be seen that the child took almost 400 pieces of clothes in four days, and the highest one day was 119 pieces.
You can imagine what a busy spin this is.
The child model world follows the law of the jungle in adult society, and the child who was originally like a blank piece of paper is also pulled into utilitarian and vulgar logic, and there is nowhere to escape.
But what is even more alarming is that four years have passed, child models have not only not been seriously controlled, but have been put on more and more sexy clothes.
They learn to "scratch their heads" too early, becoming objects to be watched and stared at on the product page.
And these subtle pictures have blown the trend of "milk and spicy wind" outward, and more and more parents are scrambling to push their daughters into Vanity Fair, naked to endure the scrutinizing gaze.
These gazes are not simple nor friendly.
Under such circumstances, it is really impossible for people to shout a word of "freedom to dress" for them.
Similar to the situation of child models, there are child stars.
The world's hottest child actress, Shirley Temple, was later considered one of the victims of Hollywood's "child predators". She has been sexually harassed by producers and has acted in sexually suggestive adult scenes in various films.
In many clips, she expresses her affection to adult men, or is extremely close to them, receiving suggestive touches.
At the age of 22, she quit showbiz. She later wrote in her autobiography:
"Hollywood's number one problem is pedophilia, and it's always been that way. I was surrounded by them when I was 14. I didn't know what they were until I grew up, I didn't realize what they were and what they wanted, and the people around me were like vultures."
When they were young girls, they were still ignorant, and they could still smile at the camera without knowing the world, but when they recalled those moments as adults, they probably only had a lingering horror.
You know, the surroundings of children are never safe.
According to data released by the Supreme People's Procuratorate, between 2017 and 2019, the number of people prosecuted by the procuratorate for suspected sexual assault of minors reached 43,400.
And that's just the number of prosecutions, and in the shadows, those who don't call the police, will only be more.
But sadly, many parents never seem to be aware of this unease.
They self-righteously dress children in milky and sweet wind, and strip away their innocence in the sexiness of small suspenders and hip-wrapped skirts.
Young children live in completely blank sex education, but are stared at, browsed, commented on thousands of times...
Onlookers, young girls who are sexualized
And when we enter the corner of the Internet to re-examine the young children under those lenses, we will find a more terrifying closed loop:
Children's clothing becomes a 1:1 miniature replica of women's clothing; Child models are forced to work from an early age, and their health and safety are not guaranteed; On various platforms, more young girls are dragged into the adult world to watch and reward.
Some little girls don't look like they're in kindergarten, lying in their naked father's arms, saying, "Can I call you husband?" "The speech and posture are suspicious, and it doesn't look like a father and daughter relationship at all.
Some people even deliberately bring the title of "the daughter is the little lover of the father's last life" to deliberately guide the child to compete.
Teenage children will shout to their mothers: "Without me, your husband will run early!" ”
In the face of the fruit sent by her mother, her daughter will stare coldly at the side, as if she is jealous, forcing her father to choose between herself and her mother.
Even if it is a normal handshake, it will be warned by the "daughter" fiercely, and the "father" is not allowed to show favor to others.
There are many more uncomfortable plots like this.
In these videos, the friction between the father and daughter seems to have become some kind of traffic password, just to satisfy the perverted imagination of adult men.
In some comment areas, the mouth is full of sexual suggestion:
It's just that the young girls who perform according to the script will be judged for no reason, scolded as green tea,, and scheming...
The dirt and dirtiness of the adult world are instilled into the world of children, making a paradise for soft.
This is true of young girls who do not know the world, but what about slightly older girls who can receive Internet information?
A horror story is that this group of Internet natives are learning bad aesthetics and values from short videos.
In the tag of #Female junior high school student#, someone deliberately tightened and cut the T-shirt short, revealing the sexual characteristics that have not yet fully developed, and painstakingly concave into an adult.
They quickly learned to move the camera and shoot angles, and skillfully posed for the camera in anticipation of gaining traffic and attention.
The floral deep V skirt and the S-shaped waist shot in the mirror, if you don't see the full face, you can't imagine a teenager.
At the same time, their accompanying text is also shocking: welfare / pure desire / black silk...
The immature body was wrapped in large-scale clothing, which was mass-produced in short videos and became a casual appetizer for men.
After reading the above, it is no wonder that some people rampantly said: "The most difficult points to adjust have been adjusted in the Internet era." ”
You see, this is not freedom to dress, but an endless cycle of sexual exploitation:
The child model wears an unfashionable mature costume and shows a thousand styles to the camera; Soft maximizes traffic and allows people with intentions to make profits; The mutated aesthetic invades the territory of minors and completes a subtle admonition to them.
In the book "Becoming a Woman's Choice", Chizuko Ueno talks about "the consciousness of being an 'object of male desire'" in a conversation.
"Shinda: I think so too. Some three-year-old girls deliberately make gestures that make men feel like she is seducing. Maybe they all got their father's affirmation to do this.
Ueno: When daughters become aware of their value in the eyes of men, mothers will notice that they will be colorful, flattering, and shocked."
Yes, countless young girls who put on hot girl clothes without knowing how to understand it, they still don't know what beauty is and what is sexy; Before understanding the nature of life and the chaos of fame and fortune, he has transformed himself into a deformed container under the male aesthetic, holding a malicious gaze.
Why are we so sensitive to the sexualization of children's clothing?
Because we all know that this is the beginning of a slippage.
It turns girls into a patchwork of sexual desire symbols, smearing a blank piece of paper with the dirtiest colors, and they are so weak and ignorant that they have not even learned to protect themselves, let alone resist.
So in the tide, they have no chicken power, they can only go down the river.
So don't pull what children also have the freedom to show, don't start with minors, this should be the bottom line of society.
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